For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
like someone else said, it is a blessing. and no matter what we tell yu when yu realize that yu have been playing the fool you will get your s*** together and leave him and any other man alone. im pretty and young too and its definitely not hard finding any tom, d*** and harry but thats not want. i was in a situation like yours but on a smaller scale and im finally realizing that men are always gonna be around like my mom always says "men are a dime a dozen" so yu get you together. if you're in school(college) dedicate yourself 100% to your studies and if you're not in school get in school. if you dnt feel like thats an option (b/c school is not for everyone but school is the only way to have a stable career nowadays) volunteer and just become one with yourself....BECOME CONTENT WITH BEING WITH ALONE WITH SELF. and trust me it is hard cause im doing it now but when you figure out who you are and what makes you happy you'll figure out what yu want from a man.
**Grabs Green Tea and Scone and starts reading thread**
FORGET that dude and any other dude. As a matter of fact stop talking to all dudes you aren't related to. I don't understand you...You just said dude immediately told you to get an abortion and ya'll started fighting, why are you even considering pursing this further? I can bet you once he gets on his feet he's going to be through with you. Sweetness, God has once again saved you from yourself, get you a puppy and a vibrator and chill the freak out!! A mancation = no man. I'm sorry that you're going through this epic train wreck, but you're causing some of this. I wish you a speedy recovery mentally & physically.
Soul mate or not, I ain't wining & dining s*** in 3 weeks. And to be sprung so quick after she only had sex with him once? Nah, it does not add up...at all. I don't understand females that give everything to every man, every time. It's not healthy.
i can see why she doing all the wining and dining cause she feel like he is her soulmate...in a way she's sprung and he just sitting back and enjoying it.
Something is still missing...the whole "I need d*** ASAP...it's been 8 months" thing is strange. You guys slept together right away but u guys never slept together again? And I know u said that encounter didn't "count" (which clearly it did) why didn't u sleep together again sober since ya'll already smooshed. Because holding out for V-Day wouldn't of made a difference, he already got his nut....I just find it hard to believe that you are doing all that wining & dining on a man that you already slept with & come on here saying you need d***. But everyone is different, so....
Why dont you just ask him
"Hey babe how you wanna do this Vday thing? All out? minor? whats up?"
[Edit] Okayyy maybe I need to read all these replies because WHOA.