K. Michelle - i just wanna f***!!
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I'm so disappointed within myself. I can not believe that I engaged in an the exchange that occured a yesterday and before. While that ish was VERY FUNNY to me lol I feel that even responding to some of those comments was so beneath me. Like in my mind my class points have gone down lol! Anyway, I do feel I owe an apology to.....Boss! I apologize for sullying up ur site wit those exchanges.
The very crux of the 'debate' was substantial in my opinion and I don't regret defending it. We as black women have to maintain our confidence in ourselves because it is under attack from every angle. Who our men date is no real refection on us as women, its simply a choice that they are free to make. I hope through all my foul language, a reader was able to take away that conclusion.
Lastly, imo, men chose women that they connect with, not the trophy seekers, but men wanting a woman to compliment and complement do this. The part of the debate over pretty and etc was soooo trivial because of the subjective nature of 'beauty.' Imo
While I may have to take it there for an ignorant and, ah hem young commenter, I know that exchanges of that nature are not reflective of the woman I am seeking to become.
The very crux of the 'debate' was substantial in my opinion and I don't regret defending it. We as black women have to maintain our confidence in ourselves because it is under attack from every angle. Who our men date is no real refection on us as women, its simply a choice that they are free to make. I hope through all my foul language, a reader was able to take away that conclusion.
Lastly, imo, men chose women that they connect with, not the trophy seekers, but men wanting a woman to compliment and complement do this. The part of the debate over pretty and etc was soooo trivial because of the subjective nature of 'beauty.' Imo
While I may have to take it there for an ignorant and, ah hem young commenter, I know that exchanges of that nature are not reflective of the woman I am seeking to become.
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Permalink Reply by Baller Alert on -
Girl bye.. me being an "old broad" myself I was appalled at some of the views expressed by the "young broad"
When I read that stupid s*** it made me thank god for my wisdom...lol
One thing we ALL have in common is that we will get older and we will die... that same "young broad" will be older one day. Let's just hope she gets some knowledge and wisdom and will be able to school the young on her experiences.
Sometimes you just have to sit back and laugh at the stupid s*** that comes out.. lol We have all been there including me. I wish I listened back in the day.. I learned the hard way.
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
Girl, why are you apologizing? Did Boss fuss us out? What did I miss?
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Permalink Reply by Dragon Slayer Puss on
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No, while I meant my reasponses, I know I'm better than to type them. I should let somebody else school her. I have never had a negative internet exchange and I'm surprised I did
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on -
Whatu talking bout and whatu apologizing(sp) for????
What does being an old broad have to do with it??? That ish was better than any reality show. LOL
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
Girl, please. We're black women and sometimes we just prefer to give a good 'F**K YOU!!!!! rather than take the high road. Yeah it's wrong but it damn sure feels good.....lol
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Permalink Reply by Sheli on -
That's it, right there!!!
University of Smitty said:Girl, please. We're black women and sometimes we just prefer to give a good 'F**K YOU!!!!! rather than the high road. Yeah it's wrong but it damn sure feels good.....lol
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I just used a term that was thrown out there. I know I aint old lol! I'm sayin that sometimes it better to let people especially young people fall on their own a****. Honestly, I don't do drama a s*** talk, I was surprised I slayed kim and sweetie like that but I just think it was so.....beneath me. I mean if she learned something then maybe not, but she prob didnt
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Permalink Reply by SACK CHASER on -
Girl please! I guess us old broads saw through the ignorance that was being displayed.
We understood your pov because we share the same views. However that lil heffa does not walk in our shoes therefore she can not begin to comprehend your feelings. That is why she was offened by what was said.
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Permalink Reply by MissBling on -
Girl!! F*** her... I was by myself for the longest trying to defend my thoughts and views on the subject. The audacity of that trash to try to be "offended" after she read things the way she wanted to, so her lil angry ass could have a reason to be mad. At the end of the day, none of us owed her any explanation but I think we all wanted her to honestly learn something. Some just gotta learn the hard way...
Love is a Losing Game said:No, while I meant my reasponses, I know I'm better than to type them. I should let somebody else school her. I have never had a negative internet exchange and I'm surprised I did
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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on -
If 30 is old than I must be Methusala cause I am 35 and no I don't have kids and no I am not married!
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on
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I thought you had a little boy
Skytz0100 said:If 30 is old than I must be Methusala cause I am 35 and no I don't have kids and no I am not married!
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