I found a sugar daddy; he's a fifty y.o. White business man from NY city. Turns out he wants to be serious. So serious that he took me to look at homes in NJ last week (this is not my old baller; he took me to look at homes in Jersey too but he was originally from Philly). Well, this morning he text me saying he bought the home I liked. Now, I lied about everything when I first met him because I didn't think this would bloom into a relationship (thought it would be along the lines of the girl with the pay arrangement with the old guy). I lied about my name, my age...everything. Now, I don't think he will be mad when I tell him but, there is one HUGE thing I 'forgot' to tell him: I have a child. I didn't tell him initially because I was in it for a quick buck. Now, I want to move in and don't know what to do. Should I move in with him? There are several other issues to be discussed as well like:
1) My family and friends judging me for moving in with an old, White man.
2) The area, where the home is, having a population of roughly 3,000 people of which only 66 are Black. I don't like that; especially for my child.
Thoughts?