My ex and I stopping talking like a year and a half ago. It wasn't nothing bad. We started seeing other people and moved on. We had a very good relationship. I had feelings for him. Well, earlier I missed his call, and he's called 3x since then. Why am I nervous? I don't to lose the friendship.Everything with my main man is good. I also don't want him to think he's got like that where he call whenever he wants and so fourth.I just need a little dose of wisdom from the ladies. 

Views: 514

Reply to This

Replies to This Discussion

*winks at l8dy-c* I hear you, playa!  @Sheli, that would explain a lot. $picey, lol bfuj did already lay this out for everyone didn't he? lol Thanks for the reminder.


l8dy-c said:

Girl trust me I have my own motives.Like I said everything people do has a selfish motive. I don't know if he needs all that help, support blah, blah, blah. It's actually contructive selfishness. This honest form of selfishness is to give ourselves so that we in turn, can broaden our understanding and confidence. Sometimes the richest rewards come from helping others with no thought of reward. I was in a similar situation and he was there for me.Jus sayin

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

Wow! I would be so insulted right now in your shoes. He called up just to get a hit of azz or set you up to be the jump off and you're going to be a supportive ear for him anyway. I really am in awe of you right now.

My jaded behind would be telling him I need some ish and take me shopping. We can talk while I shop. Then I'd take my azz home to my man and chill. Leaving him with blue balls. Therapists get paid too. lol Please pay me zero mind. That's just how I think when I am insulted.

l8dy-c said:

Yeah we are gonna hook up later at a local bar. It's funny because I never believe that sh*t when a guy calls outta no where with that "I'm not happy talk, I'm leaving and this stuff gets old talk, I'm willing to go ahead and wrap if up soon. I'm like why didn't you call when everything was cool? Well at least if he moves we can still stay connected, he is a sweetheart tho. He was there for me in the past so, I can't don't want to be that girl that's too judgmental.Its it said that everything people do has a selfish motive.So, I'll offer reassurance , comfort, and personal concern and that's it.  

Love is a Losing Game said:
Tell him to break it off with the girl since he's moving soon anyway, and see whayhe says. Lol I'm sure he won't break up even tho 'things are soooooo bad' lol. And I think he hit u wit the 'I'm moving' thing so he can get some sympathy, oh I miss u' cooch! Lol boy I tell ya....these games

What CC said x's 1000! 

Got Dammit this story sounds familar. Lol. I heard from my ex and I thought we were friends he came back for the summer and we messed around and well we all know how that turned out!!!! Don't fall for the hype girl!!! Lol

I won't mess up my current situation for an ex! He is an ex for a reason

She better take heed to this warning. lol

mese said:
Got Dammit this story sounds familar. Lol. I heard from my ex and I thought we were friends he came back for the summer and we messed around and well we all know how that turned out!!!! Don't fall for the hype girl!!! Lol

Reply to Discussion

RSS

ADVERTISEMENT

Ballerific Events

Connect



BallerBoards

The sexiest 2013 NBA draft prospect

Started by AML in Talk Ish. Last reply by EmpressSoDivine 2 minutes ago. 1 Reply

I think Trey Burke takes the cake.He was the star point guard for the University of Michigan.He's only 21. His instagram is @tr3yburke I noticed he follows back any pretty girl that comments his pic…Continue

why do black people have pathetic web sites like this

Started by kunta kinte in Talk Ish. Last reply by Insatiable Cookie P 28 minutes ago. 19 Replies

Just curious. What do black people have against working for wealth ? Why do they have to marry someone with money, and steal it from them.Continue

Tags: worthless, people, black

So We Aint Gon Say Nothing About This???

Started by Dragon Slayer Puss in Talk Ish. Last reply by Kharysma 34 minutes ago. 8 Replies

LMAO....I just CAN'T! Continue

Oxymoron: Wack Dack

Started by Kharysma in Talk Ish. Last reply by Kharysma 35 minutes ago. 13 Replies

Y'all I am livid! My world is upside down! How can what used to be do good feel so bad? Ugh! I am lying next to a fine piece. This ninja got a lick-me allover body that's chiseled to perfection;…Continue

Tags: selective, purse, ugh, wet, wtf

GLAM TV

Latest Activity

Nat Black Luv commented on Eleven8's blog post Do You Prefer To Date A Man Who's Been Divorced Or One That's Never Been Married?
"if he is a divorcee he has a ton of baggage, if…"
10 minutes ago
Eleven8 commented on Eleven8's blog post Is Dallas Cowboys Dez Bryant Creeping With Two Chicks At The Same Time?
"Since yall asked here is the first girls instagram http://instagram.com/BHooks89 and her…"
19 minutes ago
AML posted a discussion

The sexiest 2013 NBA draft prospect

I think Trey Burke takes the cake.He was the star point guard for the University of Michigan.He's…See More
26 minutes ago
EmpressSoDivine liked Eleven8's event Las Vegas - Memorial Day Wknd - Floyd Mayweather Hosts Rain Nightclub 5/24
28 minutes ago
Insatiable Cookie P replied to kunta kinte's discussion why do black people have pathetic web sites like this
"We don't have any problem with working for wealth , but we do have problem with people who are…"
28 minutes ago
Kharysma replied to kunta kinte's discussion why do black people have pathetic web sites like this
"Seems someone just wanted attention. The site must be something quite special for this individual…"
29 minutes ago
Kharysma replied to Dragon Slayer Puss's discussion So We Aint Gon Say Nothing About This???
"THAT IS HIS PRINCE LOOKING SHOE !!! "
34 minutes ago
Kharysma replied to Kharysma's discussion Oxymoron: Wack Dack
"Help me.....lol "
35 minutes ago
Oneandonly commented on Eleven8's blog post Is Dallas Cowboys Dez Bryant Creeping With Two Chicks At The Same Time?
"Random:: it's refreshing to see a black girl without weave and her real hair (1st girl)... If…"
1 hour ago
Oneandonly commented on Eleven8's blog post Is Dallas Cowboys Dez Bryant Creeping With Two Chicks At The Same Time?
"I spy a Coach scarf smh"
1 hour ago
Eleven8 shared their blog post on Twitter
1 hour ago
Eleven8 shared their blog post on Twitter
1 hour ago

© 2013   Created by Baller Alert.

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service

Offline

Live Video