I read a lot of blogs when I am supposed to be working, LOL. I found this article on Peep Game.net. Its long, but read if you have some free time. What type are you?

What’s Your Type? Do You Know How Men See You? By Buttafly Jonez

 Believe it or not, men categorize women on sight. The way you walk, the way you dress, the way you speak, even the way you wear your hair communicates certain things to men. From his point of view you are a type. The type that you are dictates a man’s approach and can determine the way he treats you. When you meet men and have to explain what kind of chick you are and how you want to be treated, you can guarantee you’ve been “typed.” If you find that men approach you but don’t stick around after date one or two, you’ve been “typed.” When a guy outright says something like, “Wow! You’re really smart” or, “I didn’t peg you that way when we met”, you’ve been typed. Being a Type has its advantages and disadvantages. If your “type” is favorable, you can use a man’s categorization of you to flip the script and Play him. But if your “type” is unfavorable, you will spend a lot of time proving yourself NOT to be the chick he assumes you are.

Peep Game: From a man’s perspective, what are the categories women generally fall into?

•Pretty Girl w/Low Self-Esteem – She’s pretty but doesn’t know it. Her self-esteem is low. She may have been raised in a strict/religious family that played looks down or some dude in her past has obliterated her self-esteem with violence or mind games.

•Pretty Girl w/High Self-Esteem – She’s pretty and she knows it. Her self-esteem is not just high, it’s over-the-top. She’s used to getting what she wants and she knows how to get it. She’s the kind of chick who doesn’t respond to men giving her compliments unless it’s to say, “I know.”

 •Easy Pu$$y – She’s ready to get down with any man who gives her some attention and she let’s that be known by the way she dresses, walks, and talks. She’s the chick with the skin-tight pants on and her butt poked out. She’s the chick who doesn’t just walk past men, she sashays past them. She wants the attention and usually gets it. Although she pulls lots of dudes, they’re not the kind that stick around.

•No Brainer – She’s not that bright so it’s pretty easy to pull the wool over her eyes. She can be naive or genuinely slow. Guys feed her ridiculous lies and she believes everything they say. When people try to school her, she makes excuses for a guy’s actions or defends him to the hilt.

•Butta Face – She has a bomb physique but her face is “Eww Wee!” Although she’ll never admit it, she knows her body is the key to her success. She loves men who compliment her body and she loves showing off her assets. This is the chick on YouTube dancing and gyrating for everybody to see. She doesn’t care if you notice her face as long as you say something nice about her body.

•Ugly Girl w/ High Self-Esteem – She’s the cock blocker in every girl group. She’s the one dragging her friend away from dudes at the club and the one who seems to dislike every one of her girl’s boyfriends. She claims to love herself too much to allow men to mistreat her. Ironically, she’s usually the one alone on Friday nights or who is “dating” a man you never see/meet.

•Ugly Girl w/ Low Self-Esteem – She knows she ugly. She has accepted that fact. She’s receptive to virtually any man who looks her way. Men scoop “her” when they’re looking for fast cash or oral satisfaction. She’s the chick other women should watch out for because she is the most likely to accept sexual invitations from your man (or pursue him for that matter).

•The Marrying Kind – She’s the kind of chick men run from in their 20′s and then seek out in their 30′s and 40′s. She’s usually conservative in her style and reserved. Although she isn’t thirsty to get married, she’s usually the kind of chick who expects a relationship if she sleeps with you.

•The Whore – She’s out there on a limb mentally. Men know she’s the kind of chick who’s been taught/trained to satisfy her man by any means necessary. She is the kind of woman men use to fulfill their sexual fantasies. Men sleep with her and then recommend her to their friends. She thinks she’s the hottest thing going but in essence she’s a buss down. Since she usually has a “Get Money” mentality, this chick is a prime target for Pimps and often winds up a casualty of the Game.

 •Miss Materialism – She looks good and dresses even better. Everything about a man begins and ends with how much money he has and what kind of car he drives. She’ll date anyone as long as his pockets are fat. She’s a pro and only celebrities, athletes and real business power players need apply.

 How do I know what Type I am? What kind of men approach you? Are they aggressive when they approach or timid? Do most guys try to take you home day one? Do men try to introduce you to their mother shortly after meeting? Are men reluctant to take you out or only offer you the $5 special from the local takeout place? Do men often invite you to important events such as weddings, office parties, family get-together, etc.? Do men seem to plan time with you and schedule you into their calendars? All those are clues that tell you how a man perceives you. The next time you meet a guy, observe his approach and the way he interacts with you. You’ll find out what you need to know by doing so. Can I “buck” my type and change the way men see/categorize me? Yes and No! Some things about us are inherent to our nature and thus cannot be changed. But, things like your hairstyle, your clothing style, even the way you walk and speak can be adjusted to reflect more of what you want men to see. Can I have an example? Let’s say you are a pretty woman with low self-esteem. You’re attracting a lot of men who are looking for a low self-esteem woman to exploit. The kind of guys you really like seem to walk right past you (because they sense your low self-esteem and are repelled by that). Even though your self-esteem is a work in progress and won’t change overnight, you can come out of that “Pretty Girl w/ Low Self Esteem” category by doing the following: speak of yourself in a confident way, avoiding taking jabs at yourself or playing who you are and what you do down; don’t reference any bad men or relationships you’ve encountered even if you’ve been burned in the worst way; dress like you know you are the finest chick out here wearing clothing that may be slightly more revealing or seductive that usual. In essence, you are mimicking the behavior of a confident woman. Although your insides need a little work, nobody but you needs to know that. Until you really get to a place where you love and accept yourself unconditionally, you can fake it. The kindness and generosity of men who perceive you are not only beautiful but confident, will only help you to improve your self-esteem. How can I use “Type” to flip the script on men and Play them? When you appear to be something that you are not, it presents an opportunity (in many instances) to run a little Game of your own. Guys tend to sum women up so quickly and often miss the subtle clues that would show them who a chick really is. If you’re “typed” in a certain way, you allow the guy to believe what he wants to believe. Let him talk to you like you’re 2. Let him think you need his guidance. Let him think he’s smarter than you. While he’s Playing his Games and thinking he’s getting over, you Play the ultimate Game on him. Get what you want and move on just as he begins to put it all together. And, don’t feel bad because he assumed to know you and acted accordingly. While a genuinely interested man will want to get to know who you are, a Player is making a quick guess and then categorizing you accordingly. While he’s setting you up for the kill, you shut him down and flip the script on the low. What’s your “Type” Butta? I’ve known my type for years. I’ve used that knowledge to Peep Game on men and to Play men. If I tell you what my type is, I’d have to kill you. (lol) But if and when you do get a chance to observe me, you’ll probably guess my type. So don’t be surprised if you see me do something or say something you didn’t expect. It’s all part of my Game and how I rotate.

 Can you give us an example of a celebrity who has used her “Type” to Play men? If you follow urban entertainment and gossip, you know that Amber Rose’s Game has been exposed. Her former publicist ran a train all over that chick’s strategy and revealed Da Real Amber Rose. Amber knew that she needed to play the dumb, deer in the headlights routine in order to snag Hip Hop superstar Kanye West. She must have Played it to the hilt because Kanye put that girl on the map, something I’m sure he regrets doing now. Amber continued her little ruse publicly after the break-up with Kanye. She had us convinced that she was just a grateful young girl trying to balance the burdens of unexpected fame. Her publicist exposed the truth when he released the intel that Amber plotted on Kanye West from day one. Now that her secret’s out of the bag, she better hold onto Wiz Khalifa. Rich suckers don’t come along everyday. Now that her cover is blown, her true type has been exposed. Kanye pegged her as a “Pretty Girl w/ Low Self-Esteem” and tried to Play her with Kim Kardashian. What Kanye didn’t know was that Amber was actually a “Pro” and should have been avoided at all costs. I’m sure Big Pimpin’ JayZ knew that and tried to tell Yeezy but somebody wasn’t listening. Bottom Line! Until next time…Don’t hate the Player, learn the Game!