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Should I answer my phone?

My ex and I stopping talking like a year and a half ago. It wasn't nothing bad. We started seeing other people and moved on. We had a very good relationship. I had feelings for him. Well, earlier I missed his call, and he's called 3x since then. Why am I nervous? I don't to lose the friendship.Everything with my main man is good. I also don't want him to think he's got like that where he call whenever he wants and so fourth.I just need a little dose of wisdom from the ladies.

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on April 27, 2012 at 8:07am

So you havent spoken to him in 1.5 years and now he's blowing you up. I would see what he wants. He could be trying to tell you that he's been diagnosed with 'something' *shrug*

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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on April 27, 2012 at 8:13am

Yeah, I found myself calling one of my ex's, who I hadn't seen in over a year, because I was having a nervous breakdown. I really just needed to talk to someone who knew me and genuinely cared for me. He may need you. I say answer. If he doesn't hurry up and get to the point or, if what he has to say isn't important, just say you have to do something and you will call him back (never call him back however)

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on April 27, 2012 at 9:24am

I agree with Babyballer & Smitty... There may be a reason for his call...

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on April 27, 2012 at 11:45am

Don't forget to come back and tell us what he wanted. What? You know we are nosy. lol

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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on April 27, 2012 at 11:54am

Yes answer. you can always hang up if you do not like the content of his conversation.

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Permalink Reply by Sheli on April 27, 2012 at 12:03pm

We're so damn nosey!!! But yeah answer it and if he doesn't want anything tell him to stop blowing your phone up like the world is ending.

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Permalink Reply by MissBling on April 27, 2012 at 1:10pm

Sooo, he's not even leaving a message? Definitely pick up and definitely let us know what he said lol!

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 27, 2012 at 2:01pm

He just want to beat and he calling all the women that he thinks he can get some from with out doing much work

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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on April 27, 2012 at 2:45pm

lol....maybe some truth to that..i mean summer is upon us

Tone said:

He just want to beat and he calling all the women that he thinks he can get some from with out doing much work

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on April 27, 2012 at 5:47pm

i agree w/ tone & black. That was the 1st thing I thought of

blackfujones said:

lol....maybe some truth to that..i mean summer is upon us

Tone said:

He just want to beat and he calling all the women that he thinks he can get some from with out doing much work

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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on April 27, 2012 at 9:31pm

We finally talked.He was just calling to tell me he was gonna move out the state. He wasn't sure where? He's got homes and property all over. Not sure when he's leaving though.I'm glad he called me now tho.I wasn't surprised tho.

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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on April 29, 2012 at 5:37pm

We talked again and he told me he has been in a relationship for about a year. He also told me he's not happy and he realizes his girl only wants him for the money. He's tried of her and she is really selfish and they have other issues. She has big mouth, no respect, can't have kids because her age, and also hates that he's close with his mom and sisters. She doesn't know how to act in public and won't let him be himself and have his freedom? How should I respond?