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“Sugar Daddy” Spends $150,000 A Year Trickin’ His Gwap On His “Sugar Babies”
Almost anything can be ordered online and then delivered to your house these days, including a beautiful college student, legally, and for the right price.
Tommy, 63, and Monte, 21, have been together for two years, and they refer to each other has “sugar daddy” and “sugar baby.” And Tommy has six others.
A retired IT executive, Tommy is thrice divorced and the father of two young adults around Monte’s age. He meets many of his sugar babies on a website called SeekingArrangement.com. It is one of the many “sugar daddy” websites, where men meet and offer “sugar babies,” or young women, financial support in exchange for companionship.
When Monte needs money, Tommy is her go-to guy. He said he drops about $5,000 on her each month, paying her expenses, buying her clothes and taking her out on the town in a chauffeured car. Monte said she uses the money to pay for a college education she couldn’t otherwise afford.
“He’s like, ‘I could help you get through school easy and you just travel with me, have fun, be around me and just keep me company,’ and I said, ‘sure! You’re going to pay for my school?’” Monte said.
Tommy said he retired with enough money to spend about $150,000 a year on his female companions combined. It’s cheaper than marriage, he said, and a small price to pay for what he gets in return.
“When you walk into a room, and you have a beautiful woman with you, it’s a compliment to you, as a male,” Tommy said. “It’s like pulling up in a really nice car or something. I hate to compare it that way, but it is.”
The courts have decreed that as long as a woman is being paid for services besides sex, such as “companionship,” the act does not classify as prostitution. That’s the argument that Brandon Wade, SeekingArrangement.com’s founder, also makes.
“If the sugar daddy is, in fact, meeting a girl for sex and money, then they’re using website in violation of agreement, which actually prohibits that usage,” he said.
Tommy admitted he has sex with all of his sugar babies and that is part of the “big attraction,” but he said he doesn’t see his relationships with them as prostitution.
“If we’re talking about money exchanged for sex, I don’t see that this way. It’s just not a ‘wham, bam, thank you, ma’am,’” he said. “You pay somehow, somewhere for sex no matter what it is. You know, they say wives do it for refrigerators.”
For Monte, the relationship is valuable because she said she is experiencing new things that she otherwise would never have had the opportunity to try.
“[Tommy] taught me how to golf, cook, be a classy woman,” she said. “He’s just transformed me back to something I’ve always wanted to become.”
Ladies Whats your opinions on this? I think I might give SeekingArrangement.com another try after reading this one! lol
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
Be careful and be smart. Always remember, purse first and azz last!
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
You should have watched the show. The man is a millionaire who has been married 3 times and he said sugarbabies were much cheaper than wives.....
Tone said:
Only simps think you need money to get women
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on -
the guy stupid because some guy is getting what he gets for free.
University of Smitty said:You should have watched the show. The man is a millionaire who has been married 3 times and he said sugarbabies were much cheaper than wives.....
Tone said:
Only simps think you need money to get women
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on
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Girl, I gotta take my hat off to you. You keep trying to educate him.
University of Smitty said:You should have watched the show. The man is a millionaire who has been married 3 times and he said sugarbabies were much cheaper than wives.....
Tone said:
Only simps think you need money to get women
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Permalink Reply by mavsbabe41 on -
Preach! Let them know what's up before meeting them as well, ladies. I actually got off of the phone with a pot (potential sugardaddy) not long ago today and he was explaining to me why he was "new" to the game. This was his second time getting married and ol' girl isn't really living "life" towards him and he didn't want to get another dee-vorce (lol). Best believe I plan to take his ass to the cleaners if there is chemistry+! =P
CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:Be careful and be smart. Always remember, purse first and azz last!
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on
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That's your problem.......worried about what the next man is getting. What he eats doesnt make you sh*t and life will be easier when you realize that. Everybody pays for things other muthaf**kas get for free even down to the air you put in your tire.....so what... that's life
Tone said:
the guy stupid because some guy is getting what he gets for free.
University of Smitty said:You should have watched the show. The man is a millionaire who has been married 3 times and he said sugarbabies were much cheaper than wives.....
Tone said:
Only simps think you need money to get women
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on -
And Tone gets a spanking but he'll keep on ticking lmao
Only brokies like Tone think like that hahaha
University of Smitty said:That's your problem.......worried about what the next man is getting. What he eats doesnt make you sh*t and life will be easier when you realize that. Everybody pays for things other muthaf**kas get for free even down to the air you put in your tire.....so what... that's life
Tone said:
the guy stupid because some guy is getting what he gets for free.
University of Smitty said:You should have watched the show. The man is a millionaire who has been married 3 times and he said sugarbabies were much cheaper than wives.....
Tone said:
Only simps think you need money to get women
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Permalink Reply by anomaka on -
It's clear Tone is not sugar daddy material but I agree with him. $150,000.00 a year? That's too much.
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on
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it effects me because his tricking will lead to me having to trick.
University of Smitty said:That's your problem.......worried about what the next man is getting. What he eats doesnt make you sh*t and life will be easier when you realize that. Everybody pays for things other muthaf**kas get for free even down to the air you put in your tire.....so what... that's life
Tone said:
the guy stupid because some guy is getting what he gets for free.
University of Smitty said:You should have watched the show. The man is a millionaire who has been married 3 times and he said sugarbabies were much cheaper than wives.....
Tone said:
Only simps think you need money to get women
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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on -
ahh tone...the day you realize that there are tricks/hoes/go-getters/and everybody else..that'll be the day when you reach enlightenment lol
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