For the life of me Ive always wondered why folks want to be solely independent.  Like wouldnt you want someone by your side to help out when s*** gets EXTRA! Now im not saying to go through life like a wandering moron.  Get yourself together and do your thing, however some folks take this IM INDEPENDENT thing way too far

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nah..i have convo's like this all the time with my gf in the mornin while im takin my mornin boo-boo.she's in law school so i constantly debate with her to keep her skills sharp lol.this was on our mind today

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

Are you reading our responses and creating posts???

I'll lol at the GIF and sit back for the responses.

I will say this I have been independent most of my life... I was onmy own at 17 and not at a university in a dorm either. Different strokes for different folks but I enjoy my life as it is. I enjoy being married to my husband and sharing the load. I never saw myself as being the housewife type until now... i would love to. I do not knock the independent woman movement but i do think that there is something great about healthy partnerships/marriages.

That GIF is hilarious. lol

xactly my point...i wont lie. i need a woman in my life for balance.if not i'd be tearing this world up lol

Siren said:

I will say this I have been independent most of my life... I was onmy own at 17 and not at a university in a dorm either. Different strokes for different folks but I enjoy my life as it is. I enjoy being married to my husband and sharing the load. I never saw myself as being the housewife type until now... i would love to. I do not knock the independent woman movement but i do think that there is something great about healthy partnerships/marriages.

My boo brags on my independance to his homies! I even heard him when he didn't know I was listening make the comment, "oh yeah baby independant to the fullest!". I must say I was proud and if he would have been paying attention I blushed, LOL! I can't help the independance either I have been doing this since 16, there was not really another choice for me. Yes, it's nice to have extra, and that is just what it is for me, extra. I don't depend on another person to take care of my bills, i do that one myself, however, i do need a little spending change her and their, gas for my car, you can go ahead and get me some tint and rims, and oh yeah, i need to set this appointment for my hair and my nails. LMAO!

Wow, you articulated that very well, and we have something in common! Who knew!

Siren said:

I will say this I have been independent most of my life... I was onmy own at 17 and not at a university in a dorm either. Different strokes for different folks but I enjoy my life as it is. I enjoy being married to my husband and sharing the load. I never saw myself as being the housewife type until now... i would love to. I do not knock the independent woman movement but i do think that there is something great about healthy partnerships/marriages.



Skytz0100 said:

Wow, you articulated that very well, and we have something in common! Who knew!

Siren said:

I will say this I have been independent most of my life... I was onmy own at 17 and not at a university in a dorm either. Different strokes for different folks but I enjoy my life as it is. I enjoy being married to my husband and sharing the load. I never saw myself as being the housewife type until now... i would love to. I do not knock the independent woman movement but i do think that there is something great about healthy partnerships/marriages.

to me that independance bs goes out the window when you're with someone.How can I be independent when I have to consider someone else. Independence to me means ME ME ME. not US US US

Skytz0100 said:

My boo brags on my independance to his homies! I even heard him when he didn't know I was listening make the comment, "oh yeah baby independant to the fullest!". I must say I was proud and if he would have been paying attention I blushed, LOL! I can't help the independance either I have been doing this since 16, there was not really another choice for me. Yes, it's nice to have extra, and that is just what it is for me, extra. I don't depend on another person to take care of my bills, i do that one myself, however, i do need a little spending change her and their, gas for my car, you can go ahead and get me some tint and rims, and oh yeah, i need to set this appointment for my hair and my nails. LMAO!

Our socity does not teach women real independents . At the end of the day most women have the idea if things get to hard for me to handle on my own I will get a man to help me out. When women say they are independent that just means niggga I don't need you right now.

lol..cant argue to much with that.lol If a male does that he's a punk ninja..a woman does that and shes just getting her life together lol

Tone said:

Our socity does not teach women real independents . At the end of the day most women have the idea if things get to hard for me to handle on my own I will get a man to help me out. When women say they are independent that just means niggga I don't need you right now.

Ain't that something? I like the softer gentler skytz...I am not that bad am I?

Skytz0100 said:

Wow, you articulated that very well, and we have something in common! Who knew!
Siren said:

I will say this I have been independent most of my life... I was onmy own at 17 and not at a university in a dorm either. Different strokes for different folks but I enjoy my life as it is. I enjoy being married to my husband and sharing the load. I never saw myself as being the housewife type until now... i would love to. I do not knock the independent woman movement but i do think that there is something great about healthy partnerships/marriages.

No, it means nigga I don't WANT you right now....

I moved out of my mom house @ 16..joined the military at 17, so I've been working since then and have never NEEDED a man, but Ive never been on no "Im independent" type of stuff. I have no problem, and have always asked any  man/friend (whenever I have one) for help, if I needed it or not.  Ive never exerted my independence to a man, but I KNOW what Im capable of, its none of his business 

 

 
Tone said:

Our socity does not teach women real independents . At the end of the day most women have the idea if things get to hard for me to handle on my own I will get a man to help me out. When women say they are independent that just means niggga I don't need you right now.

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