For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
I used to watch them for "educational purposes", but they're all really bad now. I often feel bad for the girls in them because they're high or drunk, and some of these performers are so young. It's also made me begin to dislike BM/WF relationships because they make the men in the movies look like predators, as if these poor little white girls wouldn't sleep with such degenerates. And why do they eat these white girls out like they're candy, but just spit on a black woman's p**** and start pounding on it? I know it shouldn't be that serious, but it really disturbs me. I dated a black guy that could only get hard to that kind of porn and it really, really broke my heart because there's something broken inside of him if that's the ONLY thing that can turn him on.
Now, I will admit I have a girl crush on Vanessa Blue. She always appears lucid and like she's enjoying herself.
I've also learned d*** sucking must be hard for some people because a lot of porn stars just moan and spit and all over it, but don't use their mouths for much else. Aren't people paying to see a show? If a man wants to see a bad blow job I'm sure he could just get that home.
NOPE, not at all. Most Pornographic movies are made to cater to a male audience, so that means that 80-90% of pornographic movies display scenes that depict women being completely dominated, brutalized, mildly raped, or mildly gang raped. That's not sex.
Many of these women use cocaine, and other drugs, JUST TO GET THROUGH A SCENE. Then afterwords, these women suffer from various infections because they're doing anal to mouth contact, anal to vaginal contact, or because they have gotten various bodily fluids in their eyes. So because of all this abuse, and misuse of sexuality, combined with drugs, the suicide rate is sky high in the adult industry, even for the men.
So with that said, this is the LAST place you want to learn how to have sex because these people are committing unnatural and harmful sex acts (in order to shock the viewers). Seriously, take a good look at the women in the scenes, do they look happy to you? Many of them HATE IT but they do it because they need the money. BTW, most porn is made in San Fernando Valley, Ca and many of those men and women were just regular people who wanted to make it in Hollywood but they could not pay the bills so they went into porn. If you have time you should check out Shauna Grants story, she is the CLASSIC example of how women wind up in porn, she later shot and killed herself. I tried to give leave a link but somebody took it down. It was called 'Death of a Porn Star."
Anyhow, real sex education is this: http://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Secrets-Twentieth-Anniversary-Alchemy/...
lol, I was reading some of it last night. It's just too much to go into with this book, I don't even know where to start.
Ashley Banks said:I dated a black guy that could only get hard to that kind of porn and it really, really broke my heart because there's something broken inside of him if that's the ONLY thing that can turn him on.
Porn is SO easily accessible (i.e, internet) that young children are pretty much being introduced to it as soon as they hit puberty. And let me tell you, it's the same with the girls, my last GF GREW UP on porn (her dad had cable and did not block any channels; WTH?!) and since that was her only sex education, and because she watched so much of it, when she romantically interacted with a real person (me), she wanted to reenact some of the scenes with me as if it was a normal thing to do.
She wanted me to throw her against the wall (I never agreed to do that!), or when I was having sex with her she wanted me to treat her like s*** and call her names and such (I called her names but I did not like to do it).She was also open to a 3 way with another girl (never did it). Well, this is SEX, to her, because of porn.
I will say this, a woman's addition to porn is nothing compared to men, men can just lose their minds to this stuff because the testosterone (and prolly something to do with dopamine too) just keeps driving them back to watch it. They say, it's so bad now that young males don't talk to women as much anymore because they can just relieve themselves through porn. In other words, you have a whole generation of young men j****** off to computer screens while women are alone, single, at home looking for a date. Also, when these men do have sex with real woman, for many of them it's just not the same because with real sex, the woman is not as "perfect," and the sex is not as violent, and abusive as to what they have normally seen.
But the effect is not making men into raving beasts. On the contrary: The onslaught of porn is responsible for deadening male libido in relation to real women, and leading men to see fewer and fewer women as “porn-worthy.”
I've learned a couple things from them, but your partner is the best teacher. Everyone likes different things, so you have to be in tune with that person to know what they like, and they have to be in tune with you to know what you like. Me and my ex had sex for 7 years, and one day out of the blue, he spit on my jewel box while he was eating it out. I did not like that s***, and I knew he had picked it up from some random flick and thought that s*** would be hot.
Likewise, I notice in a lot of flicks, chicks make those gagging sounds on the D, and I have yet to meet a dude in real life who thinks that is hot.
So yeah, I guess u can learn some stuff, but use discretion.