Valentine's Day doesn't seem to be as exciting as it use to be for me. Maybe its because I am never really surprise by the gift i recieved. Its usually money and a gift I hinted at. This year my friend surprise me. He asked what was i getting him?

Do you ladies give them gifts too? If so, why or why not? What would be a good gift?

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Good question. I am waiting for the answers on this one, because I have never bought a gift before, because its all too weird for me, and it seems gay, even though I know its not.

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It depends on the guy. Last year i took my guy to all star. So, its all in what they want to do. This year it was gonna be a vacation but that got axed along with our break up...LOL. But find things he likes and do that. I do something on the lines of sporting event tickets, something from Barney's or just a classic watch

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Jezabelle get out of my head I was going to start a similar discussion. My BF HATES VD although he says he celebrates it just because it means somehing to me. He says it is a holiday to pimp mens pockets LOL... I always get him a gift to try and get him to change his viewpoint on the holiday and try to make it something that he really wants or will use. Last year I got him a portable XM. Have not decided on what I am going to get him this year. Get him something that you know he will like don't get some teddy bear and balloons men don;t like that ish and almost always it ends up in the trash( so I have been told). Now I need some help...My BF is a practical type of guy he asks me what I want and then gets it. He is also into what do you need as opposed to what you want. I know he will get me what i say I want do I go the practical route and get the laptop I have been dying for or do I ask for the trinket (jewelry or purse)? What do you ladie want for VD this year?

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I really don't celebrate VD, its a dumb a$$ holiday to me...I will be spending VD in Vegas or Pheonix...I have new 'BF' but I don't plan on getting him anything...

Get him a spa day at The Grooming Lounge...

***hi Jezzy (waving), long time no hear***

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I don't buy anything extravagant. If I can I usually make something. I mean what is it that I can buy that he doesn't already have? I usually try to do something small on that day you know make him a poem and frame it, take pictures of me (and/or the kids if you guys have em), make his fav meal,ect. Most men are more appreciative of the small things on that day. Cause its more sentimental.

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Hey Charlie, we have to do vegas again. Are u doing the allstar?

I was thinking about getting tickets to the slam dunking contest but they are too rich for my blood. $800-2195. I am on a budget.

I should get him some thongs and have him dance for me, I would lmfao.

I want a new chanel. I dunno my student loan paid off

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LOL @ I'm not spending any money on you...

JS said:
I got homies that used to do that shit. Ask every woman they were dealing with what she was getting for them. You'd be surprised how many women actually got them gifts.

I got tried last year. A woman text me out of the blue(hadn't spoken to her in 8 months and it wasn't like we ever tight) saying we should get together and do something like a movie or go out to eat. My text back: "I'm not spending any money on you."

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i gave him a card and a dancing chicken last year..... it's the thought that counts. lol

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@ jezzy...I will more than likely do all-star...I am leaving for Vegas on Sunday, so I may just fly from there...send him a pantygram: www.sendapantygram.com

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LMFAO "Im not spending ANY money on you"... omg ur mean...LMFAO

JS said:
I got homies that used to do that shit. Ask every woman they were dealing with what she was getting for them. You'd be surprised how many women actually got them gifts.
I got tried last year around this time. A woman text me out of the blue(hadn't spoken to her in 8 months and it wasn't like we ever tight) saying we should get together and do something like a movie or go out to eat. My text back: "I'm not spending any money on you."

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that's a cute idea. i might send one. lol

Charlie said:
@ jezzy...I will more than likely do all-star...I am leaving for Vegas on Sunday, so I may just fly from there...send him a pantygram: www.sendapantygram.com

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I always give my guy a nice gift on VD....it's just in my blood! I love receiving gifts and I luv giving gifts. I don't see nothing wrong with giving your man a gifts on VD.

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