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Permalink Reply by J Woods on May 11, 2011 at 2:01am

*excuse my typo. I meant how lol

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Permalink Reply by DB on May 14, 2011 at 12:44pm

Uptown Dallas (lemon bar) is a good spot.. I've been there a few times and there's usually a few in there on game nights and off nights.. That uptown area in general is filled with affluent people (men and women).. This may sound stupid but dress like a Kardashian lol really just dress appropriately for where you're going.. Don't go to the same places too frequently because unless you work there, that's not attractive.. I've seen so many girls show up at the same clubs to the point where you're like "well we know their intentions" or itll just look like you don't have anything else to do.. I've never really went looking for a "baller" or any specific type of man for that matter so idk much about getting them to talk to you or whatever so maybe somebody experienced can answer the rest BUMP BUMP lol

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Permalink Reply by miss cali on May 14, 2011 at 8:07pm

finding a baller is a job and it takes work; search the forums the info is there.

this should help: http://www.balleralert.com/forum/topics/where-do-the-ballers-go-in

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Permalink Reply by DallasBadYella on May 15, 2011 at 2:37am

Be Simple and Classy, During the day wear cute sandals with shorts, At Night always have on Heels and a Smile :). Dress in something that brings out your best features.. I'm 34 DD so I show a little cleavage when I go out.

Like DB said Go explore Uptown on the weekends, Mon-Thursday during the day go to Northpark and the Gallo, Ballers usually avoid the malls on weekends. Depending on what kind of Baller you are looking for.. Hit Partychaser.com, get to know the Right People in Dallas. I haven't paid to get in a club or event since I was 19 and that's not because I arrived at free b4 11 either. Make friends with Dj's and Door Guys in Dallas. I don't wait in lines and always have a VIP band on my arm. Black Clubs Charge, White Clubs do not but have a strict guestlist and are harder to get into, but there are usually more ballers there because their after the beckys and are able to be more chill Just FYI, If you haven't heard about Cameo, Rio, Candle Room and Teddy's Room get educated.

Don't always Be OUT!! This got me in trouble in my early years, I learned the hard way. Maybe 3-4 times a month go on Strategic Days (Tuesday-Thursday), if your specifically looking for a Baller . There is ALWAYS something Going in Dallas, just have to know the right people to be around and where to Go. The Best Places, Don't have Names over the Door and a strict guestlist.

Follow people on Twitter, Cowboys, Mavs, ALOT of Ballers have Homes in Dallas and come back during their off season

And Honestly, the thing that has always worked best for me is volunteering for foundations. I'm working a event this week Legacy Ball for the Heroes Foundation, Miles Austin, Terence Newman, Vince Young, Mark Cuban, all will be in attendance :) So check out foundation websites, email and call and see if they need any volunteers for events.

I'm old school, I don't like to approach. I will make eye contact and smile, If he likes he will come over and introduce or send someone over. Don't be star struck, Don't Accept a Free Drink, Buy Him One if you can afford it. Drink Water instead of liquor. Be Fun..Give him a business card with your # on it. Don't Act Thirsty and Dance by the VIP Section all Night! I hate those Girls..

 

Hope that Helps, Need anymore info let me know!

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Permalink Reply by J Woods on May 16, 2011 at 12:31pm

I'm starting to see how hard it is lol! But Thanks for all of the helpful advice and I'm just looking for someone who's in my income tax bracket (6 figures) :-).. I will be a doctor in 2 more years and dating a teacher just isn't what that is... Not limiting myself to professional athletes.. injuries are bound to happen and when they do, the average FB and BB player are broke within 5 years of retiring.. I want something stable..

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Permalink Reply by DallasBadYella on May 16, 2011 at 2:37pm

Well if thats the case I say become involved in local associations and organizations in your related field. I'm a law student and have met a lot of eligible men through the Dallas Bar Association and J.L. Turner which is the  Dallas Black Bar. I would say start there. These men because of their schedule aren't usually out, but do make appearances at Sponsored Happy Hours and Net Working Events. Lawyers Believe in Happy Hours, not to sure about Doctors, but I assume there should be similar organizations. My new Favorite Place in Dallas is the Dragonfly restaurant at Hotel Zaza and the Rattlesnake Bar at the Ritz, Met Jerry Jones minus Wife there.. He like Black Girls too ;)  

**But Buyer Beware** Dallas has ALOT of Fake Ballers, White and Black, 30k Millionaires as I call them, so be careful and Google is your friend :) My new rule of thumb is if your don't own and real property or investments your a Bum, and if you don't have a business card to give, I pass

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Permalink Reply by miss cali on May 16, 2011 at 2:48pm

ooo great suggestion on the associations.... and yes google is your best friend

DallasBadYella said:

Well if thats the case I say become involved in local associations and organizations in your related field. I'm a law student and have met a lot of eligible men through the Dallas Bar Association and J.L. Turner which is the  Dallas Black Bar. I would say start there. These men because of their schedule aren't usually out, but do make appearances at Sponsored Happy Hours and Net Working Events. Lawyers Believe in Happy Hours, not to sure about Doctors, but I assume there should be similar organizations. My new Favorite Place in Dallas is the Dragonfly restaurant at Hotel Zaza and the Rattlesnake Bar at the Ritz, Met Jerry Jones minus Wife there.. He like Black Girls too ;)  

**But Buyer Beware** Dallas has ALOT of Fake Ballers, White and Black, 30k Millionaires as I call them, so be careful and Google is your friend :) My new rule of thumb is if your don't own and real property or investments your a Bum, and if you don't have a business card to give, I pass

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