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Permalink Reply by Brii on January 23, 2012 at 2:29pm

That's a tough question! I actually had this happened and I ended up regretting it I realized he was a better friend than boyfriend even though we do still speak it's not how it use to be, but if it's something you're ready for I say go for it

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Permalink Reply by Zerinas Treasure on January 23, 2012 at 2:35pm

See thats the problem..Like he is a great friend, I know for a fact he spends money, but I have heard how he comes off nice and once you get to the other side he's an a******.As long as I have known him, I have not ever seen that side of me.Maybe I should just stay a friend to play it safe. Why did you guys not end so greatly?

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Permalink Reply by Brii on January 23, 2012 at 2:46pm

He was a ho on the low... No all jokes aside I guess we really didn't know each other as well as I thought 

Zerinas Treasure said:

See thats the problem..Like he is a great friend, I know for a fact he spends money, but I have heard how he comes off nice and once you get to the other side he's an a******.As long as I have known him, I have not ever seen that side of me.Maybe I should just stay a friend to play it safe. Why did you guys not end so greatly?

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Permalink Reply by Zerinas Treasure on January 23, 2012 at 2:50pm

He is  HOE....Chicks go crazy over him..Maybe Ill just listen to the negatives and stay friends.

Brii said:

He was a ho on the low... No all jokes aside I guess we really didn't know each other as well as I thought 

Zerinas Treasure said:

See thats the problem..Like he is a great friend, I know for a fact he spends money, but I have heard how he comes off nice and once you get to the other side he's an a******.As long as I have known him, I have not ever seen that side of me.Maybe I should just stay a friend to play it safe. Why did you guys not end so greatly?

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Permalink Reply by Brii on January 23, 2012 at 4:02pm

Oh damn lol well do you like him more than a friend?

Zerinas Treasure said:

He is  HOE....Chicks go crazy over him..Maybe Ill just listen to the negatives and stay friends.

Brii said:

He was a ho on the low... No all jokes aside I guess we really didn't know each other as well as I thought 

Zerinas Treasure said:

See thats the problem..Like he is a great friend, I know for a fact he spends money, but I have heard how he comes off nice and once you get to the other side he's an a******.As long as I have known him, I have not ever seen that side of me.Maybe I should just stay a friend to play it safe. Why did you guys not end so greatly?

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Permalink Reply by Phoenix on January 23, 2012 at 4:07pm

But how do you consider yourselves friends if he has feelings for you?

I hate when men try to play the friend role until I'm vulnerable enough to be with them. Or as my girl puts it "playing second until first becomes available." I'd feel like all his advice, all of his action and whatnot would be biased because he likes me. I know he's YOUR friend, but he wants you to be HIS girl.

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Permalink Reply by Zerinas Treasure on January 23, 2012 at 4:50pm

But what if its b******* he talking then what?

Phoenix said:

But how do you consider yourselves friends if he has feelings for you?

I hate when men try to play the friend role until I'm vulnerable enough to be with them. Or as my girl puts it "playing second until first becomes available." I'd feel like all his advice, all of his action and whatnot would be biased because he likes me. I know he's YOUR friend, but he wants you to be HIS girl.

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Permalink Reply by Phoenix on January 23, 2012 at 4:53pm

The fact that he's trying his hand is what i don't like. Lol (like I know you personally).

But I only consider 2 guys real friends because they have never tried me. 

I thought i had a real good guy friend, til he tried me when he thought we were both drunk. I mean, I was drunk, but not enough that I didn't realize what was happening. I've never been cool with him the same way.

But then there are the two that I (think I) have...what if they just haven't said anything, but if I tried them, they'd do it...?

Idk girl. I still haven't figured it out. But I know that I wouldn't TRY someone I considered a friend.

Zerinas Treasure said:

But what if its b******* he talking then what?

Phoenix said:

But how do you consider yourselves friends if he has feelings for you?

I hate when men try to play the friend role until I'm vulnerable enough to be with them. Or as my girl puts it "playing second until first becomes available." I'd feel like all his advice, all of his action and whatnot would be biased because he likes me. I know he's YOUR friend, but he wants you to be HIS girl.

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