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Permalink Reply by Siren on March 20, 2012 at 9:54am

I daydream of this every day!!!! I believe I am suffering from burnout. My work environment is toxic! I try my best to ignore it but when your "team members" are miserable old hateful  no life having broads it makes it extremely difficult.

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

Girl, hush before I quit my job. I got to work today and just sat in my car. I had to talk myself out the car. lol I was like, just drive. You know people up and down the eastern seaboard. Damn it, hook if you got to. Just don't get out this car! lol

I'm still not sure how I got myself to turn off the engine and get out the car.
Nene2 said:

~thanks @SC an CC. yea, i'm feelin better... i made a decision to take this quarter off of school and rejuvenate. i can't be well if i don't address the different areas in my life.  
SACK CHASER said:

Hey! Glad to see you back posting and feeling better!
Nene2 said:

 I had been feelin yucky the past couple of weeks also, just nervous for no reason. I was in a car accident when this feelin jus was gettin the best of me. I had thoughts goin that would not shut down. I was even tearful a few days last week. The end of last week I started to feelin better and my weekend was alright too... I'm better than I was but I 've been whole lot better. I probably need to follow-up with my doctors for my yearly exams, which are overdue*shrug* 

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on March 20, 2012 at 10:20am

Girl, say that again. I've ranted on Truth Coworkers' addition until I'm ranted out. All I do now is work and look at them like what...ever when they start acting up.

Siren said:

I daydream of this every day!!!! I believe I am suffering from burnout. My work environment is toxic! I try my best to ignore it but when your "team members" are miserable old hateful  no life having broads it makes it extremely difficult.

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

Girl, hush before I quit my job. I got to work today and just sat in my car. I had to talk myself out the car. lol I was like, just drive. You know people up and down the eastern seaboard. Damn it, hook if you got to. Just don't get out this car! lol

I'm still not sure how I got myself to turn off the engine and get out the car.
Nene2 said:

~thanks @SC an CC. yea, i'm feelin better... i made a decision to take this quarter off of school and rejuvenate. i can't be well if i don't address the different areas in my life.  
SACK CHASER said:

Hey! Glad to see you back posting and feeling better!
Nene2 said:

 I had been feelin yucky the past couple of weeks also, just nervous for no reason. I was in a car accident when this feelin jus was gettin the best of me. I had thoughts goin that would not shut down. I was even tearful a few days last week. The end of last week I started to feelin better and my weekend was alright too... I'm better than I was but I 've been whole lot better. I probably need to follow-up with my doctors for my yearly exams, which are overdue*shrug* 

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Permalink Reply by Ms. Ashley Banks on March 20, 2012 at 2:32pm

I have that car situation almost every day. I have to force myself out of the dark space I keep tucking into because it feels good to let the sadness surround me so I can just sleep through the pain. I don't want to be this way, so I'm trying to keep myself busy and happy. As long as I have something to do and live for outside of working 50+ hours a week, I'll slowly feel better.

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

Girl, say that again. I've ranted on Truth Coworkers' addition until I'm ranted out. All I do now is work and look at them like what...ever when they start acting up.
Siren said:

I daydream of this every day!!!! I believe I am suffering from burnout. My work environment is toxic! I try my best to ignore it but when your "team members" are miserable old hateful  no life having broads it makes it extremely difficult.
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

Girl, hush before I quit my job. I got to work today and just sat in my car. I had to talk myself out the car. lol I was like, just drive. You know people up and down the eastern seaboard. Damn it, hook if you got to. Just don't get out this car! lol

I'm still not sure how I got myself to turn off the engine and get out the car.
Nene2 said:

~thanks @SC an CC. yea, i'm feelin better... i made a decision to take this quarter off of school and rejuvenate. i can't be well if i don't address the different areas in my life.  
SACK CHASER said:

Hey! Glad to see you back posting and feeling better!
Nene2 said:

 I had been feelin yucky the past couple of weeks also, just nervous for no reason. I was in a car accident when this feelin jus was gettin the best of me. I had thoughts goin that would not shut down. I was even tearful a few days last week. The end of last week I started to feelin better and my weekend was alright too... I'm better than I was but I 've been whole lot better. I probably need to follow-up with my doctors for my yearly exams, which are overdue*shrug* 

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Permalink Reply by mese on March 20, 2012 at 2:33pm

Thank youuuuuu!!! 

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

Happy Birthday !!!!

mese said:

Uh I feel.the same way my birthday is tommorrow aand i dont even wanna do anything. i live in seattle so the weather is shitty, school iis stressing me out. I would go shopping but ive realized im a shopaholic so i cant do.that. i gotta do something! Lol 

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Permalink Reply by Brii on March 20, 2012 at 3:09pm

+1...I'm debating whether I should write my letter now or stick it out 

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

Girl, hush before I quit my job. I got to work today and just sat in my car. I had to talk myself out the car. lol I was like, just drive. You know people up and down the eastern seaboard. Damn it, hook if you got to. Just don't get out this car! lol

I'm still not sure how I got myself to turn off the engine and get out the car.

Nene2 said:

~thanks @SC an CC. yea, i'm feelin better... i made a decision to take this quarter off of school and rejuvenate. i can't be well if i don't address the different areas in my life.  

SACK CHASER said:

Hey! Glad to see you back posting and feeling better!

Nene2 said:

 I had been feelin yucky the past couple of weeks also, just nervous for no reason. I was in a car accident when this feelin jus was gettin the best of me. I had thoughts goin that would not shut down. I was even tearful a few days last week. The end of last week I started to feelin better and my weekend was alright too... I'm better than I was but I 've been whole lot better. I probably need to follow-up with my doctors for my yearly exams, which are overdue*shrug* 

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on March 20, 2012 at 3:16pm

Girl, I almost wrote mine this morning after all three of the people who make more than me strolled in my office to try to dump their work off on me. I nicely handed 2 out 3 back. Around 4 pm, I'm handing the 3rd one back because as usual his ish is wrong! smh

Brii said:

+1...I'm debating whether I should write my letter now or stick it out 

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

Girl, hush before I quit my job. I got to work today and just sat in my car. I had to talk myself out the car. lol I was like, just drive. You know people up and down the eastern seaboard. Damn it, hook if you got to. Just don't get out this car! lol

I'm still not sure how I got myself to turn off the engine and get out the car.

Nene2 said:

~thanks @SC an CC. yea, i'm feelin better... i made a decision to take this quarter off of school and rejuvenate. i can't be well if i don't address the different areas in my life.  

SACK CHASER said:

Hey! Glad to see you back posting and feeling better!

Nene2 said:

 I had been feelin yucky the past couple of weeks also, just nervous for no reason. I was in a car accident when this feelin jus was gettin the best of me. I had thoughts goin that would not shut down. I was even tearful a few days last week. The end of last week I started to feelin better and my weekend was alright too... I'm better than I was but I 've been whole lot better. I probably need to follow-up with my doctors for my yearly exams, which are overdue*shrug* 

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on March 20, 2012 at 3:18pm

Girl, there has got to be something better than working around a bunch of get overs. I don't have a problem doing my job. But I ain't doing everyone else's job too and they are sitting here getting paid more than me and got the nerve to be bitter about their lives. smh iCAN'T!

Ms. Ashley Banks said:

I have that car situation almost every day. I have to force myself out of the dark space I keep tucking into because it feels good to let the sadness surround me so I can just sleep through the pain. I don't want to be this way, so I'm trying to keep myself busy and happy. As long as I have something to do and live for outside of working 50+ hours a week, I'll slowly feel better.

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

Girl, say that again. I've ranted on Truth Coworkers' addition until I'm ranted out. All I do now is work and look at them like what...ever when they start acting up.
Siren said:

I daydream of this every day!!!! I believe I am suffering from burnout. My work environment is toxic! I try my best to ignore it but when your "team members" are miserable old hateful  no life having broads it makes it extremely difficult.
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

Girl, hush before I quit my job. I got to work today and just sat in my car. I had to talk myself out the car. lol I was like, just drive. You know people up and down the eastern seaboard. Damn it, hook if you got to. Just don't get out this car! lol

I'm still not sure how I got myself to turn off the engine and get out the car.
Nene2 said:

~thanks @SC an CC. yea, i'm feelin better... i made a decision to take this quarter off of school and rejuvenate. i can't be well if i don't address the different areas in my life.  
SACK CHASER said:

Hey! Glad to see you back posting and feeling better!
Nene2 said:

 I had been feelin yucky the past couple of weeks also, just nervous for no reason. I was in a car accident when this feelin jus was gettin the best of me. I had thoughts goin that would not shut down. I was even tearful a few days last week. The end of last week I started to feelin better and my weekend was alright too... I'm better than I was but I 've been whole lot better. I probably need to follow-up with my doctors for my yearly exams, which are overdue*shrug* 

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Permalink Reply by Brii on March 20, 2012 at 3:37pm

LOL...Never underestimate the stupidity of idiots

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

Girl, I almost wrote mine this morning after all three of the people who make more than me strolled in my office to try to dump their work off on me. I nicely handed 2 out 3 back. Around 4 pm, I'm handing the 3rd one back because as usual his ish is wrong! smh

Brii said:

+1...I'm debating whether I should write my letter now or stick it out 

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

Girl, hush before I quit my job. I got to work today and just sat in my car. I had to talk myself out the car. lol I was like, just drive. You know people up and down the eastern seaboard. Damn it, hook if you got to. Just don't get out this car! lol

I'm still not sure how I got myself to turn off the engine and get out the car.

Nene2 said:

~thanks @SC an CC. yea, i'm feelin better... i made a decision to take this quarter off of school and rejuvenate. i can't be well if i don't address the different areas in my life.  

SACK CHASER said:

Hey! Glad to see you back posting and feeling better!

Nene2 said:

 I had been feelin yucky the past couple of weeks also, just nervous for no reason. I was in a car accident when this feelin jus was gettin the best of me. I had thoughts goin that would not shut down. I was even tearful a few days last week. The end of last week I started to feelin better and my weekend was alright too... I'm better than I was but I 've been whole lot better. I probably need to follow-up with my doctors for my yearly exams, which are overdue*shrug* 

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Permalink Reply by Noisy Girl on March 21, 2012 at 3:39pm

Hello, 

 

I totally get this.  I think about the planes flying over DC releasing chemicals on us and can't help but think the chemicals are contributing to my lethargic feelings. 

 

One thing I've done is did an overhaul on my diet.  I've replaced a lot of fast meals w/ organic homecooked while focusing on the nutritional value.  I've developed a new interest in fruits and make smoothies.  When I'm home I try to play wii tennis to move around. 

 

I was at the point where I was in bed every chance I got. My work environment does play a huge role.   

 

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on March 22, 2012 at 3:12am

Awwww... Love you boo... 

To cure my blues, I started walking... 

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on March 22, 2012 at 9:05am

I also haven't been eating the best either. I've kind of just been eating what I was craving and I've been craving junk. I'll a good dinner but junk during the day. 

JGM said:

Hello, 

 

I totally get this.  I think about the planes flying over DC releasing chemicals on us and can't help but think the chemicals are contributing to my lethargic feelings. 

 

One thing I've done is did an overhaul on my diet.  I've replaced a lot of fast meals w/ organic homecooked while focusing on the nutritional value.  I've developed a new interest in fruits and make smoothies.  When I'm home I try to play wii tennis to move around. 

 

I was at the point where I was in bed every chance I got. My work environment does play a huge role.   

 

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Permalink Reply by Sheli on March 22, 2012 at 9:23am

@CC have you cried?? About 2 weeks ago I felt like nothing in life was where it needed to be, I'm behind on my studying, my job is horrible, & my family friends are unappreciative of me & what I do for them, they only saw what I didn't do. So I ran myself a hot bath, got in turned on Anita Baker & cried until I couldn't anymore. It helped a little bit. I still have a bit of the same feeling, but it helped me get the self-pity party over. I've started back studying & looking for a new job in a new city. When it comes to doing stuff for others I make sure I've done something for myself first or if I don't want to do it I just don't.

Afterwards I had a long convo with guy friend & he explained his take on "self preservation" & the one thing that stuck out was,  "If you friends/family have a problem with you taking care of you first, then they're not your friend, don't let anyone tell you you're selfish for worrying about you." I held on to that.

Hope you've began to feel more motivated!!

@Mese HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!!!

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