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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on April 25, 2012 at 4:53pm

Find any yet? Its like if we are too smart for the b*******, they can't take it. And if we we just take the b*******, they can't take it.

Monica Amazing said:

This!!!! is exactly where I am now.

Siren said:

At this point the biggest thing I learned from my exes is that I chose them and I needed to make better choices in men. I needed to focus on what was important to me beyond the surface. I also learned that I can't make someone be who they aren't some people no matter how much you like them do not have the capacity to be/give you what you need.

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Permalink Reply by Siren on April 25, 2012 at 5:08pm

Found and married him

l8dy-c said:

Find any yet? Its like if we are too smart for the b*******, they can't take it. And if we we just take the b*******, they can't take it.
Monica Amazing said:

This!!!! is exactly where I am now.
Siren said:

At this point the biggest thing I learned from my exes is that I chose them and I needed to make better choices in men. I needed to focus on what was important to me beyond the surface. I also learned that I can't make someone be who they aren't some people no matter how much you like them do not have the capacity to be/give you what you need.

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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on April 27, 2012 at 9:49pm

I'm not needy. He did teach me not to believe everything I see. Also to always benefit from a man, if not then move on. Also, taught me alot of stuff about women too.

l8dy-c said:

Is this me or ?not too sure?

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

New friend - the best way to get something form a dude is to not seem needy.

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Permalink Reply by Creative Bee on April 27, 2012 at 10:47pm

1) Always follow your dream no matter how crazy or how hard it might seem

2) Do not be afraid to be who you are, say no when you feel like it, don't settle if you don't want something

3) Invest every spare dollar

4) You don't have to wait for a better moment, act now

5) Your health is very important

6) Be passionate for someone who deserves it

And much more, he was a great mentor but a student outgrew his teacher and we had to part our ways.

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Permalink Reply by glamazon on April 29, 2012 at 7:02am

Mostly dating lessons:

Potential doesn't count for anything.

Treat them how they treat me, not how I'd like them to treat me. 

Agree with everthing. Explain nothing. Then do what's best for me.

Condition that ass without words. 

Don't give no nigga no chances.

Not try to play myself down when asked snarky questions by men: Are you rich? You must be spoiled(?) Seem like you're high maintenance(?) Acting like a prize will make any man a believer. Why try to rid myself of it, just to get regular treatment?

Take it slow and let him be a man! (I have too much pride, not comfortable taking or asking)

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Permalink Reply by Bonita on April 29, 2012 at 3:25pm

My last ex confirmed why I do not date folks with kids. Also if a man doesn't see anything wrong with hanging up on his mother he will for sure be disrespectful to you. He also confirmed that I would rather be single than put up with BS.

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