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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on July 18, 2011 at 1:14pm

Did you f** the hater? 

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Permalink Reply by Miss Jones on July 18, 2011 at 1:21pm

Nope.

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Permalink Reply by miss cali on July 18, 2011 at 1:24pm

why cant u get in contact with said baller yourself? seems like you have good access now that you have contact with the bro and best friend...

 

i just think doing it yourself is the best solution because there is that slim possibility that the bestfriend DID mention you to ol' boy and he wasnt feeling it... at least talking and chatting in person you can feel out his vibe and figure things out yourself... asking his bro to do it may come off as thirst, especially IF the bestfriend really did put a *vague* word in about u

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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on July 18, 2011 at 1:25pm

Oh... in the case just call him up! lol

I have no problem with being direct. Ask him if he would like to meet you for lunch. avoid dinner and drinks because that may lead to a dead end. (Sex)

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Permalink Reply by Miss Jones on July 18, 2011 at 1:32pm

So I should just omit the nagging feeling I have inside about his friend and his cockblocking antics and just let him know what's up? cuz that's really where I get caught up at... wondering if I should even mention it

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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on July 18, 2011 at 1:42pm

I'VE BEEN HERE BEFORE. I befriended a man for years trying to get close to his best friend who is now in the NBA. Let me tell you how this will (more than likely) play out:

 

1) If said best friend has already told you he is interested in you, trust he has already told your target and there is a slight chance, your target will not want to date you because of it. If he is a baller as you say, he has a large enough pool of women to chose from without stepping on his friend's toes. 

 

2) You contacting multiple people to get in touch with him shows your thirst. All three of them are probably sitting around discussing how easy it would be to f*** you, whether that's the truth or not.

 

3) I  hate to say it but, all of them will try to f*** you. None of them will take you seriously. 

 

Tell the baller about the beef? Why? He holds no loyalty to you. He doesn't even know you and that's his best friend. Plus, that will only entice him in to asking the best friend more about you and if that best friend is as shady as you say, he will run your name THROUGH THE MUD.

 

 

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Permalink Reply by Miss Jones on July 18, 2011 at 2:26pm

Interesting... so don't say anything to anybody. Got it... lol

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Permalink Reply by MissBling on July 18, 2011 at 2:50pm

Chile... you gonna have to do it yourself. Do you hang out where the said baller hangs?

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on July 18, 2011 at 3:15pm

this

Tone said:

you do know that he told his boy he was f****** you right?
Miss Jones said:

So I should just omit the nagging feeling I have inside about his friend and his cockblocking antics and just let him know what's up? cuz that's really where I get caught up at... wondering if I should even mention it

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on July 18, 2011 at 4:20pm

+1 more

Honeycoated said:

this
Tone said:

you do know that he told his boy he was f****** you right? Miss Jones said:

So I should just omit the nagging feeling I have inside about his friend and his cockblocking antics and just let him know what's up? cuz that's really where I get caught up at... wondering if I should even mention it

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Permalink Reply by MissBling on July 18, 2011 at 4:34pm

That too... so your best bet is to handle this yourself...

CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:

+1 more

Honeycoated said:

this
Tone said:

you do know that he told his boy he was f****** you right? Miss Jones said:

So I should just omit the nagging feeling I have inside about his friend and his cockblocking antics and just let him know what's up? cuz that's really where I get caught up at... wondering if I should even mention it

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Permalink Reply by livelife25 on July 18, 2011 at 4:37pm

This right here is the truth.  I'd like to add, beware going through "baller buddies" when trying to get to the baller himself.  Often times they are so much more extra than the dude himself.  A lot of them have chips on their shoulders from being looked over by girls who only want their dude and being treated as simply an access point to the main attraction. This leads to them trying to be hella disrespectful over the silliest things and often going overboard to flex their "importance" in the baller's life. 

BabyCheeks87 said:

I'VE BEEN HERE BEFORE. I befriended a man for years trying to get close to his best friend who is now in the NBA. Let me tell you how this will (more than likely) play out:

 

1) If said best friend has already told you he is interested in you, trust he has already told your target and there is a slight chance, your target will not want to date you because of it. If he is a baller as you say, he has a large enough pool of women to chose from without stepping on his friend's toes. 

 

2) You contacting multiple people to get in touch with him shows your thirst. All three of them are probably sitting around discussing how easy it would be to f*** you, whether that's the truth or not.

 

3) I  hate to say it but, all of them will try to f*** you. None of them will take you seriously. 

 

Tell the baller about the beef? Why? He holds no loyalty to you. He doesn't even know you and that's his best friend. Plus, that will only entice him in to asking the best friend more about you and if that best friend is as shady as you say, he will run your name THROUGH THE MUD.

 

 

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