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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on April 14, 2012 at 7:51am

That engineer at Boeing is a baller in my books (6 figures did you say???). That engineer is 'SOLID and a true baller'. Not everyone wants a 'sports' baller.

Your friend wanted a baller from a certain environment that fuels excitement (sports and entertainment ballers will provide that, but the culture of disrespect and infidelity are not worth it). There is no age really, we will always need money and there is always someone willing to provide. You just have to find the right person and be willing to expand your definition of what a baller is.

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Permalink Reply by PrettyPretty on April 14, 2012 at 8:36am

So true....But I think at 35-40 call it a day

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

That engineer at Boeing is a baller in my books (6 figures did you say???). That engineer is 'SOLID and a true baller'. Not everyone wants a 'sports' baller.

Your friend wanted a baller from a certain environment that fuels excitement (sports and entertainment ballers will provide that, but the culture of disrespect and infidelity are not worth it). There is no age really, we will always need money and there is always someone willing to provide. You just have to find the right person and be willing to expand your definition of what a baller is.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on April 14, 2012 at 9:14am

IMHO no, when you get to those ages you don't know where life takes you and what your needs may be. Ask any woman married to a baller. Jackie O, when Kennedy died had to find another baller etc.

PrettyPretty said:

So true....But I think at 35-40 call it a day

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

That engineer at Boeing is a baller in my books (6 figures did you say???). That engineer is 'SOLID and a true baller'. Not everyone wants a 'sports' baller.

Your friend wanted a baller from a certain environment that fuels excitement (sports and entertainment ballers will provide that, but the culture of disrespect and infidelity are not worth it). There is no age really, we will always need money and there is always someone willing to provide. You just have to find the right person and be willing to expand your definition of what a baller is.

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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on April 14, 2012 at 9:29am

I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.

As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on April 14, 2012 at 9:53am

You can't tell people what to do. You can have an opinion but you never know who will be attracted to who and who's willing to provide.

BabyBallerCheeks said:

I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.

As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on April 14, 2012 at 10:41am

I agree with $picey. There is no age limit really. It all depends on the woman. Operative word here is woman. Little girls and little boys will always get played.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

You can't tell people what to do. You can have an opinion but you never know who will be attracted to who and who's willing to provide.

BabyBallerCheeks said:

I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.

As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 14, 2012 at 11:11am

Any woman that is use to a baller lifestyle is not going to be happy with an avg guy. So She most likely will never give up looking for a baller and that will land her into a life of loneliness.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on April 14, 2012 at 11:41am

Tks, it also goes back to that post about what do you want your baller to do for you? Are you looking for marriage, someone with connections to be friends with, a sponsor, a business partner or someone to fund your business interests.

I picked JO because even married women are looking for ballers just in case their marriages go south. LOL

Look at Kim Z, she's older than 35 and older than her baller but yet he married her with kids.

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

I agree with $picey. There is no age limit really. It all depends on the woman. Operative word here is woman. Little girls and little boys will always get played.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

You can't tell people what to do. You can have an opinion but you never know who will be attracted to who and who's willing to provide.

BabyBallerCheeks said:

I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.

As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.

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Permalink Reply by BabyBallerCheeks on April 14, 2012 at 11:45am

#BOOM! 

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

Tks, it also goes back to that post about what do you want your baller to do for you? Are you looking for marriage, someone with connections to be friends with, a sponsor, a business partner or someone to fund your business interests.

I picked JO because even married women are looking for ballers just in case their marriages go south. LOL

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

I agree with $picey. There is no age limit really. It all depends on the woman. Operative word here is woman. Little girls and little boys will always get played.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

You can't tell people what to do. You can have an opinion but you never know who will be attracted to who and who's willing to provide.

BabyBallerCheeks said:

I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.

As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on April 14, 2012 at 1:36pm

Another thing is what makes you think avg joe is even going to be checking for an older woman? 

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

Tks, it also goes back to that post about what do you want your baller to do for you? Are you looking for marriage, someone with connections to be friends with, a sponsor, a business partner or someone to fund your business interests.

I picked JO because even married women are looking for ballers just in case their marriages go south. LOL

Look at Kim Z, she's older than 35 and older than her baller but yet he married her with kids.

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

I agree with $picey. There is no age limit really. It all depends on the woman. Operative word here is woman. Little girls and little boys will always get played.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

You can't tell people what to do. You can have an opinion but you never know who will be attracted to who and who's willing to provide.

BabyBallerCheeks said:

I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.

As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on April 14, 2012 at 2:27pm

*yawwwwwwwwwwwwn*

Tone said:

Another thing is what makes you think avg joe is even going to be checking for an older woman? 

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

Tks, it also goes back to that post about what do you want your baller to do for you? Are you looking for marriage, someone with connections to be friends with, a sponsor, a business partner or someone to fund your business interests.

I picked JO because even married women are looking for ballers just in case their marriages go south. LOL

Look at Kim Z, she's older than 35 and older than her baller but yet he married her with kids.

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

I agree with $picey. There is no age limit really. It all depends on the woman. Operative word here is woman. Little girls and little boys will always get played.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

You can't tell people what to do. You can have an opinion but you never know who will be attracted to who and who's willing to provide.

BabyBallerCheeks said:

I think the engineer is a baller too! Hell, if I was shady I would date him my damn self. He's cute, has incredible amounts of swag and doesn't want his woman to work. I think she is crazy for not wanting him but, a lot of her girlfriends are wives/girlfriends/"baby mamas" of athletes. I think she just wants to fit in.

As far as age and searching for a baller (in terms of rappers and athletes), I think 35 is the age where you need to find a great guy with comfortable money and forget about "dat life". None of us are Jackie O (who, by the way, had her own fame and money and well, money begets money). Men over 40 who are single or not and rich date young women 30, possibly 35, and under. At 40, you may find a regular joe to take care of you but besides that...they are not buying it.

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Permalink Reply by DdoubleD on April 14, 2012 at 3:13pm

When I watch shows like basketball wives, real housewives, etc I pray that I don't end up like those women.  I do NOT want to be pushing 40 still tryna come up.  I think there is a major difference between having yourself together and wanting to date a man that has equal or more than you.  But when you aint go s*** AND you pushin 40 AND you want "a baller", you need to get yourself together.  Just my take on it!

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