What to make of this..is she a prude, still a tad bit young,or not secure or all of the above

So my homeboi mentions to me that he wants to go to an all adult resort with his current gf who happens to be in her early 20s. Now shes a PK and so is he however his parents allowed him a tad bit more freedom. So he's been to the regular resorts and what not and wanted to try an adult resort bc I told him how different the people there do act.  Only thing is the most that Ive found are always topless or whatever.  Now a pair of boobs are a pair of boobs to me, makes me no never mind. And neither does my girl who actually is a fairer skinned bw who does tan a bit. So she'll pop her boobs out n a minute n go tanning.  So he mentions how he wants to take her with him and she doesnt have to go topless, she commenced to go apeshit on him.  She said how me and him are up to our old pervert ways (which is false) and that we're trying to do some sick orgy (which we're not bc my old lady doesn't roll like that). So i tell him its cool they can go to another spot near us and we'll kick it when we're there, but now its started some big dust up between them and now it seems they arent talking..

is she overreacting or did he overestimate her COOLNESS

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Both. 

She didn't have to go apeshit on him, and at the same time, your first time going to "that kind" of place shouldn't be a "group thing" (IMO). 

wasnt so much of a group thing...i was going and he basically presented it to her.  I dont ask any of my friends if they wanna go anymore bc they always come up with excuses..so i merely put it out there that im going somewhere and youre more than welcome to come through..i think when some people who are a little bit leery already here ADULT or TOPLESS they think freakfest. When truth be told...it was more nasty s*** going down at the other spots than the adult joints

She is just ignorant to the lifestyle. She should calm down once she's there, IF she goes.

s*** I go topless on any beach especially in SoBe coz I don't like to the bikini lines and am dark skin and will still get lines. I think your friend should have known if his gurl was someone who will be comfortable with that type of thing or not.

i doubt it..i have no time for it..we;re gonna go after we come back from vegas and more than likely she wont be coming..i got a feeling theyre gonna break up

PlaneJaneLane said:

She is just ignorant to the lifestyle. She should calm down once she's there, IF she goes.

to be honest i thought he was. I mean we've hung at their place a few times and the women would be out n the sun tanning or what not and tops have come off and noone thinks anything of it.  But i guess bc its a place where she isnt comfortable and she spazzed.  My gf tried to talk to her like, "nobodies gonna give 2 s**** if your tits are out".Hell most women are happy they can be somewhere with their boobage out bopping around and no pervs all in their s***.



Bonita said:

s*** I go topless on any beach especially in SoBe coz I don't like to the bikini lines and am dark skin and will still get lines. I think your friend should have known if his gurl was someone who will be comfortable with that type of thing or not.

I think she feels like all these spots are like a haven for perverts, when in actuality they aren't. That and it may be her religious "morals" getting in the way

She sounds like a prude who's uncomfortable with her own sexuality. Women like that only limit themselves IMO. It was wrong of her to go off on him because she couldn't understand his pov. Quite frankly, I'd be flattered if a man invited me to a resort like that, it means he's comfortable enough with me and confident enough that I'm open minded/fun enough to go with him! And if she's that afraid to see the boobs of strangers, she probably grew up in a household that shamed the body and sexuality instead of embracing it

Yeah she thought it was a spot like hedonism and he keeps telling her hes not on that. He just didnt want to be in a spot full of horny ass kids running around actin crazy

DB said:

She sounds like a prude who's uncomfortable with her own sexuality. Women like that only limit themselves IMO. It was wrong of her to go off on him because she couldn't understand his pov. Quite frankly, I'd be flattered if a man invited me to a resort like that, it means he's comfortable enough with me and confident enough that I'm open minded/fun enough to go with him! And if she's that afraid to see the boobs of strangers, she probably grew up in a household that shamed the body and sexuality instead of embracing it

Maybe I am a "young prude" but if a guy I was dating told me that him, his homeboi and girlfriend wanted to go to a topless naked adult resort with me, I'd think yall were trying to turn me out.

a prude =yes

inscure=not nessicerily (sp)

imho..thats that s*** young people say.  people in other cultures are topless all the time...a pair of tits are just that a pair of tits. I think someone on BA said it before that us americans are somewhat uppitty when it comes to our bodies.

Jayne Dough said:

Maybe I am a "young prude" but if a guy I was dating told me that him, his homeboi and girlfriend wanted to go to a topless naked adult resort with me, I'd think yall were trying to turn me out.

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