I need your opinion on things ladies... I hope this doesn't sound trivial... 

 

There’s this guy I’ve been trying to get connected to for a few months. And when I say months, I mean I was introduced to one of his best friends (more or less a "do boy") a few months back who said he’d give this guy my info so that we could talk. Initially, I wasn’t in a rush because when I first met his best friend, my target was out of town on business so I really didn’t want to seem like a pest and rush it. Then fast forward to about a month ago, an ex “friend” of mine (who intro’d me to the best friend) started some drama between me & the best friend which caused us not to talk for a few weeks and I can't really tell if he's trying to play both sides but it doesn't matter...I don't want him and really contemplating on cutting him off too after I get what I want.

 

After doing some soul searching, I cut the chick off because she lied to me about a bunch of s*** and proved herself to be NOT trustworthy at all and I even think she was mad because she liked the best friend and he showed me on more than one occasion that he might be feeling me and not her :-/ but he wasted his time really because I NEVER showed him any interest, I was only hitting him so that he'd be comfortable enough with me to tell his boy I wanted to talk to him with ease

 

After cutting the girl"friend" off about a week ago, I tell the best friend that all drama aside, I am still interested in getting to know this guy, and to have him hit me up... and he says “I’ll see what he says, that’s all I can do”… I’m starting to feel like he may not even say anything because he’s a hater.

 

Meanwhile, I hit up my target’s brother saying that I had something to tell him (he just gave me his info the other day, I didn’t have it all along... he's really cool) and I really wanted to tell him about the mess/shady-ness that transpired between me and his best friend but changed my mind as to not appear as if I come with drama. So what do I do? It's been days since I spoke to the brother and haven't hit him up yet. I know he's wondering what's up... Do I tell my target’s brother about the back and forth/cockblocking best friend? Or do I just ask the brother to hook it up with my target? I mean, what if this guy tells chicks all the time that he will hook them up with said baller so that he could f*** them? UGH...

And yes, my target is a "baller". Is that why I’m jumping through rings of fire just to get to him? Is it even worth it? I mean, I know they said anything worth having doesn't come easy but damn...

 

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Preach preach preach...


livelife25 said:

This right here is the truth.  I'd like to add, beware going through "baller buddies" when trying to get to the baller himself.  Often times they are so much more extra than the dude himself.  A lot of them have chips on their shoulders from being looked over by girls who only want their dude and being treated as simply an access point to the main attraction. This leads to them trying to be hella disrespectful over the silliest things and often going overboard to flex their "importance" in the baller's life. 

 In a situation of such I would keep the enemy close, u could risk target without an insider. Stay focus until ur done with the attempt...

I would fall back. Disappear on that ass. If the circle is as small as you make it sound you’re bound to run into one of them. Don’t chase the baller; you know they like challenges.

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