For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
Hello Ladies! I really need your help. I am sad to admit this but I am a 28 year old virgin. I know ya’ll are starching your heads but
let me explain. Since I was 15 years old, I have been watching as my friends have
repeatedly gotten their hearts ripped out by men. I made a promise to myself; I
will only give myself to man that is worthy, that loves and adores me. When I
dated in high school, college, and professional school, I could see right through
the games and insincerity of the men I dated. It was as if I would get this feeling in my
gut that this man only wanted ass and nothing else. Ladies, I promise my gut as
never lead me wrong. Once I would take
the sex card off the table… they were gone. It was the ultimate test that I
used to make sure that the guy wanted to develop something beyond the physical.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I get mine. Lol ;) Virgin does not equal prude in my
book. Anyway, 6 months ago, I met the
guy of my dreams. He is well educated, no children, thoughtful, great sense of
humor, respectful, well paying job and he treats me like a goddess. I am complete
conformable with him b/c I know that he cares about me. He is 11 years older
than me and he has traveled the world and done it all. He was the first guy
that I dated that was not pissed when I told them that I was a virgin. He got so
excited b/c thinks it makes me the ultimate wifey material, and he was on a
hunt for wifey. Here comes the issue, we have recently have tried to have sex on
several occasions but he is so big, it does not fit in. I am so sad. I feel like I
f***** myself. If I would have gotten this over with I was 16, this would not
be a problem. It’s a lose lose situation
for me! Do you ladies have any tips for me? How can make this experience less painful?
1. stay a virgin til ur married.
2. your cooch can give birth to a child...so a man is NEVER too big....
3. get drunk. really really drunk and it'll be less painful.
4. it's a not a lose lose situation. there are lil d*** mofos out there. trust me. we all can testify. can i get an amen?!!? lol
Thanks for your advise ladies. I am absolutely against waiting for marriage. Seriously ya'll?!?! Would you buy a car without test driving that s***. I am not about to end up with someone that can't get it up. [Think Charlotte from Sex and the City] No ma'am I will NOT be waiting for marriage. But when it comes to him, I am more than sure. I really don't think he is trying to f*** me over. Beyond the reasons listed above, but the whole reason he does not fit is that he does not want to hurt me and I have a low pain tolerance down there. I don't masturbate and I don't use tampons so beyond a finger... nothing has penetrated me! :(