THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A SOUL MATE
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What is a soul mate? If your definition of a soul mate is this perfect person who, as soon as you see him/her, you instantly know he/she is the one, you may be searching for someone who doesn’t exist. Relationships are nurtured and grown. They are not instantaneous. There may be wonderful matches out there for you, but you’ve passed them by because you were expecting fireworks or the instant realization that you've met “the one” the second you saw him/her.
If you’re searching for your match, don’t look for someone who is a 100 percent perfect fit. If that’s whom you’re looking for, you may never find him/her. Instead, consider the person who is an 80 percent fit. If the remaining 20 percent are not deal-breakers — alcohol or drug addiction, abuse, etc. — you will grow that 20 percent in much less time than you would waste looking for the 100 percent candidate. Relationships begin with getting to know each other and you build onto it from there. You teach them about you and you learn about them, and you grow together as a couple.
-DR. PHIL
If you’re searching for your match, don’t look for someone who is a 100 percent perfect fit. If that’s whom you’re looking for, you may never find him/her. Instead, consider the person who is an 80 percent fit. If the remaining 20 percent are not deal-breakers — alcohol or drug addiction, abuse, etc. — you will grow that 20 percent in much less time than you would waste looking for the 100 percent candidate. Relationships begin with getting to know each other and you build onto it from there. You teach them about you and you learn about them, and you grow together as a couple.
-DR. PHIL
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Permalink Reply by Beautifulone on -
The problem is peole have the definition of soul mate mixed up with twin flame!
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Permalink Reply by Cookie Pie on -
I believe in soul mates and I have mine but I also believe that you can have more than one in a lifetime ...
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Permalink Reply by Beautifulone on
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You can!
Cookie Pie said:I believe in soul mates and I have mine but I also believe that you can have more than one in a lifetime ...
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Permalink Reply by kadydid on -
I believe that all soul mates don't have to be romantic intrests. I believe you can have multiple romantic soul mates. I think that we meet people for many different reasons. That person was in your life for a reason even if the relaltionship did not work out.
Let's take our President. His parents met and were soul mates for a short period of time so that he could be concived. We also met people so that we can grow. I look at each relationship in the past as one that I can reflect on for the good and the bad.
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Permalink Reply by Dominique P. Smith on -
Agreed =)
Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux said:My definition of soul mate is the person who loves and accepts you as you are, who is perfect for YOU, and who tugs at your heart like nobody's business. I do agree that NO ONE will be 100% of what you WANT, but can be 80% of what you NEED.
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Permalink Reply by Haute Shid on -
A soulmate is the person willing to put up with your ass. *cheeze*
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Permalink Reply by Irreplaceable_me on -
Cosign.
Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux said:My definition of soul mate is the person who loves and accepts you as you are, who is perfect for YOU, and who tugs at your heart like nobody's business. I do agree that NO ONE will be 100% of what you WANT, but can be 80% of what you NEED.
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