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WHAT ARE YOUR RULES FOR MESSING WITH MEN WITH KIDS?

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Do you get chummy with the child? Babymother? Is it a must that you meet the kids? Do you care if he has visitation with his kids?

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If I'm going to be with a man who has children, he must be truly there for his kids. I want him to talk to his kids everyday. How he gonna talk to me everyday and not talk to his own child? He must have visitation with his kids. It just seems selfish to me and says alot about his character if he doesn't see his kids. There should not be one excuse for why can't see his kids on a regular. To me, that is just bullshit if he does have an excuse. Of course, I want him to be financially responsible by paying child support and doing more. I dated this one guy who had a daughter. He said he didn't want her to stay with him over the summer because he didn't want to pay for day care...since he already pays child support. He said that it would cut into the money that he spends on himself. I was like, wow. I want to meet the child and if I was to marry dude, I would treat them like my own. I want to be one big happy family. I've never had an issue with a baby mama. Thank God!

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My rule is the child has to be 18 and out the house...LOL

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Lol. I do ages: 3-10.

Boss said:
My rule is the child has to be 18 and out the house...LOL

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He must be an active part of their life...he must spend quite a bit of time with them, as well as help financially support them

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I now realize why i do not want to deal with a man that has kid (lil bad ass mofo's) cause i refuse to fuck em up when they acting outta place! I CAN NOT PUT UP WITH THE lil mofo's that are bad as hell...and talkin shit to me. I prefer for his kids to be much older than 21.....shit! Cause i will not be step-mommy to anyone's bad ass kids!

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All I ask is he be there for them and as much as I hate to say it but he has to put them before me. As for the baby momma I have nothing to do with her unless I am about to marry the guy and she wants to meet whos going to be around her kids.

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Kids don't bother me, as long as he can afford them and aren't struggling with them.

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Don't...This may sound selfish as hell but either I wont be the priority or I will...

And I romanticize about experiencing the first child with a man...

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If he has kids, he MUST have a GOOD relationship with his kids and their mother! DRAMA FREE!

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Lol @ boss and deja. NO kids! lil snots lol jp but really I'm not a kid kinda person at least not right now.

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makes it easier to bond with him

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If you love the man, love the child. As for the babymama, keep it casual. She is not your friend. I dealt with that ish for years...if she still wants him you WILL have drama until the child turns 18. It can get serious, but you don't wanna put your man in the middle.

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