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Permalink Reply by Ms. BoiBye on June 8, 2012 at 12:09pm Just sit down and tell him. That he needs to give you more notice with your own damn vehicle and you need your money back. Have him sign a schedule saying that he will give you x amount of money a month or every two weeks. So if it gets messy you have documentation for court. Hate to have to take it that far, but friends and fam will screw you in the ass with no KY before strangers. Good Luck!
Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on June 8, 2012 at 12:29pm This is the main reason that I do NOT loan out my car. If I'm to busy to give you a ride, you look real good on the bus. Besides, you never have anywhere to go until the second somebody pulls off in yo sh*t. Next thing you know you're late......f**k that
Permalink Reply by RoyaleT on June 8, 2012 at 12:44pm Flat out ask him for the money and the car keys. Its not personal unless he makes it personal. If he has any questions explain to him how helping him has been seriously inconviencing you especially with his lack of communication. Hopefully you two can arrive at a resolution that works for you but correct this situation before it ruins your relationship....good luck
Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 8, 2012 at 2:00pm Ok, you say he did the same for you when you needed it. How long did it take you to get on your feet? That's how long you give him to get on his. If you are past this time period then let him know your buck stops right here. TAKE your car keys back and ask for your money back. Don't get snippy. Just ask for it nice and let it go. Good luck.
Permalink Reply by DB on June 8, 2012 at 2:38pm Flat out ask him for the money and the car keys. Its not personal unless he makes it personal. If he has any questions explain to him how helping him has been seriously inconviencing you especially with his lack of communication. Hopefully you two can arrive at a resolution that works for you but correct this situation before it ruins your relationship....good luck
Permalink Reply by DB on June 8, 2012 at 2:43pm Ok, you say he did the same for you when you needed it. How long did it take you to get on your feet? That's how long you give him to get on his. If you are past this time period then let him know your buck stops right here. TAKE your car keys back and ask for your money back. Don't get snippy. Just ask for it nice and let it go. Good luck.
Permalink Reply by Collete on June 8, 2012 at 6:56pm +1....
Love is a Losing Game said:
Its hard when a person has been there for you, and then they need u to be there for them. I usually go though hell and highwater for those folk. I just be feelin too bad about the situation to leave them in need when they came to my aid. Let's be honest, there are not many people who will help you at ur lowest. I say tell him u need ur car more, use the suggestion of a new schedule and be sure to include monthly repayments of the money. I'd also go an extra mile and maybe look out for 'trappers' for him and job openings, also speaking to my friends to see if they know of any jobs he'd qualify for. I'd help him wit his resume and choosing a fit for an interview too, hell we can even practce questions. Maybe more money in his pocket will mean more in your faster, lol. I'd try my best to help him get on his feet with leaving him or treating him bad. You never know when/if you will need help again.
Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on June 8, 2012 at 8:41pm
Permalink Reply by PlaneJaneLane on June 8, 2012 at 8:57pm You NEVER "lend" a family member or friend money and expect it back, you're supposed to give it back and if they pay you back then good for you. Cuz that's how you ruin friendships and relationships.
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