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Permalink Reply by TaylorMade on June 4, 2011 at 12:16am

So f****** get "Dinter and a movie" *in madea's voice? If you're constantly entertaining his arguments, he knows you're there for something. No girl that's getting pressure into sex is gonna stick around ESPECIALLY with a dude that isn't doing a damn thing for them. He made it clear that he wants something you're dead set on not giving him soooo uuummm.. why has it even gone on longer than a day???

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Permalink Reply by onfire on June 4, 2011 at 12:24am

because im lonely and he's good comapny and i just want him to accept us on a "hanging out tip" thats it

TaylorMade said:

So f****** get "Dinter and a movie" *in madea's voice? If you're constantly entertaining his arguments, he knows you're there for something. No girl that's getting pressure into sex is gonna stick around ESPECIALLY with a dude that isn't doing a damn thing for them. He made it clear that he wants something you're dead set on not giving him soooo uuummm.. why has it even gone on longer than a day???

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on June 4, 2011 at 12:29am

where are your other friends? Do you have a male friend that is a platonic friend?

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Permalink Reply by TaylorMade on June 4, 2011 at 12:36am

Anyone who constantly nags you about doing something you don't want to do with your body is NOT good company in the least bit. He made himself very clear. You can't be friends with someone who only wants to have sex with you. I'm sure you can find someone to hang with that doesn't pressure you, because after a while he won't want anything to do with you anyway (whether he gets some or not). I think deep down, part of you enjoys the chase, and he knows it every time you argue with him. He had his mind made up and he doesn't want you any other way. You can't change people, but you can switch them out for better ones.

onfire said:

because im lonely and he's good comapny and i just want him to accept us on a "hanging out tip" thats it

TaylorMade said:

So f****** get "Dinter and a movie" *in madea's voice? If you're constantly entertaining his arguments, he knows you're there for something. No girl that's getting pressure into sex is gonna stick around ESPECIALLY with a dude that isn't doing a damn thing for them. He made it clear that he wants something you're dead set on not giving him soooo uuummm.. why has it even gone on longer than a day???

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Permalink Reply by mese on June 4, 2011 at 12:48am

well im the same age as you, and girl sadly alot of guys are like that nowadays....hes spending money on you, it may not be tricking off a s*** load of money hes still spending it, and hes already told you what he wanted, what do you expect? your wasting his time, and hes wasting yours. i say chuck the man the dueces.he sounds like a headache, and your giving yourself a headache by sticking around for so long.

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on June 4, 2011 at 1:11am

so you wanted to know??????   girl leave his azz alone...find a friend that  respects your decision and why youre doing in.  He doesnt respect you because hes trying to pressure yoou into sex and he doesnt even wanna be in a relationship.  chile bye....guarantee you he's only sticking around until he gets it and he out....betcha

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Permalink Reply by Bobbie.Go.Get.It. on June 4, 2011 at 1:31am

Grl...he sounds annoying AF  but honestly alot of these men feel entitled to the p**** after feeding you a couple of times! Crazy..you already know he just wants to cut and you don't so let that man find an appropriate cutty buddy and you clear some space for the man you WANT.. and everyone gets lonely truth be told..but don't settle for his company

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Permalink Reply by Sw33tNeSS on June 4, 2011 at 9:02am

Unmmmmm I disagree. Stay with him girrrrrrl. U like these two qualities: funny and available! And there's NO ONE else on this earth who has those characteristics!!!
Are u effin serious right now? This nigga dnt want yo ass. If for a MONTH y'all argue because you're not having sex then you my dear friend needs to move tha f*** on! 
Funny and available? Smdh!
Loneliness doesn't constitute desperation!!!!

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

so you wanted to know??????   girl leave his azz alone...find a friend that  respects your decision and why youre doing in.  He doesnt respect you because hes trying to pressure yoou into sex and he doesnt even wanna be in a relationship.  chile bye....guarantee you he's only sticking around until he gets it and he out....betcha

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Permalink Reply by RayRay&Pookie'sWIFEY on June 4, 2011 at 10:22am

you just don't like this dude. when I was 22, i went through the exact same stage, saying I'm not gonna have sex again until I got married...that lasted only until I met the next dude I was sexually attracted to.  FYI, holding out on sex is not the key to a ring.

 

You really need to move on and find somebody that you like, and who likes you back. This dude is pressuring you to give him your body, and he won't even give you the committment and exclusivity of a relationship...NEXT.

 

For real, you need to put his number on call block and either be alone or find somebody new. You say you want to get married, but you are entertaining someone who is "not anyone to be f******". Very contradictory behavior. Stop entertaining guys like him (guys that pretty much see sex as the only/main thing you have to offer, and really the only thing they're looking for in a woman right now) and start entertaining men that can see and appreciate the amazing qualities that you have to offer (whatever those may be for you personally, ie. intelligence, ambition, nurturing, resourceful, can cook and clean, good conflict resolution skills, etc) and then you'll be closer to finding a husband.

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Permalink Reply by Honeycoated on June 4, 2011 at 10:35am

LOL!

Sw33tNeSS said:

Unmmmmm I disagree. Stay with him girrrrrrl. U like these two qualities: funny and available! And there's NO ONE else on this earth who has those characteristics!!! Are u effin serious right now? This nigga dnt want yo ass. If for a MONTH y'all argue because you're not having sex then you my dear friend needs to move tha f*** on! 
Funny and available? Smdh!
Loneliness doesn't constitute desperation!!!!

MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:

so you wanted to know??????   girl leave his azz alone...find a friend that  respects your decision and why youre doing in.  He doesnt respect you because hes trying to pressure yoou into sex and he doesnt even wanna be in a relationship.  chile bye....guarantee you he's only sticking around until he gets it and he out....betcha

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on June 4, 2011 at 11:39am

Why do I feel like after all this good advice you are going to come back and tell us you fukked him and now he won't accept your calls?

 

Girl, just be safe, take your BC because this dude doesn't sound like he would pay child support if they threatened to set his dinga on fire. And have plenty of condoms on hand so you don't end up with an STI/STD.

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on June 4, 2011 at 12:32pm

aint that ish the truth

RayRay&Pookie'sWIFEY said:

you just don't like this dude. when I was 22, i went through the exact same stage, saying I'm not gonna have sex again until I got married...that lasted only until I met the next dude I was sexually attracted to.  FYI, holding out on sex is not the key to a ring.

 

You really need to move on and find somebody that you like, and who likes you back. This dude is pressuring you to give him your body, and he won't even give you the committment and exclusivity of a relationship...NEXT.

 

For real, you need to put his number on call block and either be alone or find somebody new. You say you want to get married, but you are entertaining someone who is "not anyone to be f******". Very contradictory behavior. Stop entertaining guys like him (guys that pretty much see sex as the only/main thing you have to offer, and really the only thing they're looking for in a woman right now) and start entertaining men that can see and appreciate the amazing qualities that you have to offer (whatever those may be for you personally, ie. intelligence, ambition, nurturing, resourceful, can cook and clean, good conflict resolution skills, etc) and then you'll be closer to finding a husband.

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