I'm meeting my first guy from seekingarrangement today! We're meeting @ a starbucks in times square.. i'm nervous as hell .. I'm actually gonna persuade him into going  a little bit shopping afterwards .. I'm kinda nervous ..any tips & questions? help lol 

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At least you meeting him in the busiest area in NYC...lol

Let us know what happened...

Will do boss!

Baller Alert said:

At least you meeting him in the busiest area in NYC...lol

Let us know what happened...

Good luck

O ish! Hope he is who he says! Have fun and be careful cuz ppl are a crazy hot mess these days. If you have to kick him in the balls and run screaming fire, LOL!!!!

Be safe & keep us posted...
I'm alive!!!! Lol okay so he's nice -- I'm giving that website 4 stars lol! So my guy works for the FOX Tv network .. he's incharge of all the Indian channels worldwide! By the way he's Indian well British Indian ... he lives in London .. but he travels ALOT! his mainly stationed in India & London but he comes to NY often he also has a nice little apartment on 48th street ( basically times square) .... he knows the deal he's into giving me the finer things in life ..he said he's willing to give me a couple of hundred dollars each time we see eachother ... we met at starbucks... hes seperated from his wife who is also Indian & has 3 boys by her... he wants to keep us discreet ... um whatelse????? So it started raining really bad & I ain't have my umbrella so he gave me his ... then it got worse so he was like r u okay with coming up to my apartment ... I'm nit gonna do anything silly or anything & I guess he saw the uneasiness in my face & was like if you're not comfortable its okay we can stay here .. he aslo said he wants me to be real comfortable n honest with him ... when I'm not feeling 2 let him no.. he'll always respect my wishes! He also spoke about flying me out to London & showing me around ... he said i'll love it...the way i'll experience it private jet-- fancy hotel & etc .. when we were discussing what we like he mentioned he likes good sec & he likes to kiss ... I'm holding on to the cookies for a good couple of months ...& the kissing thing eh idk I'm not a kisser! After our coffee we parted ways... shortly after he emails me back saying how he had a good time with me & that it sucked that he had to go back to work ... & he offered to take me out to eat tonight @ ruby foes... idk what to do!
He mentioned he wanted to keep things discreet because he's so in the lime light ... I'm so young lol I'm 19 he's 48 ! Lol he told me he's basically willing to help he with anything! Money, networking & etc
Sounds like it went good.

okay I realize you are new to this..rule number 1 do not give this type of personal information out. If he is in the media that means he is can be googled and may be able to trace back to this site. BA has become very popular. They need to know you can be trusted and discretion is a must.

Happy for you but just make sure you have a defined arrangement does he know there will be no sex? This is very important as its not a normal relationship and there are very few SD/arrangements who will spend that much without some sort of kissing or sex.

Nala said:

I'm alive!!!! Lol okay so he's nice -- I'm giving that website 4 stars lol! So my guy works for the FOX Tv network .. he's incharge of all the Indian channels worldwide! By the way he's Indian well British Indian ... he lives in London .. but he travels ALOT! his mainly stationed in India & London but he comes to NY often he also has a nice little apartment on 48th street ( basically times square) .... he knows the deal he's into giving me the finer things in life ..he said he's willing to give me a couple of hundred dollars each time we see eachother ... we met at starbucks... hes seperated from his wife who is also Indian & has 3 boys by her... he wants to keep us discreet ... um whatelse????? So it started raining really bad & I ain't have my umbrella so he gave me his ... then it got worse so he was like r u okay with coming up to my apartment ... I'm nit gonna do anything silly or anything & I guess he saw the uneasiness in my face & was like if you're not comfortable its okay we can stay here .. he aslo said he wants me to be real comfortable n honest with him ... when I'm not feeling 2 let him no.. he'll always respect my wishes! He also spoke about flying me out to London & showing me around ... he said i'll love it...the way i'll experience it private jet-- fancy hotel & etc .. when we were discussing what we like he mentioned he likes good sec & he likes to kiss ... I'm holding on to the cookies for a good couple of months ...& the kissing thing eh idk I'm not a kisser! After our coffee we parted ways... shortly after he emails me back saying how he had a good time with me & that it sucked that he had to go back to work ... & he offered to take me out to eat tonight @ ruby foes... idk what to do!

Yes Bonita school me! because this area i am kinda new! lol real new.. I wasn't clear on it so maybe I should clarify!

Bonita said:

okay I realize you are new to this..rule number 1 do not give this type of personal information out. If he is in the media that means he is can be googled and may be able to trace back to this site. BA has become very popular. They need to know you can be trusted and discretion is a must.

Happy for you but just make sure you have a defined arrangement does he know there will be no sex? This is very important as its not a normal relationship and there are very few SD/arrangements who will spend that much without some sort of kissing or sex.

Nala said:

I'm alive!!!! Lol okay so he's nice -- I'm giving that website 4 stars lol! So my guy works for the FOX Tv network .. he's incharge of all the Indian channels worldwide! By the way he's Indian well British Indian ... he lives in London .. but he travels ALOT! his mainly stationed in India & London but he comes to NY often he also has a nice little apartment on 48th street ( basically times square) .... he knows the deal he's into giving me the finer things in life ..he said he's willing to give me a couple of hundred dollars each time we see eachother ... we met at starbucks... hes seperated from his wife who is also Indian & has 3 boys by her... he wants to keep us discreet ... um whatelse????? So it started raining really bad & I ain't have my umbrella so he gave me his ... then it got worse so he was like r u okay with coming up to my apartment ... I'm nit gonna do anything silly or anything & I guess he saw the uneasiness in my face & was like if you're not comfortable its okay we can stay here .. he aslo said he wants me to be real comfortable n honest with him ... when I'm not feeling 2 let him no.. he'll always respect my wishes! He also spoke about flying me out to London & showing me around ... he said i'll love it...the way i'll experience it private jet-- fancy hotel & etc .. when we were discussing what we like he mentioned he likes good sec & he likes to kiss ... I'm holding on to the cookies for a good couple of months ...& the kissing thing eh idk I'm not a kisser! After our coffee we parted ways... shortly after he emails me back saying how he had a good time with me & that it sucked that he had to go back to work ... & he offered to take me out to eat tonight @ ruby foes... idk what to do!
congrats! But yea that was way too much info. I'm sure u don't wnt anyone movin in on ur SD.
Congrats and hold that cookie

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