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What's wrong with the children today?
So my 13 year old nephew tells his mom that he is bisexual *coughs and choking*. And his reasoning he says is because he is explorative. First off the boy is confused one minute he wanted to grow dreads because his absent father had them, then he was a bully at school but tried to act like he didn't do it. I don't get. And my sister just acts as if his reason is okay with her, but a few summers ago his older brother was semi pimped by their neighbor (whose a grown ass 30 year old woman hanging with 12-16 year old boys an girls) who watched these young kids do sexual things to each other. My sister acts so nonchalant when it comes to her children and they all boys (4). I'm scared to have my son go over her house at times because of how she acts, and whats so scary is the nephew whom is confused my son adores him. Please Please give me some input. It's as if the children are already sealing their futures before the even know what living is. Is today's t.v. programs or music artist to blame or is it the lack of parenting?
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Permalink Reply by Siren on -
I agree that you are born gay but I also believe that kids that may have been born straight but were victims of molestation by someone of the same sex sometimes are "confused" because their first sexual experience their body responds to someone of the opposite sex. Many times they suffer in silence because they do not tell because they are ashamed. They never learn to deal with those feelings.
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on -
Smitty with this generation being BI is the it thing. Most people are followers and if something gets popular in the media then kids will be doing it.
University of Smitty said:
I disagree. I cant see eating another woman's p***y because it's a fad....UGH!!! In this day and age, people are no longer afraid to be who they are. As a result, our kids are not afraid to be who they are. If you tell a young man who's extremely feminine that he's not 'normal', you're encouraging him to live his life in the closet. Is that fair because your 'normal' is different than his??? IMO....'normal' is subjective.
Love is a Losing Game said:Lol @beat somebody's ass. I think kids today see gay and bisexual as a fad. They think its cute and I think the media has something to do with it. I had an uncle growing up and everybody just knew he'd be gay but he's not. He was just a young boy who acted soft like his sisters. My newphew that I told yall about likes glittery lotion and purfume. He also like skinny jeans, size small shirts (he's 6ft) and girly patterned socks. I think its a fad and the kids think its cool. I wouldn't let my kids go over there and I think that the mom should tell him that boys are boys and all that so he can see that in the real world gay and bisexual lifestyle is not normal.
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
+1, I also believe that SOME, not all because we got some born gay children in my family, but I do believe that SOME children take being bi as the new in thing to do.
Siren said:I agree that you are born gay but I also believe that kids that may have been born straight but were victims of molestation by someone of the same sex sometimes are "confused" because their first sexual experience their body responds to someone of the opposite sex. Many times they suffer in silence because they do not tell because they are ashamed. They never learn to deal with those feelings.
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on
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Most likely he will be gay because no adult stepped in and told him to snap out of it.
mese said:I'm teacher at a learning center and there's a lil boy at about 8 or 9 and I already know he's gonna be gay lol he plays with dolls. He hangs with nothing but girls hes very sensitive.I didnt really think its start to show at that age but yea maybe he is just bi. Who knows
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
What????? Imagine that you were born during the Roman Empire and that you happened the only straight man in town.....lol Do you think someone would have told you to snap out of it???
Tone said:Most likely he will be gay because no adult stepped in and told him to snap out of it.
mese said:
I'm teacher at a learning center and there's a lil boy at about 8 or 9 and I already know he's gonna be gay lol he plays with dolls. He hangs with nothing but girls hes very sensitive.I didnt really think its start to show at that age but yea maybe he is just bi. Who knows
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on
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A kid is different then a grown man.
University of Smitty said:What????? Imagine that you were born during the Roman Empire and that you happened the only straight man in town.....lol Do you think someone would have told you to snap out of it???
Tone said:Most likely he will be gay because no adult stepped in and told him to snap out of it.
mese said:
I'm teacher at a learning center and there's a lil boy at about 8 or 9 and I already know he's gonna be gay lol he plays with dolls. He hangs with nothing but girls hes very sensitive.I didnt really think its start to show at that age but yea maybe he is just bi. Who knows
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Permalink Reply by Moving In Silence on -
If she doesn't watch her own kids what do you think she'll do with yours
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Permalink Reply by blackfujones on -
ummmm yeah im gone need for you to love them at an arms reach..they got a f***** brothel going on over there
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Permalink Reply by WorkInProgress on -
I agree, she is dealing with something she isn't telling anybody and I tell our father this all the time, but I just pray for her.
Siren said:I have a friend whose son came out to her. He was molested by a family member of his fathers. Your sister is ignoring a bigger issue and from what you said about her older son and the going ons with the neighbor there is no telling of what happened to all of the kids that go over to the neighbors.
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Permalink Reply by WorkInProgress on
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I agree, but still at the same time as the saying goes : Just cause I jump off the bridge or you?"
Tone said:Smitty with this generation being BI is the it thing. Most people are followers and if something gets popular in the media then kids will be doing it.
University of Smitty said:
I disagree. I cant see eating another woman's p***y because it's a fad....UGH!!! In this day and age, people are no longer afraid to be who they are. As a result, our kids are not afraid to be who they are. If you tell a young man who's extremely feminine that he's not 'normal', you're encouraging him to live his life in the closet. Is that fair because your 'normal' is different than his??? IMO....'normal' is subjective.
Love is a Losing Game said:Lol @beat somebody's ass. I think kids today see gay and bisexual as a fad. They think its cute and I think the media has something to do with it. I had an uncle growing up and everybody just knew he'd be gay but he's not. He was just a young boy who acted soft like his sisters. My newphew that I told yall about likes glittery lotion and purfume. He also like skinny jeans, size small shirts (he's 6ft) and girly patterned socks. I think its a fad and the kids think its cool. I wouldn't let my kids go over there and I think that the mom should tell him that boys are boys and all that so he can see that in the real world gay and bisexual lifestyle is not normal.
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Permalink Reply by WorkInProgress on
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Yes the she got charged and is supposed to be registered but as soon as she was home for awhile than she was back at my sister house and I was pissed.
University of Smitty said:Was the neighbor charged?? i wouldnt send my child over there because your sister doesnt make sure they're safe.
As for your nephew, what makes you think he's 'confused'?? Around 13 is when our 'crushes' start. If he has a crush on a boy, it is what it is. I believe sexuality is determined at birth and by the time a child is 3, anyone who is paying attention can tell what that child's sexuality is.
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