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THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A SOUL MATE

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What is a soul mate? If your definition of a soul mate is this perfect person who, as soon as you see him/her, you instantly know he/she is the one, you may be searching for someone who doesn’t exist. Relationships are nurtured and grown. They are not instantaneous. There may be wonderful matches out there for you, but you’ve passed them by because you were expecting fireworks or the instant realization that you've met “the one” the second you saw him/her.

If you’re searching for your match, don’t look for someone who is a 100 percent perfect fit. If that’s whom you’re looking for, you may never find him/her. Instead, consider the person who is an 80 percent fit. If the remaining 20 percent are not deal-breakers — alcohol or drug addiction, abuse, etc. — you will grow that 20 percent in much less time than you would waste looking for the 100 percent candidate. Relationships begin with getting to know each other and you build onto it from there. You teach them about you and you learn about them, and you grow together as a couple.
-DR. PHIL

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I agree with this...

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My definition of soul mate is the person who loves and accepts you as you are, who is perfect for YOU, and who tugs at your heart like nobody's business. I do agree that NO ONE will be 100% of what you WANT, but can be 80% of what you NEED.

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Co-sign

Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux said:
My definition of soul mate is the person who loves and accepts you as you are, who is perfect for YOU, and who tugs at your heart like nobody's business. I do agree that NO ONE will be 100% of what you WANT, but can be 80% of what you NEED.

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This is very true...

Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux said:
My definition of soul mate is the person who loves and accepts you as you are, who is perfect for YOU, and who tugs at your heart like nobody's business. I do agree that NO ONE will be 100% of what you WANT, but can be 80% of what you NEED.

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This is so true - its the 80%-20% rule that Dr Phil is talking about....

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I believe this. I've noticed that people who find their soulmate usually have this experience more than once.

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I didn't believe in soul mates until I thought I found mine. The chemistry from the beginning was so natural. We felt like we have been together for decades even though we just met. I have never felt so .....everything!!! about anyone in my life. But he has issues at the moment and so do I.....so our timing was just off and for no real reason it didn't end but it also didn't last. Maybe we can revisit it in the future.......or maybe I'll marry someone else that will grow on me over time. Now, after that, I really don't believe in soul mates. If they existed then it should have worked becuase our souls wanted it to regardless of how imperfect we are........right???

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A soul mate is not your exact match. They have everything you are missing and they thus you make each other whole.
The 100% match is your twin flame. They were thought to be created (their soul) at the same time. Like God took one soul and split into two people.
It is highly unlikely you will meet your twin soul in your life time but anything is possible.

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This is so true.

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I agree with Devyn and the Doc.
Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux said:
My definition of soul mate is the person who loves and accepts you as you are, who is perfect for YOU, and who tugs at your heart like nobody's business. I do agree that NO ONE will be 100% of what you WANT, but can be 80% of what you NEED.

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I agree!!!

Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux said:
My definition of soul mate is the person who loves and accepts you as you are, who is perfect for YOU, and who tugs at your heart like nobody's business. I do agree that NO ONE will be 100% of what you WANT, but can be 80% of what you NEED.

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I may be a bitter ass bitch but I dont believe in a soul mate for me .. Just whn I do things fall apart badly and I pretty much said Eff it w the whole soul mate idea

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