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I found a sugar daddy; he's a fifty y.o. White business man from NY city. Turns out he wants to be serious. So serious that he took me to look at homes in NJ last week (this is not my old baller; he took me to look at homes in Jersey too but he was originally from Philly). Well, this morning he text me saying he bought the home I liked. Now, I lied about everything when I first met him because I didn't think this would bloom into a relationship (thought it would be along the lines of the girl with the pay arrangement with the old guy). I lied about my name, my age...everything. Now, I don't think he will be mad when I tell him but, there is one HUGE thing I 'forgot' to tell him: I have a child. I didn't tell him initially because I was in it for a quick buck. Now, I want to move in and don't know what to do. Should I move in with him? There are several other issues to be discussed as well like:
1) My family and friends judging me for moving in with an old, White man.
2) The area, where the home is, having a population of roughly 3,000 people of which only 66 are Black. I don't like that; especially for my child.
Thoughts?
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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on -
I never ended up telling him I had a child. Long story short, his ex had a child and left him for her child's father so he has a DISDAIN for women with children (that he is not afraid to voice). That was number one. Secondly, he was obsessed with having children. Especially "mixed children" who he believed to be "the prettiest children on earth". I did not want to have children. The last straw was when he said there would be no money exchanged from him to me if there was no committed relationship with children. I was floored. I no longer wanted to pursue him.
Anyone interested in his email and or phone number, be my guest. I will warn you, he will call/text/email you insistently. A bit of a bugaboo.
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
He has a strong disdain for women with children but wants a woman to have some children with him in a committed but not married relationship. *pause* Why do I get an incestuous pedophile feel from him? Probably have you and a couple other sister wives. Ugh! Sorry he turned out to be a weirdo. On to the next one!
BabyBallerCheeks said:I never ended up telling him I had a child. Long story short, his ex had a child and left him for her child's father so he has a DISDAIN for women with children (that he is not afraid to voice). That was number one. Secondly, he was obsessed with having children. Especially "mixed children" who he believed to be "the prettiest children on earth". I did not want to have children. The last straw was when he said there would be no money exchanged from him to me if there was no committed relationship with children. I was floored. I no longer wanted to pursue him.
Anyone interested in his email and or phone number, be my guest. I will warn you, he will call/text/email you insistently. A bit of a bugaboo.
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Permalink Reply by Bonita on -
Nah am good..the f - kind of arrangement is that? He sounds extremely controlling.
CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:He has a strong disdain for women with children but wants a woman to have some children with him in a committed but not married relationship. *pause* Why do I get an incestuous pedophile feel from him? Probably have you and a couple other sister wives. Ugh! Sorry he turned out to be a weirdo. On to the next one!
BabyBallerCheeks said:I never ended up telling him I had a child. Long story short, his ex had a child and left him for her child's father so he has a DISDAIN for women with children (that he is not afraid to voice). That was number one. Secondly, he was obsessed with having children. Especially "mixed children" who he believed to be "the prettiest children on earth". I did not want to have children. The last straw was when he said there would be no money exchanged from him to me if there was no committed relationship with children. I was floored. I no longer wanted to pursue him.
Anyone interested in his email and or phone number, be my guest. I will warn you, he will call/text/email you insistently. A bit of a bugaboo.
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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on
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He wanted to get married CC, but he wanted to do all of it...NOW. I didn't want marriage, children or commitment. I MET HIM ON A SUGAR DADDIE SITE! Why would you want to marry me? CLEARLY I'M NOT LOOKING FOR MARRIAGE. He made me angry when he said I couldn't have any money *deuces*
P.S. He's TOTALLY a pedophile. Reason why I never mentioned my child.
CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:He has a strong disdain for women with children but wants a woman to have some children with him in a committed but not married relationship. *pause* Why do I get an incestuous pedophile feel from him? Probably have you and a couple other sister wives. Ugh! Sorry he turned out to be a weirdo. On to the next one!
BabyBallerCheeks said:I never ended up telling him I had a child. Long story short, his ex had a child and left him for her child's father so he has a DISDAIN for women with children (that he is not afraid to voice). That was number one. Secondly, he was obsessed with having children. Especially "mixed children" who he believed to be "the prettiest children on earth". I did not want to have children. The last straw was when he said there would be no money exchanged from him to me if there was no committed relationship with children. I was floored. I no longer wanted to pursue him.
Anyone interested in his email and or phone number, be my guest. I will warn you, he will call/text/email you insistently. A bit of a bugaboo.
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Permalink Reply by Ms. BoiBye on -
LOL, you are too funny! A pedophile!?!?!?! Gurl, them maternal instincts be on point!
BabyBallerCheeks said:He wanted to get married CC, but he wanted to do all of it...NOW. I didn't want marriage, children or commitment. I MET HIM ON A SUGAR DADDIE SITE! Why would you want to marry me? CLEARLY I'M NOT LOOKING FOR MARRIAGE. He made me angry when he said I couldn't have any money *deuces*
P.S. He's TOTALLY a pedophile. Reason why I never mentioned my child.
CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:He has a strong disdain for women with children but wants a woman to have some children with him in a committed but not married relationship. *pause* Why do I get an incestuous pedophile feel from him? Probably have you and a couple other sister wives. Ugh! Sorry he turned out to be a weirdo. On to the next one!
BabyBallerCheeks said:I never ended up telling him I had a child. Long story short, his ex had a child and left him for her child's father so he has a DISDAIN for women with children (that he is not afraid to voice). That was number one. Secondly, he was obsessed with having children. Especially "mixed children" who he believed to be "the prettiest children on earth". I did not want to have children. The last straw was when he said there would be no money exchanged from him to me if there was no committed relationship with children. I was floored. I no longer wanted to pursue him.
Anyone interested in his email and or phone number, be my guest. I will warn you, he will call/text/email you insistently. A bit of a bugaboo.
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Permalink Reply by mavsbabe41 on -
Wow, that is crazy, BBC. At least you went with your instinc. ;) My thing about finding a sd in person is how can you tell if he is worth getting to know besides having to ask him "what kind of relationship are you looking for?" Sounds silly, I know.
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