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Permalink Reply by MissBling on April 7, 2012 at 6:02pm

Good luck with that hun!! If he sends you a drink, he views it as an investment lol! You know if a mofo that didn't buy you a drink in the club will try to holla... The man that does, feels he is entitled. If you take the drink you should go over and say thank you and tell him you have a man if he tries to holla or don't accept it at all. Most men aren't exactly looking for friends in the club tho'..

Still Pretty Vahn said:

When i say swag i mean own identity! N yes i plan on moving soon!! I work in the clubs on weekends... n guys hit on me non stop... all im sayin is if u send me a drink dnt try to talk to me it takes more then a drink... send me a drink to be friendly.. thats all

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 7, 2012 at 9:38pm

you can't be above the people the places you go too. I can't shop at wal Mart then clown other shoppers can I?
Still Pretty Vahn said:

Im sorry but sending me a drink doesnt do anything for me... i mean its nice n ill except it... but dht think ur getgin my number or even willing to be ur friend.... if u lived where i live n was at some of the place i work at u wojld understand! Im not working at upscale spots ... usually the guys that come are dboys or bums trying to get a rap career... so no i dnt want u... i think i look like i hav some class about myself... u can complement me n keep it moving no need for conversation ... thats how i feel.. sorry

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on April 7, 2012 at 11:00pm

UMMM, yes you can..why you say you can't?
 
Tone said:

you can't be above the people the places you go too. I can't shop at wal Mart then clown other shoppers can I?
Still Pretty Vahn said:

Im sorry but sending me a drink doesnt do anything for me... i mean its nice n ill except it... but dht think ur getgin my number or even willing to be ur friend.... if u lived where i live n was at some of the place i work at u wojld understand! Im not working at upscale spots ... usually the guys that come are dboys or bums trying to get a rap career... so no i dnt want u... i think i look like i hav some class about myself... u can complement me n keep it moving no need for conversation ... thats how i feel.. sorry

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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on April 7, 2012 at 11:33pm

I think you should accept the drinks and be open to meeting the senders, new people. There is nothing wrong with conversation. You may learn something from them. It does not have to be physical just because they bought u a drink. Have fun and leave it at that.

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Permalink Reply by Still Pretty V on April 8, 2012 at 12:48am

Id rather skip the convo... im not in the club to meet friends or to find a bf... some guys kno im out there league... i dnt think im all that but i hab alot goin for myself... so dnt waste ur time or mine... a drink is a nice gesture ...dnt get me wrong but do it to be nice not to get my number or think im hold a convo wit u... im cool

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Permalink Reply by Still Pretty V on April 8, 2012 at 12:51am

Thats like if u try to help out bu feeding the homeless... n they allllll try to talk to u... thats not what ur there for...except what ur giving n keep it moving.... ijs... ur not thrre looking for a woman




MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

UMMM, yes you can..why you say you can't?
 
Tone said:

you can't be above the people the places you go too. I can't shop at wal Mart then clown other shoppers can I?
Still Pretty Vahn said:

Im sorry but sending me a drink doesnt do anything for me... i mean its nice n ill except it... but dht think ur getgin my number or even willing to be ur friend.... if u lived where i live n was at some of the place i work at u wojld understand! Im not working at upscale spots ... usually the guys that come are dboys or bums trying to get a rap career... so no i dnt want u... i think i look like i hav some class about myself... u can complement me n keep it moving no need for conversation ... thats how i feel.. sorry

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Permalink Reply by Goldie F***'n Fish on April 8, 2012 at 5:10am

The reason you work at this club is because you represent this standard for the club atmosphere. Chances are you were hired because you were hot. You probably look better than 80% of the female patrons. It's sad but you have to chock it up to being part of the job...

I hate it when they grab my ass. That s*** p***** me off. I've smacked a few dudes in the back of their heads....It p***** me off so much I think about quitting every night.

Still Pretty Vahn said:

I dnt look for boyfriends in the club... i dnt even go out... i just get annoyed shen ppl try to talk to me... knowing they dnt hav a chance... sending a drink is ok... but let it be friendly not how u think u gon get my number...




Tone said:

 

 Stop taking the club so serious it not a place to look for a boyfriend or girlfriend. It's a place to have fun with people. If a guy buys you a drink thank him and keep it moving. On the real no man owes any woman a drink.

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