I am sending this email because I want some advice. Should I trust someone that denies she is a groupie?
I am a female and started dating a college girl about two years ago. I knew the risk I was taking when I "turned" her out. She had a history of sex with all of the top basketball and football players at our university, UNC. Many of the greatest basketball players came out of this school; Michael Jordan, Vince Carter, Jerry Stackhouse...Outside of the current players, she hadn't had sex with one of the 2005 National Championship Stars (Raymond Felton, Rashad McCants...) but one and somehow got all of there numbers.
The one she hadn't met before we started dating was Rashad McCants. I saw it in his eyes when they met. She was mad at me that week and I knew things were vulnerable. He bought us all of the patron you could have and somehow ended up in our bed that night. Nothing happened but he was trying all night while we were passed out. The next couple days she told me that I owe her to have dinner with him. She came by my house after they had dinner and something seemed weird. So I followed her home, because I didn't know that they were still together. She wouldn't come down until I knocked on her door and he left. The rest of the summer he tried many times to have him fly her somewhere, even the both of us so they could have sex. I believed that he just wanted to have sex with her because his best friend had in college. He finally got her to Vegas, but she felt so bad that they didn't have sex. They didn't speak for almost a year...
She went to Atlanta to work for the summer...while there, she had sex with 4 European Basketball players and used one to drive her around. She found a basketball friend to give her Rashads number. He flew her there again and the sex happened. She claimed that the sex was not enjoyable and short. She was unfulfilled. She later posted to her Facebook that she was going to give everything to this guy after they had only seen each other 3 times or no more than several days, bad sex, and on and off chemistry. Two days after she returns to Atlanta from Vegas she sends him a long email stating that she feels they have a connection, he is gorgeous, and where they stand. My question is: she contacted me 2 months ago stating that she misses me and wants to work things out. Should I trust her? She asked for all luxury designer gifts and exotic trips... Is she not a groupie or was she just having fun for her summer
http://www.backstagepazz.com/