Trifling Family Stuff...

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Permalink Reply by Tab on October 9, 2009 at 1:43pm

LMAO @ Counseling tag...lol

This is grown folks stuff. They still make me sit at the kiddie table during holidays. lol.

But one thing, my sister has lied to my oldest niece about her father... I remember when I was 11 and she came home with the DNA results... I heard her crying telling my mom it wasn't so and so's baby. My mom and her kept it on the hush forever. But all those years this guy wasn't around and my sister would dog him out to my niece knowing he wasn't the father.... It's sucks because I finally said something to my sister this year after 23 yrs of BS. She just brushed it off. It was so crazy, they even had a rumor the guy died and my sister was saying she didn't want to tell my niece...side eye... My other sister told me a few years ago who the father is... I want to tell my niece because a father not being around causes damage to females. But I also want to expose my sister as well as my mom. They are both trifflin. Now my niece will have male trust issues because my sister chose to tell a lie... not only lie but slander this poor guy.

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Permalink Reply by Elise' on October 9, 2009 at 1:50pm

You're right Tab, your niece deserves to know the truth, it does effect females..
your sister and mom ought to be ashamed of themselves.



Tab said:

LMAO @ Counseling tag...lol

This is grown folks stuff. They still make me sit at the kiddie table during holidays. lol.

But one thing, my sister has lied to my oldest niece about her father... I remember when I was 11 and she came home with the DNA results... I heard her crying telling my mom it wasn't so and so's baby. My mom and her kept it on the hush forever. But all those years this guy wasn't around and my sister would dog him out to my niece knowing he wasn't the father.... It's sucks because I finally said something to my sister this year after 23 yrs of BS. She just brushed it off. It was so crazy, they even had a rumor the guy died and my sister was saying she didn't want to tell my niece...side eye... My other sister told me a few years ago who the father is... I want to tell my niece because a father not being around causes damage to females. But I also want to expose my sister as well as my mom. They are both trifflin. Now my niece will have male trust issues because my sister chose to tell a lie... not only lie but slander this poor guy.

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Permalink Reply by DON_JUAN on October 9, 2009 at 1:57pm

why is there a inner circle in every family that are all sleeping with each other?? this is one of the main reason i dont go around my family really at all because its just to much jerry springer type shit thats going on but they swear they are the jones's. (i mean this cousin is sleeping with this cousin's wife like the story. not same family sex lol)

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Permalink Reply by Elise' on October 9, 2009 at 2:02pm

Let's see its not much but..

I found out my favorite aunt was in love with my father...and she resented my mom when they got married.
My mom's (rip) brother's wife..my favorite aunt got drunk and admitted to loving my dad and resenting my mother the whole time she was alive..

My uncle who is Fred Sandford re-incarnated, bust the news out one night, claiming that she loved my dad more than life itself and she felt she had to settle for 2nd best with my uncle because my mom swooped him from all of the women etc. She admitted to gladly spoiling my father's daughter after my mom died and when my dad died she said a piece of her died also.

They never even had a date. I kinda felt funny knowing she wanted them to break up etc..but I am over it-now.
so while they were double dating my mom and dad-my uncle and his soon to be wife--she was wishing she was my mom?..I always wondered growing up--she always gave me ribs--when the kids had hot dogs..she always treated me like I was a celebrity..all the while wishing she was my mom..I always got the first piece of cake etc. hmph, smh, she is still very good to me..no wonder she was clowning at his funeral..

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Permalink Reply by smitty on October 9, 2009 at 2:20pm

I think every family has a baby daddy secret. I was 11 when my lil sis was born. i asked my mother who was the father and she said June. he was cool, I liked him. Next thing i know, a guy named leroy starts calling. He would ask how i was doing, how was my lil sister, and then he would ask to speak to my sister. WTF? she could'nt even talk. When my sis was about 2 or 3, I finally meet Leroy when he takes me shopping for school clothes. Low and behold my sister is the spitting image of him. My mother drove and my sister was all hugged up with him in the back seat like "daddy this" and "daddy that". I was the only one not in on it. Shortly thereafter, Leroy dies and June is the only father my sister remembers. Fast forward 13 or 14 years and my sister is pregnant with a very sick baby, and welfare has reformed. Now you have to go to child support first to get any benefits. So while we are in NICU praying for my niece, my mom has to sell out somebody to get medical coverage for the baby and June is the lucky winner. Of course they failed the DNA test and the cat was out of the bag. But as i said before, June was a really good dude, and he continued to support my sister until he passed

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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on October 9, 2009 at 9:41pm

Just saw my aunties & uncles messing around. But nothing within the family circle. Heard this on Wendy Williams show:

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Permalink Reply by DUVALBeauty on October 12, 2009 at 10:58am

DEAD! Wendy is a mess & so was that caller...lmao @ "did she give you a professional"

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Just saw my aunties & uncles messing around. But nothing within the family circle. Heard this on Wendy Williams show:

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Permalink Reply by tHeOfFiCialLuRKeR on October 12, 2009 at 3:19pm

@$pice that is crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They have a movie like this! "Say, it aint so"

My family has a bunch of man stealing women. They were worse than other itchbays in the street. Like you couldnt bring your man around cause they would go after him. I would say all the older women in my family have all at least slept with at least 1 same guy. for example auntie had this young cat she was dating & when she wa s done with him tossed him over to the niece,but once she saw things were going good for them, she wanted him back.

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on November 9, 2009 at 8:36pm

ok... so cousin #1 wants to kill cousin #2... it has erupted into an all out family war... cousin #1 wants us to turn on #2, yada, yada, yada... I'm hoping no one gets hurt...
#1 & his wife have been cutting the fool for YEARS... #2 & his wife are cool people. #2 is dead wrong, but I look at it like it was just his turn on the merry go round. And I really don't understand why #1 is so distraught... I mean of all the dudes, I can only name 4 that she hasn't slept with... his ill behind is on medical leave and seeing a shrink. she has taken a sabatical from work... he's riding around town with a gun...
The only real victim is wife #2 and all the kids that know about this that shouldn't... if it weren't my family, I'd be sitting ringside with MJ and some popcorn... but ish is getting serious, and if doesn't stop...

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Permalink Reply by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on November 9, 2009 at 9:53pm

Dang! This is crazy...but my fam is worse and I refuse to talk about them I just keep away and keep my sanity. yes I said it - Sanity!

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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on November 9, 2009 at 10:24pm

JM, just pray that it doesn't end badly.

Seems like the older some folks get they lose their morals & boundaries. What happened to setting good examples for the kids? & we wonder why the kids are giving & getting head in elementary school. Kids learn what they live.

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Permalink Reply by Cookie Pie on November 9, 2009 at 11:08pm

Well my nephew just called me fussing ( You know the one who said he dates white girls for the benefits ) , anyway , he said that his mom told him that his " daddy " wasn't really his daddy . We have a close relationship and talk about everything , he wanted to know why I never told him :.( .......... I already knew but I just stayed out of it and whenever I brought it up to his mom we would argue so I'd just leave it alone . I kinda feel sorry for him because his whole life has been turned upside down but at least now he understands why he likes white girls so much ..... his real grandma is white as snow ! lol She's a great woman and I'm glad she can be a part of his life now . There is more drama in that situation but I'll tell on a later date ........

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