For the life of me Ive always wondered why folks want to be solely independent.  Like wouldnt you want someone by your side to help out when s*** gets EXTRA! Now im not saying to go through life like a wandering moron.  Get yourself together and do your thing, however some folks take this IM INDEPENDENT thing way too far

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Are you reading our responses and creating posts???

I'll lol at the GIF and sit back for the responses.

nah..i have convo's like this all the time with my gf in the mornin while im takin my mornin boo-boo.she's in law school so i constantly debate with her to keep her skills sharp lol.this was on our mind today

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

Are you reading our responses and creating posts???

I'll lol at the GIF and sit back for the responses.

I will say this I have been independent most of my life... I was onmy own at 17 and not at a university in a dorm either. Different strokes for different folks but I enjoy my life as it is. I enjoy being married to my husband and sharing the load. I never saw myself as being the housewife type until now... i would love to. I do not knock the independent woman movement but i do think that there is something great about healthy partnerships/marriages.

That GIF is hilarious. lol

xactly my point...i wont lie. i need a woman in my life for balance.if not i'd be tearing this world up lol

Siren said:

I will say this I have been independent most of my life... I was onmy own at 17 and not at a university in a dorm either. Different strokes for different folks but I enjoy my life as it is. I enjoy being married to my husband and sharing the load. I never saw myself as being the housewife type until now... i would love to. I do not knock the independent woman movement but i do think that there is something great about healthy partnerships/marriages.

My boo brags on my independance to his homies! I even heard him when he didn't know I was listening make the comment, "oh yeah baby independant to the fullest!". I must say I was proud and if he would have been paying attention I blushed, LOL! I can't help the independance either I have been doing this since 16, there was not really another choice for me. Yes, it's nice to have extra, and that is just what it is for me, extra. I don't depend on another person to take care of my bills, i do that one myself, however, i do need a little spending change her and their, gas for my car, you can go ahead and get me some tint and rims, and oh yeah, i need to set this appointment for my hair and my nails. LMAO!

Wow, you articulated that very well, and we have something in common! Who knew!

Siren said:

I will say this I have been independent most of my life... I was onmy own at 17 and not at a university in a dorm either. Different strokes for different folks but I enjoy my life as it is. I enjoy being married to my husband and sharing the load. I never saw myself as being the housewife type until now... i would love to. I do not knock the independent woman movement but i do think that there is something great about healthy partnerships/marriages.



Skytz0100 said:

Wow, you articulated that very well, and we have something in common! Who knew!

Siren said:

I will say this I have been independent most of my life... I was onmy own at 17 and not at a university in a dorm either. Different strokes for different folks but I enjoy my life as it is. I enjoy being married to my husband and sharing the load. I never saw myself as being the housewife type until now... i would love to. I do not knock the independent woman movement but i do think that there is something great about healthy partnerships/marriages.

to me that independance bs goes out the window when you're with someone.How can I be independent when I have to consider someone else. Independence to me means ME ME ME. not US US US

Skytz0100 said:

My boo brags on my independance to his homies! I even heard him when he didn't know I was listening make the comment, "oh yeah baby independant to the fullest!". I must say I was proud and if he would have been paying attention I blushed, LOL! I can't help the independance either I have been doing this since 16, there was not really another choice for me. Yes, it's nice to have extra, and that is just what it is for me, extra. I don't depend on another person to take care of my bills, i do that one myself, however, i do need a little spending change her and their, gas for my car, you can go ahead and get me some tint and rims, and oh yeah, i need to set this appointment for my hair and my nails. LMAO!

Our socity does not teach women real independents . At the end of the day most women have the idea if things get to hard for me to handle on my own I will get a man to help me out. When women say they are independent that just means niggga I don't need you right now.

lol..cant argue to much with that.lol If a male does that he's a punk ninja..a woman does that and shes just getting her life together lol

Tone said:

Our socity does not teach women real independents . At the end of the day most women have the idea if things get to hard for me to handle on my own I will get a man to help me out. When women say they are independent that just means niggga I don't need you right now.

Ain't that something? I like the softer gentler skytz...I am not that bad am I?

Skytz0100 said:

Wow, you articulated that very well, and we have something in common! Who knew!
Siren said:

I will say this I have been independent most of my life... I was onmy own at 17 and not at a university in a dorm either. Different strokes for different folks but I enjoy my life as it is. I enjoy being married to my husband and sharing the load. I never saw myself as being the housewife type until now... i would love to. I do not knock the independent woman movement but i do think that there is something great about healthy partnerships/marriages.

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