Sooooo the boo invited me to go to the strip club with him and some people. Should I go??? What should I expect if I do???

For background, I've never been even with my home girls. I honestly do want to go just to see (seriously, ne1 with the arm/ab strength to flip upside down like that deserves admiration), but I've always felt like it was the guys domain. Now I kinda feel like I might be setting myself up for disrespect if I go with him, knowing he's going to be admiring other women.

Also, we're not technically together, but we've been kicking it for a while and he does sweet things like send flowers to work, etc.

Thanks in advance for any thought/advice! Would also love to hear from the fellas on how this might look from a wifey potential point of view.

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there is nothing wrong see if you can bring another friend if you are not comfortable.. most strip clubs have pool rooms if you get too nerv go shot some pool under wise sit back and enjoy the music and drinks

what ever u do don't compare ur self to the strippers..I have seen alot of chicks have a complex after a trip to the strip club..if u are going to be that gurl don't do it.

I would never bring my main girl to a strip club. I feel that is super disrespectful to her.

I swear. Niggas want their main jawn to be in the crib bored as s***.

I love strip clubs. Give me some money, i'll tip her!

Why is it disrespectful if anything u may not want her to see what u enjoy

Tone said:

I would never bring my main girl to a strip club. I feel that is super disrespectful to her.

so who would you bring then? Why is it disrespectful to her?

Tone said:

I would never bring my main girl to a strip club. I feel that is super disrespectful to her.

I frequently join my husband in his support of the naked hustle and we have a blast. The women in the clubs are fantasy and it is not disrespect you both know what it is when you go to the club. it can be fun a foreplay before foreplay if you will... Just enjoy it.

You don't think it is disrespectful for a man to take his girl to a club where he is going to be looking and spending money on another woman?  I would bring a side girl if she asked to go
Bonita said:

Why is it disrespectful if anything u may not want her to see what u enjoy

Tone said:

I would never bring my main girl to a strip club. I feel that is super disrespectful to her.

I think it creates trust.

"look babe, this is what I like and I want you to see it. get comfy."

He's going to go anyways. I love strip clubs. so much fun.

Tone said:

You don't think it is disrespectful for a man to take his girl to a club where he is going to be looking and spending money on another woman?  I would bring a side girl if she asked to go
Bonita said:

Why is it disrespectful if anything u may not want her to see what u enjoy

Tone said:

I would never bring my main girl to a strip club. I feel that is super disrespectful to her.

I go to the strip club by myslef for drinks, so I maybe the wrong one to give advice. But I think you should go. You will have a good time. If you get comfy enough you should get a lap dance. He will be so turned on you two may have to leave early, lol.

Thanks for the thoughts all! i appreciate all the responses.
@Bonita its kinda complicated cause well be out of town-he knows people, I dont so no homies to take with me *womp womp* . That pool thing is good to know tho! I think Im good on the body image but Ill watch out for it. I think it would only be an issue if he was stuck on 1 chick. But he would go there and I have no problem checking him if he does.

@Siren/ Goldie/ Ms ByeBoi, that makes me feel sooooo much better. My mindset is if I go Im gonna make sure I have a good time, but I wanted to make sure I wouldnt be wierd one getting the side eye.

@Tone, I see your point, which is what I was afraid of. (like does this make me the side chic? i didnt think I was but...) But I see Goldies point too. Wouldnt it be cool if your main was down to go to the strip club with you and trusted u enough to watch u tip other girls without getting a complex?

 I would not want my girl to go to the strip club with me. The whole point of going is to get away from the main girl LOL.


MissIsis said:

Thanks for the thoughts all! i appreciate all the responses.
@Bonita its kinda complicated cause well be out of town-he knows people, I dont so no homies to take with me *womp womp* . That pool thing is good to know tho! I think Im good on the body image but Ill watch out for it. I think it would only be an issue if he was stuck on 1 chick. But he would go there and I have no problem checking him if he does.

@Siren/ Goldie/ Ms ByeBoi, that makes me feel sooooo much better. My mindset is if I go Im gonna make sure I have a good time, but I wanted to make sure I wouldnt be wierd one getting the side eye.

@Tone, I see your point, which is what I was afraid of. (like does this make me the side chic? i didnt think I was but...) But I see Goldies point too. Wouldnt it be cool if your main was down to go to the strip club with you and trusted u enough to watch u tip other girls without getting a complex?

Your main girl must be whack.

I loved tippin with my dude.

He loved watching the dancers creative ways to take my tips too....



Tone said:

 I would not want my girl to go to the strip club with me. The whole point of going is to get away from the main girl LOL.


MissIsis said:

Thanks for the thoughts all! i appreciate all the responses.
@Bonita its kinda complicated cause well be out of town-he knows people, I dont so no homies to take with me *womp womp* . That pool thing is good to know tho! I think Im good on the body image but Ill watch out for it. I think it would only be an issue if he was stuck on 1 chick. But he would go there and I have no problem checking him if he does.

@Siren/ Goldie/ Ms ByeBoi, that makes me feel sooooo much better. My mindset is if I go Im gonna make sure I have a good time, but I wanted to make sure I wouldnt be wierd one getting the side eye.

@Tone, I see your point, which is what I was afraid of. (like does this make me the side chic? i didnt think I was but...) But I see Goldies point too. Wouldnt it be cool if your main was down to go to the strip club with you and trusted u enough to watch u tip other girls without getting a complex?

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