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Permalink Reply by Baller Alert on March 16, 2012 at 12:58pm

I agree...

Denise said:

The issue is bigger than this man and if this story is true or not.......The child is ALWAYS a victim. If an adult is knowing having sexual contact, sexually grooming, or actual any sort of sexual intent with a child....He/She is WRONG!!!!!! and should take full responsibility being the adult....a child's mind is easily manipulated and lead astray......How anyone could possibly think anything different is beyond me.....I pray for you.

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on March 16, 2012 at 3:15pm

How the f*** does a 13 year old want to have sex w/ a grown ass man????? Seriously how old are you????   

Again you defend the man (culprit) but throw the child (victim) under the bus? In what realm of reality does that makes sense?????

nalaLOVE said:

lol I just did this out of spite because I knew it was gonna strike a nerve! -- && this also says...  you never know what story may be behind these text messages if they're true or not... because we're not them... this is a man who raised his OWN daughter ..fell inlove w/ her and got her pregnant -- who knows @ what age she started to get intimate w/ her father but this is someone who raised her! his own child ..in this sick world people do things that leaves us w/ ??? -- like if these rumors are true how do we not know this is something the daughter want? how do we know what age he started getting intimate w/ her? who made the first step? did they both have feelings for eachother?? there r so many questions lol I wish there was a full blown article about this because this case sounds real juicy.. I think outside the box ...when it comes to things like this thats just me... & btw I'm a full blown believer in God! I pray to him everynight & thank him every morning! 

JustMe said:

You need Jesus... 

How old are you???? 

nalaLOVE said:

* walks away...*

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on March 16, 2012 at 3:15pm

How the f*** does a 13 year old want to have sex w/ a grown ass man????? Seriously how old are you????   

Again you defend the man (culprit) but throw the child (victim) under the bus? In what realm of reality does that makes sense?????

nalaLOVE said:

lol I just did this out of spite because I knew it was gonna strike a nerve! -- && this also says...  you never know what story may be behind these text messages if they're true or not... because we're not them... this is a man who raised his OWN daughter ..fell inlove w/ her and got her pregnant -- who knows @ what age she started to get intimate w/ her father but this is someone who raised her! his own child ..in this sick world people do things that leaves us w/ ??? -- like if these rumors are true how do we not know this is something the daughter want? how do we know what age he started getting intimate w/ her? who made the first step? did they both have feelings for eachother?? there r so many questions lol I wish there was a full blown article about this because this case sounds real juicy.. I think outside the box ...when it comes to things like this thats just me... & btw I'm a full blown believer in God! I pray to him everynight & thank him every morning! 

JustMe said:

You need Jesus... 

How old are you???? 

nalaLOVE said:

* walks away...*

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on March 16, 2012 at 3:19pm

So you won't talk negatively about a grown ass man, but you can speak ill of a child???? Oh, ok. 

Skytz0100 said:

So true! And no one said it was ok we are saying don't jump on the bandwagon until proof has been released. I am not going to take the word of a post and even if we agreed with previous posts without proof this is different, this is child molestation, and I am not going to condemn someone of this just because an anonymous person posted a picture and a comment! And I am still reeling at the fact that mom found the messages, the child did not tell mom about these messages and if he wasn't living in the house, why would you not tell your mom! I know I would have if I didn't want to do it! Especially if he no longer lived in the house at the time the messages were found. Yes, he is dead wrong if it's true, but I don't know the whole story so like I said before until I do, I will resist calling the man perverts, and molesters!

nalaLOVE said:

did I mention anywhere in my lil paragraph it was okay? no .. I gotta be full blown descriptive when it comes to things I see..  what I'm saying is we can't just label mandisi and not think the little girl doesn't have parts..because we don't know as I brought to your attention it's possible for fathers to fall inlove w/ their daughters... not saying these two were falling in love ..maybe mandisi was buying her things and she enjoyed it and found no wrong? like theres so much ..either way Mandisi should of never went there but I'm just tryna show you guys different possibilities the child could have parts ... the victim isn't always the victim but they can be forcefully turned into one if the mother wants them to look like one to give Mandisi a bad name in this case.. it's been done .. mothers have used their children to get back to their ex's of some sort



MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

OMG....speechless, soooo because she wanted to do it, if its true, does that make it okay?? Thats why there should be adults, to let children know right from wrong.  Why do you think parents sometimes have pay for what their children do? because children cant make logical decisions......anyways....as far as this story not being 100% reliable, most stories posted on here arent 100% reliable and ppl post responses and their opinions rather the story is verified or not (IM sure you have too)  so I dont know what reliabilty has to do with it..#justsaying
 

People kill, rape, molest, rob, beat others all the time and try and justify their actions..because they justify it in their own mind does it make it okay.

 nalaLOVE said:

lol I just did this out of spite because I knew it was gonna strike a nerve! -- && this also says...  you never know what story may be behind these text messages if they're true or not... because we're not them... this is a man who raised his OWN daughter ..fell inlove w/ her and got her pregnant -- who knows @ what age she started to get intimate w/ her father but this is someone who raised her! his own child ..in this sick world people do things that leaves us w/ ??? -- like if these rumors are true how do we not know this is something the daughter want? how do we know what age he started getting intimate w/ her? who made the first step? did they both have feelings for eachother?? there r so many questions lol I wish there was a full blown article about this because this case sounds real juicy.. I think outside the box ...when it comes to things like this thats just me... & btw I'm a full blown believer in God! I pray to him everynight & thank him every morning! 

JustMe said:

You need Jesus... 

How old are you???? 

nalaLOVE said:

* walks away...*

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on March 16, 2012 at 3:43pm

You are a sick f*** for this.....you obviously don't understand how grown folks manipulate children. Your child would be scared to come to you. SMH

Skytz0100 said:

So true! And no one said it was ok we are saying don't jump on the bandwagon until proof has been released. I am not going to take the word of a post and even if we agreed with previous posts without proof this is different, this is child molestation, and I am not going to condemn someone of this just because an anonymous person posted a picture and a comment! And I am still reeling at the fact that mom found the messages, the child did not tell mom about these messages and if he wasn't living in the house, why would you not tell your mom! I know I would have if I didn't want to do it! Especially if he no longer lived in the house at the time the messages were found. Yes, he is dead wrong if it's true, but I don't know the whole story so like I said before until I do, I will resist calling the man perverts, and molesters!

nalaLOVE said:

did I mention anywhere in my lil paragraph it was okay? no .. I gotta be full blown descriptive when it comes to things I see..  what I'm saying is we can't just label mandisi and not think the little girl doesn't have parts..because we don't know as I brought to your attention it's possible for fathers to fall inlove w/ their daughters... not saying these two were falling in love ..maybe mandisi was buying her things and she enjoyed it and found no wrong? like theres so much ..either way Mandisi should of never went there but I'm just tryna show you guys different possibilities the child could have parts ... the victim isn't always the victim but they can be forcefully turned into one if the mother wants them to look like one to give Mandisi a bad name in this case.. it's been done .. mothers have used their children to get back to their ex's of some sort



MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

OMG....speechless, soooo because she wanted to do it, if its true, does that make it okay?? Thats why there should be adults, to let children know right from wrong.  Why do you think parents sometimes have pay for what their children do? because children cant make logical decisions......anyways....as far as this story not being 100% reliable, most stories posted on here arent 100% reliable and ppl post responses and their opinions rather the story is verified or not (IM sure you have too)  so I dont know what reliabilty has to do with it..#justsaying
 

People kill, rape, molest, rob, beat others all the time and try and justify their actions..because they justify it in their own mind does it make it okay.

 nalaLOVE said:

lol I just did this out of spite because I knew it was gonna strike a nerve! -- && this also says...  you never know what story may be behind these text messages if they're true or not... because we're not them... this is a man who raised his OWN daughter ..fell inlove w/ her and got her pregnant -- who knows @ what age she started to get intimate w/ her father but this is someone who raised her! his own child ..in this sick world people do things that leaves us w/ ??? -- like if these rumors are true how do we not know this is something the daughter want? how do we know what age he started getting intimate w/ her? who made the first step? did they both have feelings for eachother?? there r so many questions lol I wish there was a full blown article about this because this case sounds real juicy.. I think outside the box ...when it comes to things like this thats just me... & btw I'm a full blown believer in God! I pray to him everynight & thank him every morning! 

JustMe said:

You need Jesus... 

How old are you???? 

nalaLOVE said:

* walks away...*

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on March 16, 2012 at 7:45pm

I can't believe people actually think like this..smh...
 
Skytz0100 said:

So true! And no one said it was ok we are saying don't jump on the bandwagon until proof has been released. I am not going to take the word of a post and even if we agreed with previous posts without proof this is different, this is child molestation, and I am not going to condemn someone of this just because an anonymous person posted a picture and a comment! And I am still reeling at the fact that mom found the messages, the child did not tell mom about these messages and if he wasn't living in the house, why would you not tell your mom! I know I would have if I didn't want to do it! Especially if he no longer lived in the house at the time the messages were found. Yes, he is dead wrong if it's true, but I don't know the whole story so like I said before until I do, I will resist calling the man perverts, and molesters!

nalaLOVE said:

did I mention anywhere in my lil paragraph it was okay? no .. I gotta be full blown descriptive when it comes to things I see..  what I'm saying is we can't just label mandisi and not think the little girl doesn't have parts..because we don't know as I brought to your attention it's possible for fathers to fall inlove w/ their daughters... not saying these two were falling in love ..maybe mandisi was buying her things and she enjoyed it and found no wrong? like theres so much ..either way Mandisi should of never went there but I'm just tryna show you guys different possibilities the child could have parts ... the victim isn't always the victim but they can be forcefully turned into one if the mother wants them to look like one to give Mandisi a bad name in this case.. it's been done .. mothers have used their children to get back to their ex's of some sort



MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

OMG....speechless, soooo because she wanted to do it, if its true, does that make it okay?? Thats why there should be adults, to let children know right from wrong.  Why do you think parents sometimes have pay for what their children do? because children cant make logical decisions......anyways....as far as this story not being 100% reliable, most stories posted on here arent 100% reliable and ppl post responses and their opinions rather the story is verified or not (IM sure you have too)  so I dont know what reliabilty has to do with it..#justsaying
 

People kill, rape, molest, rob, beat others all the time and try and justify their actions..because they justify it in their own mind does it make it okay.

 nalaLOVE said:

lol I just did this out of spite because I knew it was gonna strike a nerve! -- && this also says...  you never know what story may be behind these text messages if they're true or not... because we're not them... this is a man who raised his OWN daughter ..fell inlove w/ her and got her pregnant -- who knows @ what age she started to get intimate w/ her father but this is someone who raised her! his own child ..in this sick world people do things that leaves us w/ ??? -- like if these rumors are true how do we not know this is something the daughter want? how do we know what age he started getting intimate w/ her? who made the first step? did they both have feelings for eachother?? there r so many questions lol I wish there was a full blown article about this because this case sounds real juicy.. I think outside the box ...when it comes to things like this thats just me... & btw I'm a full blown believer in God! I pray to him everynight & thank him every morning! 

JustMe said:

You need Jesus... 

How old are you???? 

nalaLOVE said:

* walks away...*

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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on March 16, 2012 at 11:15pm

I can.

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

I can't believe people actually think like this..smh...
 
Skytz0100 said:

So true! And no one said it was ok we are saying don't jump on the bandwagon until proof has been released. I am not going to take the word of a post and even if we agreed with previous posts without proof this is different, this is child molestation, and I am not going to condemn someone of this just because an anonymous person posted a picture and a comment! And I am still reeling at the fact that mom found the messages, the child did not tell mom about these messages and if he wasn't living in the house, why would you not tell your mom! I know I would have if I didn't want to do it! Especially if he no longer lived in the house at the time the messages were found. Yes, he is dead wrong if it's true, but I don't know the whole story so like I said before until I do, I will resist calling the man perverts, and molesters!

nalaLOVE said:

did I mention anywhere in my lil paragraph it was okay? no .. I gotta be full blown descriptive when it comes to things I see..  what I'm saying is we can't just label mandisi and not think the little girl doesn't have parts..because we don't know as I brought to your attention it's possible for fathers to fall inlove w/ their daughters... not saying these two were falling in love ..maybe mandisi was buying her things and she enjoyed it and found no wrong? like theres so much ..either way Mandisi should of never went there but I'm just tryna show you guys different possibilities the child could have parts ... the victim isn't always the victim but they can be forcefully turned into one if the mother wants them to look like one to give Mandisi a bad name in this case.. it's been done .. mothers have used their children to get back to their ex's of some sort



MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

OMG....speechless, soooo because she wanted to do it, if its true, does that make it okay?? Thats why there should be adults, to let children know right from wrong.  Why do you think parents sometimes have pay for what their children do? because children cant make logical decisions......anyways....as far as this story not being 100% reliable, most stories posted on here arent 100% reliable and ppl post responses and their opinions rather the story is verified or not (IM sure you have too)  so I dont know what reliabilty has to do with it..#justsaying
 

People kill, rape, molest, rob, beat others all the time and try and justify their actions..because they justify it in their own mind does it make it okay.

 nalaLOVE said:

lol I just did this out of spite because I knew it was gonna strike a nerve! -- && this also says...  you never know what story may be behind these text messages if they're true or not... because we're not them... this is a man who raised his OWN daughter ..fell inlove w/ her and got her pregnant -- who knows @ what age she started to get intimate w/ her father but this is someone who raised her! his own child ..in this sick world people do things that leaves us w/ ??? -- like if these rumors are true how do we not know this is something the daughter want? how do we know what age he started getting intimate w/ her? who made the first step? did they both have feelings for eachother?? there r so many questions lol I wish there was a full blown article about this because this case sounds real juicy.. I think outside the box ...when it comes to things like this thats just me... & btw I'm a full blown believer in God! I pray to him everynight & thank him every morning! 

JustMe said:

You need Jesus... 

How old are you???? 

nalaLOVE said:

* walks away...*

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Permalink Reply by Comin' Up on March 17, 2012 at 2:04pm

Looooonnnnggg time lurker coming out of hiding. I mostly LOVE the antics of this board, but some of this sh*t cray.

 

It's NOT about THIS ONE man (he just happens to be the vehicle) but the general  mindset about molestation/rape between a grown man and a minor.

 

A GIRL'S body  (and even sexual awareness/desire) developing does not mean her brain has caught up to making sound decisions. The frontal cortex (responsible for decision-making) isn't even FULLY FORMED until the 20s.

 

Under ZERO circumstances can a grown man and a minor be equally responsible in a sexual relationship. Maybe she has low self-esteem, maybe she confuses biology (physical desire) with emotions. HE (whomever the GROWN MAN is) should be old enough to know sex with a minor is WRONG regardless of why she "gets down." Predators prey though. 

 

Let's just say a girl is a hoeing ass liar a la Megan Good's character in Eve's Bayou...while she's a minor, she needs HELP (from parents or SOME damn body) not sex (with a predator).

 

I was lucky and dodged all sorts of bullets growing up. I also run a program for young women and EVERYDAY I see the areas where they think they have it figured out, but still need to grow.

 

Where's the compassion button in *cough* some of us???

 

 

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on March 17, 2012 at 2:17pm

Wasnt there somebody saying in another post about dating older men and the men tell them "you are so mature for your age, girl" and argued us down that it was not manipulation?

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Permalink Reply by Baller Alert on March 17, 2012 at 2:21pm

Ditto...

Comin' Up said:

Looooonnnnggg time lurker coming out of hiding. I mostly LOVE the antics of this board, but some of this sh*t cray.

 

It's NOT about THIS ONE man (he just happens to be the vehicle) but the general  mindset about molestation/rape between a grown man and a minor.

 

A GIRL'S body  (and even sexual awareness/desire) developing does not mean her brain has caught up to making sound decisions. The frontal cortex (responsible for decision-making) isn't even FULLY FORMED until the 20s.

 

Under ZERO circumstances can a grown man and a minor be equally responsible in a sexual relationship. Maybe she has low self-esteem, maybe she confuses biology (physical desire) with emotions. HE (whomever the GROWN MAN is) should be old enough to know sex with a minor is WRONG regardless of why she "gets down." Predators prey though. 

 

Let's just say a girl is a hoeing ass liar a la Megan Good's character in Eve's Bayou...while she's a minor, she needs HELP (from parents or SOME damn body) not sex (with a predator).

 

I was lucky and dodged all sorts of bullets growing up. I also run a program for young women and EVERYDAY I see the areas where they think they have it figured out, but still need to grow.

 

Where's the compassion button in *cough* some of us???

 

 

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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on March 19, 2012 at 8:13pm

I can't with this story. As a mother, it really burns me up that a man could put his hands on my child. I would KILL a man; consensual or not. That is all...

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Permalink Reply by bksfinest on March 21, 2012 at 8:13pm

Where is nalaLOVE?

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