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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on April 23, 2012 at 10:26pm

Recent ex, I can't say he really taught me much, but I have learned that a man actions can if possible turn a woman into exactly what he wants. I have taught myself that loving myself and being around others that love themselves is better for me. Can't no man teach me anything.

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on April 23, 2012 at 10:46pm

New friend - the best way to get something form a dude is to not seem needy.

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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on April 23, 2012 at 10:48pm

Is this me or ?not too sure?

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

New friend - the best way to get something form a dude is to not seem needy.

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Permalink Reply by Brii on April 24, 2012 at 1:26am

Instead of trying to get even just make sure you do better.
Some things never change
You have to grow from the inside out
Everything comes to light sooner or later.
When a man shows you who he is BELIEVE IT
Change your phone number immediately

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Permalink Reply by Siren on April 24, 2012 at 9:46am

At this point the biggest thing I learned from my exes is that I chose them and I needed to make better choices in men. I needed to focus on what was important to me beyond the surface. I also learned that I can't make someone be who they aren't some people no matter how much you like them do not have the capacity to be/give you what you need.

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on April 24, 2012 at 10:00am

Let the past stay in the past...
Most bad boys do not grow up to be good men...

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Permalink Reply by Monica Amazing on April 24, 2012 at 11:51am

This!!!! is exactly where I am now.

Siren said:

At this point the biggest thing I learned from my exes is that I chose them and I needed to make better choices in men. I needed to focus on what was important to me beyond the surface. I also learned that I can't make someone be who they aren't some people no matter how much you like them do not have the capacity to be/give you what you need.

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Permalink Reply by Tracy on April 24, 2012 at 12:55pm

 

Everything Siren said (waving) +

 

People love you the best they can, but its not always in the way that you need and there's no crime in leaving to find the one who will give you what you need.

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Permalink Reply by Siren on April 24, 2012 at 1:08pm

Hey Tracy! Still waiting on you Ms. Lady!

Tracy said:

 

Everything Siren said (waving) +

 

People love you the best they can, but its not always in the way that you need and there's no crime in leaving to find the one who will give you what you need.

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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on April 24, 2012 at 3:44pm

1. I learned to eat healthy since my last man was vegan.
2. I've learned that I can catch more flies with honey than vinegar (i.e. I noticed when I was nice and gave him what he wanted, I got what I wanted but you know how we can get as women sometimes..."Oh, I have a headache", "My feet hurt", "I saw you looking at that b****"...etc.)
3. In accordance with the above, I've learned to be patient. You may get what you want from a man but you can't rush him.
4. Lastly, I learned I have commitment issues that I will need to iron out before I could even consider settling down.

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Permalink Reply by Ms. BoiBye on April 24, 2012 at 3:46pm

 Sex is better than love.

How you get em is how you lose em

Don't ever settle

Never listen to what a man tells you when you are pregnant, if you are not ready to fully support a child please don't have it

Never allow a man to move into your place. Make him go out a get you and him a place together. Cuz he will throw it back in your face and you back in his when you are mad

Boy Bye

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Permalink Reply by Michele Le'croe on April 24, 2012 at 4:12pm

My ex taught me to have my own! House, Car and Money, and have the man love me more than I love him...Because when I get tired of him, I can tell him to Suck-off, get out, or it's OVER! Hence the reason he's my ex! and why I can look around my beautiful house and say, no-one owns me!

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