THUG RELATIONSHIPS LOL

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Permalink Reply by Tiffani Jameson on October 9, 2009 at 2:43am

I agree wholeheartedly. With the both of you.
These young ladies who feel it's okay to take shit cause he pays the bills ruins the game for the ones who deserve to be respected. But honestly, I'm not a big 'fidelity' person. When I'm in a relationship, I expect him to be able to take care of himself, and have his own space. So when I lay down to sleep at night I'm not worried where his ass is anyway. Do what you do, and have a good time. But the guy that gets my loyalty is one that is self-aware enough to see that he doesn't need to do those things on his own, not one I have to keep a house arrest bracelet on.

Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux said:

Co-sign!

Amel said:

I cannot speak for all black women but this black woman would rather be alone than be cheated on. His money isn't worth it. If he cheats then I'll just keep it moving until I find someone who respects me enough not to cheat. I'm sorry but I don't buy into that every man cheats mentality. Hell, that's probaly why they do it in the first place. He figures, well if she thinks I'm cheating then I mind as well cheat. I don't care HOW he does it, it's still disrespectful.

I will not allow it simply because I deserve better. No thank you....I'll take Joe the janitor.

Good luck to you on your journey to finding that "baller".


Seductress said:

To all the chicks that disagree have fun with Joe the janitor I for one am going for a baller (a man w $, not necessarily an athlete) so best believe this is a good gameplan for me and anybody else who wants the same. Honestly this might be a reason so many black women are single.Most(not all) men are gonna cheat in todays world, its a fact. Its just a matter of how he goes about it if he is trying to do a good job of keeping it under wraps, not blatantly disrespecting you, and taking care of you why get all up in arms and leave him? You're just gonna end up alone or with the next ninja whose gonna cheat. Why not save your relationship and friendship with your love and not go looking for trouble if he is keeping you #1. Idk about the rest of yall but I'd rather have a man whose loyal to me rather than faithful. Faithful gets real old real fast, loyal is what lasts a lifetime.

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Permalink Reply by Seductress on October 9, 2009 at 5:31am

@ Suga it doesn't matter about what she said when it comes to other females because they're going to be trying to get at him regardless of whether he's single, has a girlfriend, living with someone, has kids with someone or married and trust there will be no shortage of them coming for him no matter what category he falls into no matter what his girl, BM or wife says about him cheating. Anybody willing to be a sidechick doesn't care that he has a girl much less how she feels about him doing him. Women are going to constantly come at him to jumpoff and get sidechick or even main chick status.

That's where loyalty and respect comes into play because he should remember that he already has his lady at home and because of that he treats these jumpoffs like jumpoffs and treats his woman like a lady.

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Permalink Reply by Shay Sugah on October 9, 2009 at 9:43pm

I'm sorry my seductress but that sounds crazy. Who wants to be a sidechick?? Do you know any girl that's cool with that. I know women who knows what they want and if its just to have sex that one night then they would do just that and keep it pushing. I understand the protocol of letting a man be a man, but a lot of men I know loves challenges and loves women to keep them on their toes. Like I said before we give men reasons to go out and look and then some of us women are so damn thirsty; the fact a broad knows that particulary guy has a female that makes them want to jump on the disco stick even harder. And if a ninja telling you he's loyal to you and still messing around then he doesn't know the meaning of that word neither respect. Cause in the long run that shit is going to get ugly, it never last long if you let them do them, unless you are married and trying to keep your home. Also that shit leads to dieases and 'I don't know who my baby daddy is' (face ass, lol) We got to get it together ladies, yall better go as a white women how she get it done. Trust! I had to learn that shit the hard way.

Seductress said:

@ Suga it doesn't matter about what she said when it comes to other females because they're going to be trying to get at him regardless of whether he's single, has a girlfriend, living with someone, has kids with someone or married and trust there will be no shortage of them coming for him no matter what category he falls into no matter what his girl, BM or wife says about him cheating. Anybody willing to be a sidechick doesn't care that he has a girl much less how she feels about him doing him. Women are going to constantly come at him to jumpoff and get sidechick or even main chick status.

That's where loyalty and respect comes into play because he should remember that he already has his lady at home and because of that he treats these jumpoffs like jumpoffs and treats his woman like a lady.

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Permalink Reply by PRETTY on October 10, 2009 at 12:24pm

Well!!!!!

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Permalink Reply by L0vie D0vie on October 11, 2009 at 1:00pm

5 pages later and you "ladies" are still trying to justify this bullshydt? I give up... *throws hands up and exit's post*

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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on October 11, 2009 at 2:35pm

u know this will go to 20 pages right? lol
L0vie D0vie said:

5 pages later and you "ladies" are still trying to justify this bullshydt? I give up... *throws hands up and exit's post*

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Permalink Reply by L0vie D0vie on October 11, 2009 at 4:50pm

Sad, but true! *smh*

Cougar $pice said:

u know this will go to 20 pages right? lol
L0vie D0vie said:

5 pages later and you "ladies" are still trying to justify this bullshydt? I give up... *throws hands up and exit's post*

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Permalink Reply by Jasmine on October 22, 2009 at 12:12am

so u will be the bitch getting 90% of his diseases

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Permalink Reply by Denise on October 22, 2009 at 11:20am

****blank stare****

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