For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
Just finished having a conversation with someone who said they were going celibate, and I asked them why. She told me that she didnt want sex clouding her judgement. I called her weak as hell if she allowed that to have power over you. To me sex is physical entertainment...nothing more nothing less. Yes intimacy can be thrown in there, but still its a physical act that we use to reproduce. So I put no credence on the matter....how bout u
Nothing wrong with her and she is not weak. Men are said to take sex differently, they get their nut regardless of what a woman looks like or whatever. To please a woman on the other hand you gotto be skillful, you should be her "type", with the right approach which is rare. We have to go through bad f****, dumb f****, pain in the ass f**** etc and when we get a good one, it's hard to tell him no, because you know there are plenty of bad f**** running around and chances that you get another one who can hit the spot just right or eat the cooch to make you come are slim to none. I was celibate for 3 years at some point, even though I can easy drop a good d***, if it's attached to a dickhead, I still was tired of all bs and trust me it made life much easier, I could sort mofos without second thought.
And I agree with Sheli, so many men risk their lives hitting raw, cheating on their spouses etc, there is even a saying that men think with their d***, so for real men's judgement gets clouded more often and cooch doesn't even have to be good.
We all have weakness and I admire her for recognizing hers and doing something about it. Sex can be a weakness for some men and women. Look at Clinton, he seems to have had issues with whoring around from birth. Look at Elizabeth Taylor she broke up marriages just to fulfill her needs. Sex is not an issue for me. I would NEVER cheat on a husband or fiance. I don't play those kind of games. But I can be weak in other areas. I still battle insecurities because of a rough upbringing.
On top of that. Females must be "choosey" lest we become labeled a heaux by the same man asking for the cooch. It's a lose/lose for us. You want the panties...we give it up (easily) because we both want it...and then she's a hooker for giving you what you wanted. -___- Men don't really know what they want and this (among other posts) is proof.