I was looking through the archives and I wanted to know what yall think about this:

 

Note#1- If you met him in the club, he is not out looking for love and neither should you. When he approaches you, don't act like you have your s*** together when you know in the back of your mind you DON'T!!! Your mortgage is due, your car acting up, and your cable just got turned off. Let him know upfront that "I don't have time to be your f*** slave, I have a d**** that can probably get the job done better than you can. I need more in my life than a hard d***. So what else you got?" Tell him "I am treated like a princess and won't accept any other type of treatment so if you with it here's my number and if not, it was nice to meet you." Some of them may look at you like a gold digger and be turned off and some will really be with it. At least you find out in the beginning who is willing and who is not. You think these girls walking around with louis bags got that s*** without asking? Some may have, but not very many. Now is not the time to be playing games you have to voice what you want and you need your bills paid.

http://www.balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/stop-trying-to-marry-a-ba...

 

Is this approach too much? Is it best not to waste your time and just get to the point?

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Ay, that's what the boys wear here. All I know is the jeans still run 70 or better, the coats, leather w diamonds and stuff, 500. They been rockin bauds for a while, but they cost, soooooo.......I just take notes and make requests accordingly, lol
Glad I wasn't the only one that was like wtf? Pellet Pelle & Girbuads... Naw I'm too good...

Every area people have different styles and wear different brands.  Honestly for me those are the easy guys who give cash fast. 

 

@ love is a losing game.  If you don't mind me asking what area are from??

Don't miss those untapped treasures lol

Couture_QuiteJuicy said:

Glad I wasn't the only one that was like wtf? Pellet Pelle & Girbuads... Naw I'm too good...

Wisconsin, and yea, honestly, I like to see those kinds. You already know how to stick and move with em and there are no guessing games. Different strokes for different folks tho! 

My one  baller friend has like three Mercedes that I have seen, and the last time I was with him I think he had on a faux leather coat. I know he holding tho. Gotta use ur intuition

Dominique said:

Every area people have different styles and wear different brands.  Honestly for me those are the easy guys who give cash fast. 

 

@ love is a losing game.  If you don't mind me asking what area are from??

I'm opened to almost anything... So if one crosses my path I will act on it...


OMFG!!! Girlllllllll how did I know u were from WI?? Milwaukee I assume? That sounds like some Milwaukee ninja type ish!! I just moved from there! But yah, those are the one's who give up $$$ way too fast! :)

 


 Love is a Losing Game said:

Wisconsin, and yea, honestly, I like to see those kinds. You already know how to stick and move with em and there are no guessing games. Different strokes for different folks tho! 

My one  baller friend has like three Mercedes that I have seen, and the last time I was with him I think he had on a faux leather coat. I know he holding tho. Gotta use ur intuition

Dominique said:

Every area people have different styles and wear different brands.  Honestly for me those are the easy guys who give cash fast. 

 

@ love is a losing game.  If you don't mind me asking what area are from??

Girl, I'm just tryna catch it. You dont even have to do anything for it. lol! Where do you live now?

AlterEgo said:


OMFG!!! Girlllllllll how did I know u were from WI?? Milwaukee I assume? That sounds like some Milwaukee ninja type ish!! I just moved from there! But yah, those are the one's who give up $$$ way too fast! :)

 


 Love is a Losing Game said:

Wisconsin, and yea, honestly, I like to see those kinds. You already know how to stick and move with em and there are no guessing games. Different strokes for different folks tho! 

My one  baller friend has like three Mercedes that I have seen, and the last time I was with him I think he had on a faux leather coat. I know he holding tho. Gotta use ur intuition

Dominique said:

Every area people have different styles and wear different brands.  Honestly for me those are the easy guys who give cash fast. 

 

@ love is a losing game.  If you don't mind me asking what area are from??

Love is a losing game..how old are you?

To get back on topic..

I agree with the above statement in regards to her saying you should not pretend you got it if you don't.  Lots of baller guys like to feel important and help a girl out.  If you walking around all over independent you may lose the money he wants to upgrade you with.

taking notes!

I think it depends on what you look like ... u have to measure the baller's interest.. if on a scale of 1 to 10 u feel like he is feeling you like a 10 .... go ahead be bossy ... but if u not sure ... i wouldn't take the chance .....but hey differenet strokes for different folks ..... but i do agree with let a baller knowing your wants and needs cause the sooner you let him know ... the sooner you will know the type of man u dealing with ... a man that ain't spending with disappear fast ... if u bring up money .

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