Idk about any one else but I get extra bored some times. 

 

I'm a mother of 2, attend church, work full time, gym 3 days a week, I shop (too much), hang with friends/family, playdates with my kids nieces and nephews, always reading, the list goes on and on. Now you might say "how and the hell is she bored with 2 kids?!?", schedules my dear, schedules! 

 

Here lately I just feel so BORED!  I've been single for 4 years, nothing serious since 24.  The funny thing is, I don't mind being single.  I'm not the woman who's like "i want a man in my life, i'm lonely".  Every now and again if get the "itch" I'll call up an old cutty or some double A's but I'm really focused on raising my kids so dating is/has been on the back burner.  I get the feeling there's something going on internally and I'm trying to keep myself busy to fill the void of not having a S/O.  You've heard of the feeling some people get when they're fine with not having kids but then all of sudden they wake up and want to have a baby...that whole "biological clock" thing.  What do you ladies and gents think?  Is my "love biological clock" ticking? 

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O_o I would say with all you have going on that you would have to schedule time to be bored. lol I am betting it is something a lot deeper than that. Maybe you need to stop and take some "bored" time to figure out what it is. If you are having trouble figuring it out for yourself a good friend, confidante or minister/counselor could help you.
Perhaps you can give, like your time/energy/resources/talents. It would be rewarding, needed, time consuming, and fulfilling. Whenever I see people that are volunteers (I mean full time, not just people that feed the homeless once saturday a month), they are always talking about how much there is to be done, and there is never enough time or people. I don't think they get bored, because if they have free time in the day, they consume it with helping others. That's a legacy that will last long after you're gone, and you can pick any area you're interested in, whether it's children, animals, environment, the arts, poverty, hunger, illnesses/disease, etc.
I think what your feeling is that you want to have a purpose other than being a mother (which is the most precious job in the world). But other then that what are you interested in? Maybe you need to find a hobby or start making time to have a you day weather that be going out with your girls or taking a weekend trip. Life is to short to let it pass you by.
I agree...it has to be something deeper. It's like I'm trying to keep busy to run away from something else...

CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:
O_o I would say with all you have going on that you would have to schedule time to be bored. lol I am betting it is something a lot deeper than that. Maybe you need to stop and take some "bored" time to figure out what it is. If you are having trouble figuring it out for yourself a good friend, confidante or minister/counselor could help you.
I feel ya. I used to be a little restless until I started traveling more. Nothing major. You can take a 30 min drive to a tourist spot, outlet mall, famous landmark. Take a friend, take a blanket, take a bottle of wine, maybe a acamera...ect.... whatever you need to complete the adventure and explore.

I've found some pretty cool things right in my area or not to far away that i maight have never noticed.

Also, googling events in your area has proven to be cost effective and less time consuming....hope this helps.
Take mini trips (weekends if you can). Try a bread & breakfast or take a train trip.
Get out of your environment, try something new.
Hmmm, when did you start having this restlessness? Focus there. Was there some event that may have touched this off? A birth, death, marriage, divorce, graduation etc around the time you started feeling this way?

ReadytoSettleDown said:
I agree...it has to be something deeper. It's like I'm trying to keep busy to run away from something else...
CCDreamer aka Eve Davis said:
O_o I would say with all you have going on that you would have to schedule time to be bored. lol I am betting it is something a lot deeper than that. Maybe you need to stop and take some "bored" time to figure out what it is. If you are having trouble figuring it out for yourself a good friend, confidante or minister/counselor could help you.

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