Lately, I have realized that majority of the men I know, date, or meet are 40...when I meet youngers guys they just don't hold my interest.

Here's the problem, I want to get married soon and so do they...but is that to big of an age difference in the long run? I'm in my mid to late twenties...when I'm 35, my husband will be 50 (if not close to 50)...when I'm 50, he will be in his 70's...

Thoughts?

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People are living longer...marry for the right reasons and be happy. Age ain't nothing but a number...getting down ain't nothing but a thing. LOL

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So true!!!!!! My aunt's husband was 15 years older than her they were together for almost 40 years...
Boss/MadamBA said:
People are living longer...marry for the right reasons and be happy. Age ain't nothing but a number...getting down ain't nothing but a thing. LOL

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give his ass some acai juice evryday and some damn centrum silver(is that the right name of the vitamins). lol
If Im attracted to someone, I dont care how old his ass is... but then again, I'm not trying to get married.

Do you want him to not be able to pick his kids(if you plan on having more) with his muscles and play footbal with the kids in the yard or teach his kids athletic games. run outside in the sprinklers and stuff. If i had kids I'd want them to have an active life with their children and be able tio have the energy to keep up with them for the most part. or better yet be alive to see them get their masters.

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Yes, I want more children - that's another issue...

But ok ladies, will take your advice, thanks (you bishes better not be wrong!!!!! Lol)

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i'm adding a disclaimer to my post.

* this poster, in no way shape or form has extended experience with said older men; therefore, everything she suggests is spoken with moral and personal preference. Do not expect her suggestions to come with positive results*
any loopholes ladies?

Charlie/Daddy's Girl said:
Yes, I want more children - that's another issue...

But ok ladies, will take your advice, thanks (you bishes better not be wrong!!!!! Lol)

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I used to be hung up about this before and now I have the hots for Keanu Reeves then I found out he is 44. He'll be 45 this year and that is waayyy older than me! I quickly changed my view about younger chicks/older men in a heartbeat!

It's true, age ain't nothing but a number (within reason) and if he asked me for a date I'd go in as heartbeat!

Go for it girlfriend! He'll probably treat you nicer anyway, but watch out for when they try to 'daddy' you! That's the only thing I hate about the oldies. but everything has it's pros and cons...

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When you're in love nothing is to old .... some of them old men keep having babies til they die ! If you find a sexy older husband that just happens to be 20 years older than you , I say go for it !

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Co-Sign 110%

Cookie Pie said:
When you're in love nothing is to old .... some of them old men keep having babies til they die ! If you find a sexy older husband that just happens to be 20 years older than you , I say go for it !

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y is everybody in a rush to get married?? that does not mean shit now days.

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I use to hve an issue about older men too.. But if they r good lookin, know how to treat u and u guys click like that go for it. Don't pass up a good thing becuz of age. He just mite be ur ying to the yang

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Well do what ever feels right to you but age is some to seriously consider in a man if you plan on having children because older men those 35 or 40 and up have a higher chance of have making babies that have problems like autism, dwarfism and other genetic problems. Older men tend to have children with younger women because they think they are not part of the problem with making children that are born with disorders but research has proved other wise since the at those ages 40's and up the quality of male sperm deteriorates. So if you plan on marrying a man in his 40's and 50's and such you have to think if it will be wish to have children with him due to the genetic disorders that may occur based on his sperm because of his age. In other countries babies born to older father have a seal on their birth certificate so if any problem arise in the child they know why. So this is just food for thought.

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stop paing attention to age,hell he might out live you.

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