sending me a drink aint appeasing....believe me !!

I swear i hate the guys in ny city!! They hav no swag no nothin...its sad... n they def dnt kno how to treat a woman... smh ima be single for the rest of my life if i have to live here ... smh.. lol

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where do you live?

Dayton ohio!! Smh

Have you considered moving?

Still Pretty Vahn said:

Dayton ohio!! Smh

Go easy on the men, if the venue is a 'club' that's what you'll get and it's a nice gesture. It's when they grab you while you're walking by and shat that I have a problem with. Switch it up and find different social settings in your city to frequent and you'll find men with more acceptable behavior.

 

 Stop taking the club so serious it not a place to look for a boyfriend or girlfriend. It's a place to have fun with people. If a guy buys you a drink thank him and keep it moving. On the real no man owes any woman a drink.

swag died a while back...but i digress

I never send a random woman a drink at a club..for one 3/4 of the time you got in free, its ladies night,and your drinks are already comp'd. So what would some small drink for me mean anyways..

Plus I dont need to get a woman half drunk to holla.

When i say swag i mean own identity! N yes i plan on moving soon!! I work in the clubs on weekends... n guys hit on me non stop... all im sayin is if u send me a drink dnt try to talk to me it takes more then a drink... send me a drink to be friendly.. thats all

great point

 
Tone said:

 

 Stop taking the club so serious it not a place to look for a boyfriend or girlfriend. It's a place to have fun with people. If a guy buys you a drink thank him and keep it moving. On the real no man owes any woman a drink.

I dnt look for boyfriends in the club... i dnt even go out... i just get annoyed shen ppl try to talk to me... knowing they dnt hav a chance... sending a drink is ok... but let it be friendly not how u think u gon get my number...




Tone said:

 

 Stop taking the club so serious it not a place to look for a boyfriend or girlfriend. It's a place to have fun with people. If a guy buys you a drink thank him and keep it moving. On the real no man owes any woman a drink.

 

 How are they going to know that they don't have a chance? 

 


Still Pretty Vahn said:

I dnt look for boyfriends in the club... i dnt even go out... i just get annoyed shen ppl try to talk to me... knowing they dnt hav a chance... sending a drink is ok... but let it be friendly not how u think u gon get my number...




Tone said:

 

 Stop taking the club so serious it not a place to look for a boyfriend or girlfriend. It's a place to have fun with people. If a guy buys you a drink thank him and keep it moving. On the real no man owes any woman a drink.

men dont do anything just to be "friendly". I mean, the protocol in a club is for a man to offer to buy a drink as an opening to talk to you.

If not buying a drink, how does a man get your number? Im just curious.
 
Still Pretty Vahn said:

I dnt look for boyfriends in the club... i dnt even go out... i just get annoyed shen ppl try to talk to me... knowing they dnt hav a chance... sending a drink is ok... but let it be friendly not how u think u gon get my number...




Tone said:

 

 Stop taking the club so serious it not a place to look for a boyfriend or girlfriend. It's a place to have fun with people. If a guy buys you a drink thank him and keep it moving. On the real no man owes any woman a drink.

Im sorry but sending me a drink doesnt do anything for me... i mean its nice n ill except it... but dht think ur getgin my number or even willing to be ur friend.... if u lived where i live n was at some of the place i work at u wojld understand! Im not working at upscale spots ... usually the guys that come are dboys or bums trying to get a rap career... so no i dnt want u... i think i look like i hav some class about myself... u can complement me n keep it moving no need for conversation ... thats how i feel.. sorry

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