Hi! I have been a member of BA for a while but I don’t post much but I do get my lurk on, lol. Anyways, I am 28 years old (I look 22 – 25) and I am thinking about getting into sugaring (being a Sugar Baby). I’ve been doing some research on Tumblr and it seems like most of the babies are under 25. So, I wonder if I am too old?

Mind you, I have a graduate degree, I have a professional job making about 50k a year and I have my own apartment, car etc so I can definitely support myself. The whole reason why I am thinking about getting into sugaring is because I plan on starting my own business in 4 years (I plan to stop sugaring at 32)  and I want to use the money I get from sugaring to start my business and build a nest egg.  I also like to date older men anyways and I am exposed to a lot of potential sugar daddies due to my job and the area I live in.  So, sugaring would not be my only source of income and even if it doesn’t work out I will still be able to support myself and start my business – it will probably just take longer and I won’t have as much money to do so.

So, what do you all think? How old is too old to be getting into this lifestyle? 

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the sad thing is these men end up losing everything when the woman is sick of them.
LuckyStrike351 said:

What's in bold is so true. I work with a lot of female owned businesses (mostly white women) and many of the women have businesses that are supported by their husbands/boyfriends; you just don't see them. 

For example, I know of one woman who opened her own boutique, but it was her husband who was a lawyer who helped her get her business up and running as told to me. Unfortunately, she went out of business in about 2 years. 

Goldie F***'n Fish said:

I beg to differ. There are men who prefer an older woman. and funny enough, you don't even have to "sugar." You can find a man IRL(in real life) that will be happy to finance your biz decisions. The whole,"i prefer a generous man" schpeel weeds out the dudes real quick for me. I'm starting my own business and it's funny how money just falls into my lap whenever I need it. Of course, you'd want to be at a point where the money is just there at your whim but Sugaring takes TIME.  it's a job within itself. S*** ain't easy boo.

There's always a way around everything. As far as your vacation days are concerned, if it's worth it use them. If not, WEEKEND trip!! If you don't like the fictitious man but he's willing to buy your ticket, get it anyways. Then, you can cancel the flight and use the credit towards another flight. never have to talk to him again. :) 


I'ma find that bish who did u wrong and stump a mud h*** in her! It's a shame what she has done to you! Lucky u too. Me and Baby D is about to find them tricks. Lol


Tone said:


the sad thing is these men end up losing everything when the woman is sick of them.
LuckyStrike351 said:

What's in bold is so true. I work with a lot of female owned businesses (mostly white women) and many of the women have businesses that are supported by their husbands/boyfriends; you just don't see them. 

For example, I know of one woman who opened her own boutique, but it was her husband who was a lawyer who helped her get her business up and running as told to me. Unfortunately, she went out of business in about 2 years. 

Goldie F***'n Fish said:

I beg to differ. There are men who prefer an older woman. and funny enough, you don't even have to "sugar." You can find a man IRL(in real life) that will be happy to finance your biz decisions. The whole,"i prefer a generous man" schpeel weeds out the dudes real quick for me. I'm starting my own business and it's funny how money just falls into my lap whenever I need it. Of course, you'd want to be at a point where the money is just there at your whim but Sugaring takes TIME.  it's a job within itself. S*** ain't easy boo.

There's always a way around everything. As far as your vacation days are concerned, if it's worth it use them. If not, WEEKEND trip!! If you don't like the fictitious man but he's willing to buy your ticket, get it anyways. Then, you can cancel the flight and use the credit towards another flight. never have to talk to him again. :) 

It also happens to us. Some men get the buns and and dip as well. The world is a cruel, cruel place. 


Tone said:


the sad thing is these men end up losing everything when the woman is sick of them.
LuckyStrike351 said:

What's in bold is so true. I work with a lot of female owned businesses (mostly white women) and many of the women have businesses that are supported by their husbands/boyfriends; you just don't see them. 

For example, I know of one woman who opened her own boutique, but it was her husband who was a lawyer who helped her get her business up and running as told to me. Unfortunately, she went out of business in about 2 years. 

Goldie F***'n Fish said:

I beg to differ. There are men who prefer an older woman. and funny enough, you don't even have to "sugar." You can find a man IRL(in real life) that will be happy to finance your biz decisions. The whole,"i prefer a generous man" schpeel weeds out the dudes real quick for me. I'm starting my own business and it's funny how money just falls into my lap whenever I need it. Of course, you'd want to be at a point where the money is just there at your whim but Sugaring takes TIME.  it's a job within itself. S*** ain't easy boo.

There's always a way around everything. As far as your vacation days are concerned, if it's worth it use them. If not, WEEKEND trip!! If you don't like the fictitious man but he's willing to buy your ticket, get it anyways. Then, you can cancel the flight and use the credit towards another flight. never have to talk to him again. :) 

I die! LOL @ Baby D I go yalls back

Love is a Losing Game said:

I'ma find that bish who did u wrong and stump a mud h*** in her! It's a shame what she has done to you! Lucky u too. Me and Baby D is about to find them tricks. Lol

Tone said:

the sad thing is these men end up losing everything when the woman is sick of them.
LuckyStrike351 said:

What's in bold is so true. I work with a lot of female owned businesses (mostly white women) and many of the women have businesses that are supported by their husbands/boyfriends; you just don't see them. 

For example, I know of one woman who opened her own boutique, but it was her husband who was a lawyer who helped her get her business up and running as told to me. Unfortunately, she went out of business in about 2 years. 
Goldie F***'n Fish said:

I beg to differ. There are men who prefer an older woman. and funny enough, you don't even have to "sugar." You can find a man IRL(in real life) that will be happy to finance your biz decisions. The whole,"i prefer a generous man" schpeel weeds out the dudes real quick for me. I'm starting my own business and it's funny how money just falls into my lap whenever I need it. Of course, you'd want to be at a point where the money is just there at your whim but Sugaring takes TIME.  it's a job within itself. S*** ain't easy boo.

There's always a way around everything. As far as your vacation days are concerned, if it's worth it use them. If not, WEEKEND trip!! If you don't like the fictitious man but he's willing to buy your ticket, get it anyways. Then, you can cancel the flight and use the credit towards another flight. never have to talk to him again. :) 

LMFAO...Love ussa fool!!

Love is a Losing Game said:


I'ma find that bish who did u wrong and stump a mud h*** in her! It's a shame what she has done to you! Lucky u too. Me and Baby D is about to find them tricks. Lol


Tone said:


the sad thing is these men end up losing everything when the woman is sick of them.
LuckyStrike351 said:

What's in bold is so true. I work with a lot of female owned businesses (mostly white women) and many of the women have businesses that are supported by their husbands/boyfriends; you just don't see them. 

For example, I know of one woman who opened her own boutique, but it was her husband who was a lawyer who helped her get her business up and running as told to me. Unfortunately, she went out of business in about 2 years. 

Goldie F***'n Fish said:

I beg to differ. There are men who prefer an older woman. and funny enough, you don't even have to "sugar." You can find a man IRL(in real life) that will be happy to finance your biz decisions. The whole,"i prefer a generous man" schpeel weeds out the dudes real quick for me. I'm starting my own business and it's funny how money just falls into my lap whenever I need it. Of course, you'd want to be at a point where the money is just there at your whim but Sugaring takes TIME.  it's a job within itself. S*** ain't easy boo.

There's always a way around everything. As far as your vacation days are concerned, if it's worth it use them. If not, WEEKEND trip!! If you don't like the fictitious man but he's willing to buy your ticket, get it anyways. Then, you can cancel the flight and use the credit towards another flight. never have to talk to him again. :) 

Damn Goldie imma have to give u a Black Playa card up in this place today! I am not that internet savvy and didn't know this. *taking notes*
 
Goldie F***'n Fish said:

Google Voice app, get an alias, and don't use any photos that you can image search back to an account. Someone can back search your images you posted on these sites and look at where else the photo is posted aka Facebook or Twitter.

Lisa Smith Klein said:

This is a good point. I'm definitely not jeopardizing my career for a sugar daddy.

Bonita said:

As everyone else said you are not too old the only problem is that you are slightly established and most sugar daddies go for younger women because they can pick up and go on a moments notice. 

Lets be realistic you have a job and will need to give notice for vacation days etc and you will think twice to be sure if sugaring is worth jeopardizing your current situation. 

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