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I found a sugar daddy; he's a fifty y.o. White business man from NY city. Turns out he wants to be serious. So serious that he took me to look at homes in NJ last week (this is not my old baller; he took me to look at homes in Jersey too but he was originally from Philly). Well, this morning he text me saying he bought the home I liked. Now, I lied about everything when I first met him because I didn't think this would bloom into a relationship (thought it would be along the lines of the girl with the pay arrangement with the old guy). I lied about my name, my age...everything. Now, I don't think he will be mad when I tell him but, there is one HUGE thing I 'forgot' to tell him: I have a child. I didn't tell him initially because I was in it for a quick buck. Now, I want to move in and don't know what to do. Should I move in with him? There are several other issues to be discussed as well like:
1) My family and friends judging me for moving in with an old, White man.
2) The area, where the home is, having a population of roughly 3,000 people of which only 66 are Black. I don't like that; especially for my child.
Thoughts?
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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on -
Well you have more time IMO. Tell him that you have a daughter and right now you don't feel comfortable moving inwith her without him knowing her. Tell him you want to know him a little better before introducing your daughter to him, and before moving in together. That should take about ummmm 5yrs..lol
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Permalink Reply by PlaneJaneLane on -
I have been mulling it over and about the name thing... maybe you could be shady and act like he's the one who has been mispronouncing your name all this time LMBO. He's rich he may already know exactly who you are...real name, age, child and all. But if he doesn't mention you have a child ASAP, it may lead to more $
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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on -
LMAO!!! I was thinking the same thing!
MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:Well you have more time IMO. Tell him that you have a daughter and right now you don't feel comfortable moving inwith her without him knowing her. Tell him you want to know him a little better before introducing your daughter to him, and before moving in together. That should take about ummmm 5yrs..lol
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Permalink Reply by mavsbabe41 on -
@BabyBallerCheeks: Congrats to catching a true SD who cares. I am sure he will understand you having a child and not wanting to expose him to just "any" guy. In regards to your name, as others have stated, he will understand for security reasons. You are set and playing your cards right! Forget what your folks think; you're doing what is best for you. ;)
BabyBallerCheeks said:LMAO!!! I was thinking the same thing!
MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:Well you have more time IMO. Tell him that you have a daughter and right now you don't feel comfortable moving inwith her without him knowing her. Tell him you want to know him a little better before introducing your daughter to him, and before moving in together. That should take about ummmm 5yrs..lol
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Permalink Reply by BlackSnakeMoan on -
WHAT THE ENTIRE F***?! who are these people on here giving you this terrible advice... BSM is bout to school you... b**** why would you move in with a sugar daddy? tell that nigga you want your own house. tell him buy you one nearby. second... IF HE DON'T KNOW YOUR NAME OR THAT YOU HAVE A CHILD, CONSIDER THE THINGS HE'S LYING ABOUT. Don't jeopardize the safety of your child by moving in with a F****** STRANGER. If he got it like that and he cares about you (and now your child) he'll see to it that y'all are straight.
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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on -
Bwahahahaha
BlackSnakeMoan said:WHAT THE ENTIRE F***?! who are these people on here giving you this terrible advice... BSM is bout to school you... b**** why would you move in with a sugar daddy? tell that nigga you want your own house. tell him buy you one nearby. second... IF HE DON'T KNOW YOUR NAME OR THAT YOU HAVE A CHILD, CONSIDER THE THINGS HE'S LYING ABOUT. Don't jeopardize the safety of your child by moving in with a F****** STRANGER. If he got it like that and he cares about you (and now your child) he'll see to it that y'all are straight.
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
And the slow singing and flower bringing can begin now! *puts head down on desk*
SACK CHASER said:Bwahahahaha
BlackSnakeMoan said:WHAT THE ENTIRE F***?! who are these people on here giving you this terrible advice... BSM is bout to school you... b**** why would you move in with a sugar daddy? tell that nigga you want your own house. tell him buy you one nearby. second... IF HE DON'T KNOW YOUR NAME OR THAT YOU HAVE A CHILD, CONSIDER THE THINGS HE'S LYING ABOUT. Don't jeopardize the safety of your child by moving in with a F****** STRANGER. If he got it like that and he cares about you (and now your child) he'll see to it that y'all are straight.
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Permalink Reply by MissBling on -
If you felt the need to lie but never felt the need to come clean prior to him buying the house; that is the same reason why you shouldn't move in with him!
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Permalink Reply by Ms. BoiBye on -
I would say pray about it, lol. Sorry I feel you I have a daughter and I watch too many movies too. But this is a come up for you in the long run, You can stack some bread to be straight. Ask him to buy you some stocks in your real name!
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Permalink Reply by Maya Wilkes on
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Congrats girl! I agree with BSM....do you think you can get him to buy you a smaller house/condo nearby after you explain that you have a child?
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