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I'm starting to think I'm doing something wrong. I've never "needed" a million dollar man. I do date stable men (military officers, corporate heads of companies in general men with titles) Anyway I'm ready to settle down now and have been for a while. So it'll be 3 years ago later this month I decided to not have sex with anyone that wasn't a potential boyfriend. I've had sex twice in those 3 years and neither was boyfriend material. (Well one was a baller willing to part with a large sum of $$ but he was old and ugly as hell so no he wasn't either. And the other was the cable guy well a cable guy not my cable guy (hangs head in shame). My point is I have no problem getting a date. But I haven't had a boyfriend in 7 years and I'm not that old 28. I'm not a 10 but I'm not ugly either. And I know lots of ugly people with boy/girlfriends. I'm not waiting for a millionaire. I'm not a hoe and I again know a few hoes that have settled down. I don't even kiss on the first date any more. I want a man that can be a gentleman longer than 1 date. A man that can watch a movie without having his hands all over me. I want to get to know a man but all they want is sex. And I don't have a 90 day rule just maybe a 3 to 5 date rule. When men hear I haven't had sex in years they act like I said I never want to have sex again. I can't get to a 3rd date to save my life. And I don't want to tell them I'll have sex with you on the 3rd date for them to wait 3 dates and I never hear from them again. Am I missing something? Should I have given the guy working at the waffle house my # and throw away my standards? Please help! I'm horny.
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Permalink Reply by Desiree' on -
LOL NO! Never throw away your standards! You mention how your ready to settle down. If that is true then your gonna want a man that can meet your standards or else whats the point of settling down with him. In my opinion if a man cant wait long enough to get past three dates then he doesn't deserve your time nor your p****!
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on -
where you been hiding?
Desiree' said:LOL NO! Never throw away your standards! You mention how your ready to settle down. If that is true then your gonna want a man that can meet your standards or else whats the point of settling down with him. In my opinion if a man cant wait long enough to get past three dates then he doesn't deserve your time nor your p****!
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Permalink Reply by Desiree' on
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lol lurking
Tone said:where you been hiding?
Desiree' said:LOL NO! Never throw away your standards! You mention how your ready to settle down. If that is true then your gonna want a man that can meet your standards or else whats the point of settling down with him. In my opinion if a man cant wait long enough to get past three dates then he doesn't deserve your time nor your p****!
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on
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I see
Desiree' said:lol lurking
Tone said:where you been hiding?
Desiree' said:LOL NO! Never throw away your standards! You mention how your ready to settle down. If that is true then your gonna want a man that can meet your standards or else whats the point of settling down with him. In my opinion if a man cant wait long enough to get past three dates then he doesn't deserve your time nor your p****!
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Permalink Reply by marissa taylor on -
Believe me it's not you ... A respectful man is hard to find ... some men are still trapped in a very childish stage.... I say keep your standards ... You don't have crazy demands .... just be patient ... I am sure he will come along ....Love comes when you are not looking for it ... just keep focus on you so you can be the best woman for mr .right... when he comes along .... While you wait for him enjoy the dating experience ... Try to go to gatherings that have more of a professional setting in your city .... Hopefully there u will find some professional men that are looking to settle with someone ... It may help to try different and new things on the first date ... Try to keep yourself in a public setting that way the touching thing shouldn't be so much of an issue ... Men make an attempt to try that funny stuff with you when you are more in private setting ... keeping it public allows you to have great convo and allows you determine his state of mind ....that way u can decide if he is worth a 2nd date ...
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Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on -
Chile, we in the same boat. So I'ma listen to the advice intently
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on
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Where do you meet these guys at? I will say this a woman's personality has a lot to do with how we will treat you. You might be giving off a sign that you want sex
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Permalink Reply by Dolla Back on -
ima give you some advice, get off balleralert and stop listening to these women on here... yall call us "childish" but we can smell a goldiddgger from a mile a way and we treat them accordingly
AllyNWonderland said:Chile, we in the same boat. So I'ma listen to the advice intently
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Permalink Reply by l8dy-c on -
You seem to have some self esteem issues.Please don't have such a low outlook on yourself. Your not doing anything wrong.Maybe you should take this time to focus on yourself and begin building your self esteem.You'll find yourself a good man.
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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on -
Why do you care about what advice we give each other as women??? You seem to have a problem with women empowering women/supporting each other. Don't worry though, you won't be meeting or dating any woman on BA.
Dolla Back said:ima give you some advice, get off balleralert and stop listening to these women on here... yall call us "childish" but we can smell a goldiddgger from a mile a way and we treat them accordingly
AllyNWonderland said:Chile, we in the same boat. So I'ma listen to the advice intently
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Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on
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This will be the LAST time I reply to you. How about I give you some advice, go suck many d-cks and stop replying to me. I don't need your advice nor your non thought out replies. You have so much s*** to say about nothing.
Dolla Back said:ima give you some advice, get off balleralert and stop listening to these women on here... yall call us "childish" but we can smell a goldiddgger from a mile a way and we treat them accordingly
AllyNWonderland said:Chile, we in the same boat. So I'ma listen to the advice intently
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