STRIPPERS/DANCERS

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Permalink Reply by Kiff on February 2, 2009 at 1:23pm

ok....if u had a choice between a McDonalds worker who was a well known whore and fucked alot of people(for free and money) or a stripper who was not a whore and was really just a dancer and you knew this for a fact, you mean to tell me you would still choose the Mcdonalds chick just cuz she wasn't a stripper? I mean there are hoes/whores in every profession but you are wrong to say you would NEVER, EVER marry a stripper cuz she's a stripper. Some clubs you do get naked but there are others where you can't even get topless. Like I said earlier i have seen women/girls acting and dressing waaaayyyy more provacative in a REGULAR nightclub. I don't see why its ok for a man to get a church girl or a mcdonalds worker who is just as bad if not WORSE than a stripper could ever be. You could marry a CEO and be marrying a hoe/whore. A male friend of mine told me more "college girls" licked his asshole and fucked all of his friends than anybody else(strippers included). For some of us it really is JUST A JOB/HUSTLE!

mendo said:

Just my 2 cents i dont really know much but some things never change...a great percentage of a woman's value depends on her mystery and that mystery is priceless. When that is exposed to the world for $2000 a night...
Ask all ur male friends what would happen if they EVER found out their girlfriend was a stripper even for one night in the past...to love a woman u must first have respect for her...i'm sure could respect a stripper as a human being if she had a good heart and her circumstances put her to this but i would NEVER, EVER marry her.

That money sounds tempting even to me but i'm going to have to say...take the McDonald's route coz if u're spotted there after a few sniggers u'll still have ur life and ur DIGNITY intact. That's ur real currency remember them kids on the way. People can respect the game it just depends on what game u're playing.

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Permalink Reply by Kiff on February 2, 2009 at 1:58pm

Boss posted this under ALWAYS CHECK YOUR KIDS HOMEWORK
Life Lesson - Always check your
child's homework before it gets to school!
When asked to draw a picture of what they wanted to be when they grew up, second-grader "Sarah" turned in the lovely drawing shown below. Needless to say, the teacher was a bit surprised -- Mrs. Smith had always seemed like such a conservative woman. So she sent a note home to the girl's mother asking for clarification as to the picture's meaning.
(read Mom's reply below the picture)

(Here's the reply the teacher received the following day)
Dear Mrs. Jones, I wish to clarify that I am not now, nor have I ever been, an exotic dancer. I work at Home Depot and I told my daughter how hectic it was last week before the blizzard hit. I told her we sold out every single shovel we had, and then I found one more in the back room, and that several people were fighting over who would get it. Her picture doesn't show me dancing around a pole. It's supposed to depict me selling the last snow shovel we had at Home Depot. From now on I will remember to check Sarah

Lil Miss Messy said:

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Permalink Reply by LaYlah on February 2, 2009 at 3:14pm

LOL @PRAY??..."LORD SHOULD I STRIP??, PLEASE SHOW ME A SIGN"
make your descion based on you & your views and values...don't worry about what everyone else will think about you b/c everyone else is not stripping.

muah

Selasse said:

I think if you're asking, a part of you has some very serious concerns/doubts. Pray, just as you would for any job interview, do your research. Just know that once you start making the so called "easy" money, it's hard not to get addictive to it. Pray is all I can say. Walk good!

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Permalink Reply by KJ on February 2, 2009 at 7:14pm

Good thing that's not my intent AT ALL...hense the descript

Lil Miss Messy said:

They get wifed up with the quickness , so you should be straight.

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Permalink Reply by mendo on February 2, 2009 at 7:43pm

please i dont mean to offend and i dont want to sound righteous maybe u dont know how men are made but the key word is EXCLUSIVITY. I dont think u understand that a woman's body is a sacred place and her nakedness is her man's pride. I said i would NEVER,EVER marry a stripper. Maybe i'm not that strong. I dont think i could handle that. 99% of men cant either. Women need to understand how important they are in the fabric of society. They are responsible for the core of our morality and moral values. That is the war they fight. That is their value to the union of marriage, relationships etc. The strength of a woman is her dignity and that is what you use to compel us to be better men, that is what gets us home early and fills us with guilt when we do you wrong.
Like i said before i have nothing against anyone who has had to strip because of circumstances in which they found themselves but my advice to those who havent ...please don't!
Kiff said:

ok....if u had a choice between a McDonalds worker who was a well known whore and fucked alot of people(for free and money) or a stripper who was not a whore and was really just a dancer and you knew this for a fact, you mean to tell me you would still choose the Mcdonalds chick just cuz she wasn't a stripper? I mean there are hoes/whores in every profession but you are wrong to say you would NEVER, EVER marry a stripper cuz she's a stripper. Some clubs you do get naked but there are others where you can't even get topless. Like I said earlier i have seen women/girls acting and dressing waaaayyyy more provacative in a REGULAR nightclub. I don't see why its ok for a man to get a church girl or a mcdonalds worker who is just as bad if not WORSE than a stripper could ever be. You could marry a CEO and be marrying a hoe/whore. A male friend of mine told me more "college girls" licked his asshole and fucked all of his friends than anybody else(strippers included). For some of us it really is JUST A JOB/HUSTLE!

mendo said:

Just my 2 cents i dont really know much but some things never change...a great percentage of a woman's value depends on her mystery and that mystery is priceless. When that is exposed to the world for $2000 a night...
Ask all ur male friends what would happen if they EVER found out their girlfriend was a stripper even for one night in the past...to love a woman u must first have respect for her...i'm sure could respect a stripper as a human being if she had a good heart and her circumstances put her to this but i would NEVER, EVER marry her.

That money sounds tempting even to me but i'm going to have to say...take the McDonald's route coz if u're spotted there after a few sniggers u'll still have ur life and ur DIGNITY intact. That's ur real currency remember them kids on the way. People can respect the game it just depends on what game u're playing.

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Permalink Reply by Tab on February 2, 2009 at 8:04pm

Thanks. Nicely said. I've tried to voice this and was called mean and judgemental. Women are the head and the stronger of the sexes. You make me feel better about my decisions. If a man is disrespecting a female, nine out of ten she doesn't respect herself. Or she does things with no dignity. It's the laws of the land, I didn't make this stuff up. lol
mendo said:

please i dont mean to offend and i dont want to sound righteous maybe u dont know how men are made but the key word is EXCLUSIVITY. I dont think u understand that a woman's body is a sacred place and her nakedness is her man's pride. I said i would NEVER,EVER marry a stripper. Maybe i'm not that strong. I dont think i could handle that. 99% of men cant either. Women need to understand how important they are in the fabric of society. They are responsible for the core of our morality and moral values. That is the war they fight. That is their value to the union of marriage, relationships etc. The strength of a woman is her dignity and that is what you use to compel us to be better men, that is what gets us home early and fills us with guilt when we do you wrong.
Like i said before i have nothing against anyone who has had to strip because of circumstances in which they found themselves but my advice to those who havent ...please don't!
Kiff said:

ok....if u had a choice between a McDonalds worker who was a well known whore and fucked alot of people(for free and money) or a stripper who was not a whore and was really just a dancer and you knew this for a fact, you mean to tell me you would still choose the Mcdonalds chick just cuz she wasn't a stripper? I mean there are hoes/whores in every profession but you are wrong to say you would NEVER, EVER marry a stripper cuz she's a stripper. Some clubs you do get naked but there are others where you can't even get topless. Like I said earlier i have seen women/girls acting and dressing waaaayyyy more provacative in a REGULAR nightclub. I don't see why its ok for a man to get a church girl or a mcdonalds worker who is just as bad if not WORSE than a stripper could ever be. You could marry a CEO and be marrying a hoe/whore. A male friend of mine told me more "college girls" licked his asshole and fucked all of his friends than anybody else(strippers included). For some of us it really is JUST A JOB/HUSTLE!

mendo said:

Just my 2 cents i dont really know much but some things never change...a great percentage of a woman's value depends on her mystery and that mystery is priceless. When that is exposed to the world for $2000 a night...
Ask all ur male friends what would happen if they EVER found out their girlfriend was a stripper even for one night in the past...to love a woman u must first have respect for her...i'm sure could respect a stripper as a human being if she had a good heart and her circumstances put her to this but i would NEVER, EVER marry her.

That money sounds tempting even to me but i'm going to have to say...take the McDonald's route coz if u're spotted there after a few sniggers u'll still have ur life and ur DIGNITY intact. That's ur real currency remember them kids on the way. People can respect the game it just depends on what game u're playing.

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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on February 2, 2009 at 8:19pm

I love your answer......sooooooo, this is what men mean when they say a dignified lady in the streets and a you know what in the sheets. :)

mendo said:

please i dont mean to offend and i dont want to sound righteous maybe u dont know how men are made but the key word is EXCLUSIVITY. I dont think u understand that a woman's body is a sacred place and her nakedness is her man's pride. I said i would NEVER,EVER marry a stripper. Maybe i'm not that strong. I dont think i could handle that. 99% of men cant either. Women need to understand how important they are in the fabric of society. They are responsible for the core of our morality and moral values. That is the war they fight. That is their value to the union of marriage, relationships etc. The strength of a woman is her dignity and that is what you use to compel us to be better men, that is what gets us home early and fills us with guilt when we do you wrong.
Like i said before i have nothing against anyone who has had to strip because of circumstances in which they found themselves but my advice to those who havent ...please don't!
Kiff said:

ok....if u had a choice between a McDonalds worker who was a well known whore and fucked alot of people(for free and money) or a stripper who was not a whore and was really just a dancer and you knew this for a fact, you mean to tell me you would still choose the Mcdonalds chick just cuz she wasn't a stripper? I mean there are hoes/whores in every profession but you are wrong to say you would NEVER, EVER marry a stripper cuz she's a stripper. Some clubs you do get naked but there are others where you can't even get topless. Like I said earlier i have seen women/girls acting and dressing waaaayyyy more provacative in a REGULAR nightclub. I don't see why its ok for a man to get a church girl or a mcdonalds worker who is just as bad if not WORSE than a stripper could ever be. You could marry a CEO and be marrying a hoe/whore. A male friend of mine told me more "college girls" licked his asshole and fucked all of his friends than anybody else(strippers included). For some of us it really is JUST A JOB/HUSTLE!

mendo said:

Just my 2 cents i dont really know much but some things never change...a great percentage of a woman's value depends on her mystery and that mystery is priceless. When that is exposed to the world for $2000 a night...
Ask all ur male friends what would happen if they EVER found out their girlfriend was a stripper even for one night in the past...to love a woman u must first have respect for her...i'm sure could respect a stripper as a human being if she had a good heart and her circumstances put her to this but i would NEVER, EVER marry her.

That money sounds tempting even to me but i'm going to have to say...take the McDonald's route coz if u're spotted there after a few sniggers u'll still have ur life and ur DIGNITY intact. That's ur real currency remember them kids on the way. People can respect the game it just depends on what game u're playing.

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Permalink Reply by KJ on February 2, 2009 at 8:27pm

I feel you, but saying that 99% of guys feel the same way as you is not crediting your answer. It's just your opinion, nothing more nothing less. Also, another thing I have noticed, not with you but in general is the double standard. People get down on the girls strippin in the club, yet no responsibility is given to the paying customers (mainly men). How are women less dignified for taking off their clothes than the people who are watching them?

mendo said:

please i dont mean to offend and i dont want to sound righteous maybe u dont know how men are made but the key word is EXCLUSIVITY. I dont think u understand that a woman's body is a sacred place and her nakedness is her man's pride. I said i would NEVER,EVER marry a stripper. Maybe i'm not that strong. I dont think i could handle that. 99% of men cant either. Women need to understand how important they are in the fabric of society. They are responsible for the core of our morality and moral values. That is the war they fight. That is their value to the union of marriage, relationships etc. The strength of a woman is her dignity and that is what you use to compel us to be better men, that is what gets us home early and fills us with guilt when we do you wrong.
Like i said before i have nothing against anyone who has had to strip because of circumstances in which they found themselves but my advice to those who havent ...please don't!
Kiff said:

ok....if u had a choice between a McDonalds worker who was a well known whore and fucked alot of people(for free and money) or a stripper who was not a whore and was really just a dancer and you knew this for a fact, you mean to tell me you would still choose the Mcdonalds chick just cuz she wasn't a stripper? I mean there are hoes/whores in every profession but you are wrong to say you would NEVER, EVER marry a stripper cuz she's a stripper. Some clubs you do get naked but there are others where you can't even get topless. Like I said earlier i have seen women/girls acting and dressing waaaayyyy more provacative in a REGULAR nightclub. I don't see why its ok for a man to get a church girl or a mcdonalds worker who is just as bad if not WORSE than a stripper could ever be. You could marry a CEO and be marrying a hoe/whore. A male friend of mine told me more "college girls" licked his asshole and fucked all of his friends than anybody else(strippers included). For some of us it really is JUST A JOB/HUSTLE!

mendo said:

Just my 2 cents i dont really know much but some things never change...a great percentage of a woman's value depends on her mystery and that mystery is priceless. When that is exposed to the world for $2000 a night...
Ask all ur male friends what would happen if they EVER found out their girlfriend was a stripper even for one night in the past...to love a woman u must first have respect for her...i'm sure could respect a stripper as a human being if she had a good heart and her circumstances put her to this but i would NEVER, EVER marry her.

That money sounds tempting even to me but i'm going to have to say...take the McDonald's route coz if u're spotted there after a few sniggers u'll still have ur life and ur DIGNITY intact. That's ur real currency remember them kids on the way. People can respect the game it just depends on what game u're playing.

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Permalink Reply by Kiff on February 2, 2009 at 10:52pm

@ Mendo---You are right the majority of men can't deal with it. It is very hard to have a realtionship and be a dancer cuz of the job and how society feels about it and looks at it. I just don't like how all strippers/dancers/whores/prostitutes/etc. are always thrown in the same category. Its all good...everyone is entitled to their opinion. I know how I am and my fiance knows he got a good one as well.

@KJ---Girl the men never get blamed. Its all OUR fault. But yeah i'm gonna sit back and wait to see the answers to your question.
KJ said:

I feel you, but saying that 99% of guys feel the same way as you is not crediting your answer. It's just your opinion, nothing more nothing less. Also, another thing I have noticed, not with you but in general is the double standard. People get down on the girls strippin in the club, yet no responsibility is given to the paying customers (mainly men). How are women less dignified for taking off their clothes than the people who are watching them?

mendo said:

please i dont mean to offend and i dont want to sound righteous maybe u dont know how men are made but the key word is EXCLUSIVITY. I dont think u understand that a woman's body is a sacred place and her nakedness is her man's pride. I said i would NEVER,EVER marry a stripper. Maybe i'm not that strong. I dont think i could handle that. 99% of men cant either. Women need to understand how important they are in the fabric of society. They are responsible for the core of our morality and moral values. That is the war they fight. That is their value to the union of marriage, relationships etc. The strength of a woman is her dignity and that is what you use to compel us to be better men, that is what gets us home early and fills us with guilt when we do you wrong.
Like i said before i have nothing against anyone who has had to strip because of circumstances in which they found themselves but my advice to those who havent ...please don't!
Kiff said:

ok....if u had a choice between a McDonalds worker who was a well known whore and fucked alot of people(for free and money) or a stripper who was not a whore and was really just a dancer and you knew this for a fact, you mean to tell me you would still choose the Mcdonalds chick just cuz she wasn't a stripper? I mean there are hoes/whores in every profession but you are wrong to say you would NEVER, EVER marry a stripper cuz she's a stripper. Some clubs you do get naked but there are others where you can't even get topless. Like I said earlier i have seen women/girls acting and dressing waaaayyyy more provacative in a REGULAR nightclub. I don't see why its ok for a man to get a church girl or a mcdonalds worker who is just as bad if not WORSE than a stripper could ever be. You could marry a CEO and be marrying a hoe/whore. A male friend of mine told me more "college girls" licked his asshole and fucked all of his friends than anybody else(strippers included). For some of us it really is JUST A JOB/HUSTLE!

mendo said:

Just my 2 cents i dont really know much but some things never change...a great percentage of a woman's value depends on her mystery and that mystery is priceless. When that is exposed to the world for $2000 a night...
Ask all ur male friends what would happen if they EVER found out their girlfriend was a stripper even for one night in the past...to love a woman u must first have respect for her...i'm sure could respect a stripper as a human being if she had a good heart and her circumstances put her to this but i would NEVER, EVER marry her.

That money sounds tempting even to me but i'm going to have to say...take the McDonald's route coz if u're spotted there after a few sniggers u'll still have ur life and ur DIGNITY intact. That's ur real currency remember them kids on the way. People can respect the game it just depends on what game u're playing.

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Permalink Reply by mendo on February 3, 2009 at 1:08am

@KJ and KIff

I cant fully explain the double standards but maybe thats because you guys are supposed to be BETTER than us. Arguing against these so called double standards represents an oversight on your value as women. Your high moral fibre is a pride not only to your husbands and families but also to your society. Believe me, the more women we have who possess that "dignity" the better for us as a people.
@ kIff(Girl the men never get blamed. Its all OUR fault )
The potential for a woman to inspire her man or destroy him is so huge...it could go anyway.How could Barack not aim for the presidency? Just look at his wife! Is she not taking the credit now? Also remember "hit em up" by Tupac? Why did he have to say "You claim to be a player but i F***** your wife" He said that to dismantle Biggies credibility as a man and that line did it. I dont think it would sound the same if a woman said that to another woman. Sorry to use such examples but i'm trying to drive my point home.

Kiff, you have a kind and patient man. There are extremely few of us like that.


In a lighter mood let's assume two straight bars opened up and one had female strippers and the other one had male strippers which do you think would make more money??? LOL!!!

KJ said...
I feel you, but saying that 99% of guys feel the same way as you is not crediting your answer. It's just your opinion, nothing more nothing less. Also, another thing I have noticed, not with you but in general is the double standard. People get down on the girls strippin in the club, yet no responsibility is given to the paying customers (mainly men). How are women less dignified for taking off their clothes than the people who are watching them?

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Permalink Reply by Ishtar on February 3, 2009 at 1:13am

You're argument is very valid and I feel you, I'm sorry to tell you that you're beating a dead horse... the women versus men morality blame game for prostitition/stripping/escort is old and well pointless...

Dope dealing who is wrong the dealer or the user? Both, but the user is looked down on as a bigger loser.
If a woman climbs on a trees to expose her azz to a drunken crowd for money, who is the bigger loser? The woman who climbed her assets up a tree to show it off or the gang of drunken fools? Answer: Both, however it is the woman who have lost the most...her value and dignity is shot. Two things that are not easily replaceable.

Chica, do what your heart desires, however, I don't think you can change nor justify the moral category of prostitition and it's derivatives (stripping). Yeah, not all strippers are hoes and not all hoes are paid. blah blah blah. News flash sweetie: perception is reality. If you decided to strip you will be perceived as a hoe, period. Are you a hoe? Probably not, but that is how you will be perceived. If you can live with that then go for it. If not, come up with another plan to supplement your income...

A friend of mine strips and she is hooked on the money, she is also tormented by it...although she is able to bag just about any man out there, the man she loves doesn't take her serious and after 5yrs has never taken her home to mom and has slowed down making public appearances with her... Sure, some strippers are wifed up in a healty relationship? NOT. Case in point Coco and Ice Tee.

Listen, Just be able to live with your decision, is between you your conscious and your god. Good luck.

p.s. Like someone said, if you decide to do it at least be a high price stripper by stripping at a WHITE establishment... the mentality and pay is very different.

KJ said:

I feel you, but saying that 99% of guys feel the same way as you is not crediting your answer. It's just your opinion, nothing more nothing less. Also, another thing I have noticed, not with you but in general is the double standard. People get down on the girls strippin in the club, yet no responsibility is given to the paying customers (mainly men). How are women less dignified for taking off their clothes than the people who are watching them?<</b>BR

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