So I was chatting with a old associate of mine and we were just speaking upon we we went wrong in our "ship". Long story short we both wanted different things out of it and neither got what we really wanted so I backed up and went on with life. He stated as long as he got a meal, some physically contact, and able to go ahead with his workday than he was cool. To me that was all I needed to hear and glad I stopped wasting my time. Is this what relationships have come to in 2012? Hit and Quit or I want my cake and your piece too type of mind set. When did it become okay to have a piss and diss to a persons emotions or feelings type of mind set. Rather then I'm just going to honor/respect your emotions and leave you be before I hurt you or get hurt* side eye* type of mind frame.

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Believe it men and women do really act like this. Then the difficult ones get more upset when feelings are involved. They expect you to not have them. Dodge that Bullet asap. It will get worse as time goes on. Were intitled to have feelings and should never ignore them. This relationship will be bad and he will blame you all the time.

We aren't dealing with each other any longer. We were just having a general convo. Oh and I did dodge that bullet. Thanks for the input.
l8dy-c said:

Believe it men and women do really act like this. Then the difficult ones get more upset when feelings are involved. They expect you to not have them. Dodge that Bullet asap. It will get worse as time goes on. Were intitled to have feelings and should never ignore them. This relationship will be bad and he will blame you all the time.

It isn't and never has been. The problem is that there are a lot more players out there playing games. That's why a person, man or woman, truly needs to be grounded and know what they want out of life. Take no shorts and be realistic in your wants and desires.

Say word.

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

It isn't and never has been. The problem is that there are a lot more players out there playing games. That's why a person, man or woman, truly needs to be grounded and know what they want out of life. Take no shorts and be realistic in your wants and desires.

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