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When Is It Time To Cash Out?
At what age should you stop subscribing to the notion of finding a "baller"? Unfortunately, age plays a large factor in what you get from a man and for how long. No one wants to end up as the beautiful, 30 something year old woman still looking for Superman in the club. At what age should we cash in our chips for a " regular joe" if we can't lock down a baller?
Let's be realistic. Most men love Evelyn Lozado but, if given the opportunity, they're going after her daughter, Shaniece. No matter how pretty/successful/well put together you are, young p**** is king in the realm of "ballerdom" [For example: Pilar vs. "that mattress on the floor" chick]. Give me an age.
P.S. I ask this because a good friend of mine gave up her boyfriend of 7 years for an NFL player that has now dumped her. Now, the boyfriend of 7 years loves her, took care of her, made sure she didn't work and paid all of the bills (I believe he works as an engineer for Boeing). Yet, she doesn't want to go back to him; she still wants to find a baller and is now pushing 31 years old. I think she should cash out and marry the man of 7 years who, may not be famous but, is six figures and takes care of the household.
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on -
That engineer at Boeing is a baller in my books (6 figures did you say???). That engineer is 'SOLID and a true baller'. Not everyone wants a 'sports' baller.
Your friend wanted a baller from a certain environment that fuels excitement (sports and entertainment ballers will provide that, but the culture of disrespect and infidelity are not worth it). There is no age really, we will always need money and there is always someone willing to provide. You just have to find the right person and be willing to expand your definition of what a baller is.
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Permalink Reply by PrettyPretty on -
So true....But I think at 35-40 call it a day
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:That engineer at Boeing is a baller in my books (6 figures did you say???). That engineer is 'SOLID and a true baller'. Not everyone wants a 'sports' baller.
Your friend wanted a baller from a certain environment that fuels excitement (sports and entertainment ballers will provide that, but the culture of disrespect and infidelity are not worth it). There is no age really, we will always need money and there is always someone willing to provide. You just have to find the right person and be willing to expand your definition of what a baller is.
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on
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IMHO no, when you get to those ages you don't know where life takes you and what your needs may be. Ask any woman married to a baller. Jackie O, when Kennedy died had to find another baller etc.
PrettyPretty said:So true....But I think at 35-40 call it a day
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:That engineer at Boeing is a baller in my books (6 figures did you say???). That engineer is 'SOLID and a true baller'. Not everyone wants a 'sports' baller.
Your friend wanted a baller from a certain environment that fuels excitement (sports and entertainment ballers will provide that, but the culture of disrespect and infidelity are not worth it). There is no age really, we will always need money and there is always someone willing to provide. You just have to find the right person and be willing to expand your definition of what a baller is.
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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on -
I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.
As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on
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You can't tell people what to do. You can have an opinion but you never know who will be attracted to who and who's willing to provide.
BabyBallerCheeks said:I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.
As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
I agree with $picey. There is no age limit really. It all depends on the woman. Operative word here is woman. Little girls and little boys will always get played.
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:You can't tell people what to do. You can have an opinion but you never know who will be attracted to who and who's willing to provide.
BabyBallerCheeks said:I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.
As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on -
Any woman that is use to a baller lifestyle is not going to be happy with an avg guy. So She most likely will never give up looking for a baller and that will land her into a life of loneliness.
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on
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Tks, it also goes back to that post about what do you want your baller to do for you? Are you looking for marriage, someone with connections to be friends with, a sponsor, a business partner or someone to fund your business interests.
I picked JO because even married women are looking for ballers just in case their marriages go south. LOL
Look at Kim Z, she's older than 35 and older than her baller but yet he married her with kids.
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:I agree with $picey. There is no age limit really. It all depends on the woman. Operative word here is woman. Little girls and little boys will always get played.
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:You can't tell people what to do. You can have an opinion but you never know who will be attracted to who and who's willing to provide.
BabyBallerCheeks said:I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.
As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.
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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on
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#BOOM!
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:Tks, it also goes back to that post about what do you want your baller to do for you? Are you looking for marriage, someone with connections to be friends with, a sponsor, a business partner or someone to fund your business interests.
I picked JO because even married women are looking for ballers just in case their marriages go south. LOL
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:I agree with $picey. There is no age limit really. It all depends on the woman. Operative word here is woman. Little girls and little boys will always get played.
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:You can't tell people what to do. You can have an opinion but you never know who will be attracted to who and who's willing to provide.
BabyBallerCheeks said:I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.
As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on
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Another thing is what makes you think avg joe is even going to be checking for an older woman?
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:Tks, it also goes back to that post about what do you want your baller to do for you? Are you looking for marriage, someone with connections to be friends with, a sponsor, a business partner or someone to fund your business interests.
I picked JO because even married women are looking for ballers just in case their marriages go south. LOL
Look at Kim Z, she's older than 35 and older than her baller but yet he married her with kids.
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:I agree with $picey. There is no age limit really. It all depends on the woman. Operative word here is woman. Little girls and little boys will always get played.
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:You can't tell people what to do. You can have an opinion but you never know who will be attracted to who and who's willing to provide.
BabyBallerCheeks said:I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.
As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on
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*yawwwwwwwwwwwwn*
Tone said:Another thing is what makes you think avg joe is even going to be checking for an older woman?
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:Tks, it also goes back to that post about what do you want your baller to do for you? Are you looking for marriage, someone with connections to be friends with, a sponsor, a business partner or someone to fund your business interests.
I picked JO because even married women are looking for ballers just in case their marriages go south. LOL
Look at Kim Z, she's older than 35 and older than her baller but yet he married her with kids.
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:I agree with $picey. There is no age limit really. It all depends on the woman. Operative word here is woman. Little girls and little boys will always get played.
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:You can't tell people what to do. You can have an opinion but you never know who will be attracted to who and who's willing to provide.
BabyBallerCheeks said:I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.
As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.
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Permalink Reply by DdoubleD on -
When I watch shows like basketball wives, real housewives, etc I pray that I don't end up like those women. I do NOT want to be pushing 40 still tryna come up. I think there is a major difference between having yourself together and wanting to date a man that has equal or more than you. But when you aint go s*** AND you pushin 40 AND you want "a baller", you need to get yourself together. Just my take on it!
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