If I'm going to be with a man who has children, he must be truly there for his kids. I want him to talk to his kids everyday. How he gonna talk to me everyday and not talk to his own child? He must have visitation with his kids. It just seems selfish to me and says alot about his character if he doesn't see his kids. There should not be one excuse for why can't see his kids on a regular. To me, that is just bullshit if he does have an excuse. Of course, I want him to be financially responsible by paying child support and doing more. I dated this one guy who had a daughter. He said he didn't want her to stay with him over the summer because he didn't want to pay for day care...since he already pays child support. He said that it would cut into the money that he spends on himself. I was like, wow. I want to meet the child and if I was to marry dude, I would treat them like my own. I want to be one big happy family. I've never had an issue with a baby mama. Thank God!
Permalink Reply by Deja on February 27, 2009 at 7:26pm
I now realize why i do not want to deal with a man that has kid (lil bad ass mofo's) cause i refuse to fuck em up when they acting outta place! I CAN NOT PUT UP WITH THE lil mofo's that are bad as hell...and talkin shit to me. I prefer for his kids to be much older than 21.....shit! Cause i will not be step-mommy to anyone's bad ass kids!
All I ask is he be there for them and as much as I hate to say it but he has to put them before me. As for the baby momma I have nothing to do with her unless I am about to marry the guy and she wants to meet whos going to be around her kids.
Permalink Reply by hk on February 28, 2009 at 7:12am
If you love the man, love the child. As for the babymama, keep it casual. She is not your friend. I dealt with that ish for years...if she still wants him you WILL have drama until the child turns 18. It can get serious, but you don't wanna put your man in the middle.
@Boss Have you ever seen this tranny in Miami? Please take her to the Coral Gables Mental Asylum. She is a mess. This girl is PROUD of being a PimpHo. Setting a TERRIBLE example for her 'child' I lost my temper cussing this heaux out. She needs a se…
this may be rude but beware:::::::::::::wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! so you JUST HAD A BABY AND YOU ALREADY HOEING!!!!! YOU STILL BLEEDING DOWN THERE HOE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 WTF...KILL YOURSELF AND GOODBYE
Wow! That is some BS, evenif she did know 9Mil? Who does that? I mean if she did shame on her! But 9Mil? Wow he needs his @$$ whoop for that! I hope it was worth it!
everything is only for a time. brandy is talented, but remember she was had the kinda popularity that beyonce/rihanna are enjoying right now from 96-99. so in the music industry's eyes, her "time" is over.
And its crazy because while they are talking so much about the black woman and STD's they are not saying anything about the black man that has contracted the STD's from another ethnicity and brung it right on over to the black woman. Not saying all…
Freaking SAD!! She disrupted three lives over a BOY that will have moved on to the next in about 9 months. I'm sure he knew she was going to fight, but didn't think it would get to the point of weapons. I just don't get it, these kids throw their li…
It shouldn't have happened at all, but why try to fight someone who had nothing to do with the situation??? And why didn't the boy make her behind stay away from them!!!!! these kids be trippin
I never watched it but yeah that's pretty much why the seller created this and why she signed this deal. Oh well, I say split the kids up and place them in "normal' families, there is no way that they can all be raised under one roof and kept togeth…
If you just had a baby, and you have an ankle monitor on, it's probably best to stay your nasty ass at home. I mean that's too many issues, for real. She's also like I lost everything I own, but i live RIGHT down the street, IDK, also who says their…