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Should I have sex with a baller just because he paid for my plane ticket and expenses to come visit him?
One of my best friends hooked me up with a baller recently. The only problem is that I have never met him in person and we have only seen pics of each other and speak on the phone several times a day. He bought me a plane ticket to come visit him and paid for the room, etc. So he actually made the initiative to deposit the money for the trip into my bank 3 days after I spoke with him. So far so good..... We have not discussed sex or anything of that nature. He just made it seem like he wants to me come to his city to party with him. I really do like his style so far but I know I need to hang out with him to find out if i really do like him for him and not just his bread. So my question is if I get there and i really do like him should I have sex with him during my first visit? Should i determine my answer on how much money or gifts he showers me with? No pay no play? im so confused and I want to figure this out before i get there this weekend. Should I have sex on the first visit or not?
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Permalink Reply by DdoubleD on -
My resonse from reading the title is HELL NO!!!!!!!
Now Im gonna read the rest of the post !
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Permalink Reply by DdoubleD on
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Before you make the decision to have sex with him you need to determine his purpose. For instance, some guys you meet and you know they aren’t gonna be anything but a trick. Some guys you meet and you may want to have a relationship. Some guys are just networking tools. Some guys you may meet and just wanna get F’d. Every category has a purpose.
You need to select which category he may fall in (you can always change category down the road IF and only IF you play your cards right). Before you go on your trip you decide what category you want. If I was you I was start with trick category, this way you can keep your eyes on the prize of getting money and gifts. This is important bc “you don’t wanna leave a dry purse and a wet ass” BA QUOTE Also, if you start in this category you won’t give up your goodies JUST for a good time or JUST bc he’s nice and funny.
I don’t give a s*** if this ninga bought you a house you DO NOT owe him s***. You are more valuable then any material possession. This is your first trip meeting and if you hold out there will be many more. Even if you click with him and really like by giving him the kids on the first date you will look.
If you feel bad for not having sex with him or you can tell he really wants lie to him. Just let him know “we’ve just met and I really like you, I don’t wanna go too fast, I just want to get to know you.” As a last resort lie and say “its that time of month”.
Lastly, make sure you give a couple friends and family members ALL of his information and where you will be staying.
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Permalink Reply by DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN on -
great advice. u should be good off this right here....
DdoubleD said:Before you make the decision to have sex with him you need to determine his purpose. For instance, some guys you meet and you know they aren’t gonna be anything but a trick. Some guys you meet and you may want to have a relationship. Some guys are just networking tools. Some guys you may meet and just wanna get F’d. Every category has a purpose.
You need to select which category he may fall in (you can always change category down the road IF and only IF you play your cards right). Before you go on your trip you decide what category you want. If I was you I was start with trick category, this way you can keep your eyes on the prize of getting money and gifts. This is important bc “you don’t wanna leave a dry purse and a wet ass” BA QUOTE Also, if you start in this category you won’t give up your goodies JUST for a good time or JUST bc he’s nice and funny.
I don’t give a s*** if this ninga bought you a house you DO NOT owe him s***. You are more valuable then any material possession. This is your first trip meeting and if you hold out there will be many more. Even if you click with him and really like by giving him the kids on the first date you will look.
If you feel bad for not having sex with him or you can tell he really wants lie to him. Just let him know “we’ve just met and I really like you, I don’t wanna go too fast, I just want to get to know you.” As a last resort lie and say “its that time of month”.
Lastly, make sure you give a couple friends and family members ALL of his information and where you will be staying.
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on -
Don't have sex with him he is a Clown for paying and never seeing you in person
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Permalink Reply by BlackSnakeMoan on -
*sigh*
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Permalink Reply by JustMe on -
Listen to doubled especially on the part about where you are & info... Take pictures of house (or hotel) and license plate as well...
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Permalink Reply by Smokahontiss on -
Thanks! I appreciate the response! You made me laugh so hard. your right about picking the category and at this point the trick category is the only one im interested in so Im going to hold out. Thanksss!!!
DdoubleD said:Before you make the decision to have sex with him you need to determine his purpose. For instance, some guys you meet and you know they aren’t gonna be anything but a trick. Some guys you meet and you may want to have a relationship. Some guys are just networking tools. Some guys you may meet and just wanna get F’d. Every category has a purpose.
You need to select which category he may fall in (you can always change category down the road IF and only IF you play your cards right). Before you go on your trip you decide what category you want. If I was you I was start with trick category, this way you can keep your eyes on the prize of getting money and gifts. This is important bc “you don’t wanna leave a dry purse and a wet ass” BA QUOTE Also, if you start in this category you won’t give up your goodies JUST for a good time or JUST bc he’s nice and funny.
I don’t give a s*** if this ninga bought you a house you DO NOT owe him s***. You are more valuable then any material possession. This is your first trip meeting and if you hold out there will be many more. Even if you click with him and really like by giving him the kids on the first date you will look.
If you feel bad for not having sex with him or you can tell he really wants lie to him. Just let him know “we’ve just met and I really like you, I don’t wanna go too fast, I just want to get to know you.” As a last resort lie and say “its that time of month”.
Lastly, make sure you give a couple friends and family members ALL of his information and where you will be staying.
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Permalink Reply by DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN on
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lol
BlackSnakeMoan said:*sigh*
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Permalink Reply by Smokahontiss on
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Right! Lol He's thirsty
Tone said:Don't have sex with him he is a Clown for paying and never seeing you in person
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Permalink Reply by BeautyandBrains on
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I wouldn't go that way...just b/c a man buys you a ticket doesn't mean you owe him your kitty.Your a queen and he should be happy your your even blessing him w/your presence.Think highly of yourself & others will follow suit.
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