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My friend and I were having a discussion about money and ballers. I've never talked to a "real" baller, but she has talked to a few known ballers. We were discussing money and I say that she should have a few dollars saved where she can do certain things when she wants. She says that ballers don't give out money like regular dudes. I fail to find that true. From the regular guys I've talked to, I've always gotten money, I've been on a few trips, got niice gifts, money, rent paid, etc. Even when I was in high school, I was getting a few dollars, it wasn't lots of money but If a pair of Jordans, Deion Sanders, goose coat, etc came out - I had them. A few years back I invited her on a trip and she didn't come because of the money factor, That had me blown. (matter of fact it was two trips) You messin with a NBA/NFL player and he can't pay $300 for your plane ticket, or at least pay your rent/car payment for you so you could pay for it on your own???? I ask her do she ever ask for money and she says yeah, like $300..Im like what???? her argument is that she doesnt want to seem like other girls and make it seem like she only wants him for his money. I say f*** that - he gone ask you for p****, you gone give it to him, and he just figures you're an easy lay that doesn't cost a thing (this in my mind).
Im not saying she should have a mansion but damn, she should at least be able to call and say "Hey, can you get me a plane ticket to so and so or give me a few dollars on my rent". Thats my girl and I love her but she's always been iffy bout asking dudes for money because a mututal friend of ours, but i was messing with him, had to loan her some money before to get her car fixed but she couldn't get it from the dude she was talking to. HE told her, if these dudes can't give you no money you need to cut them loose. And the thing is that she is gorgeous, so she attracts them like crazy - I tell her, If I looked like you I would BE in a mansion by now.
Anyways my question is What do yall think?? Is it harder to get money from ppl with money than it is from guys without money. Im not saying ask dude to buy you a condo off top, but shyt like plane tickets, rent, car payments and things. Opinions?
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Permalink Reply by JustMe on -
who said anything about a good or bad woman??? This post aint about that. Bottom line, if you are dealing with a man or men, you should have your needs met, and hell your wants too...
Tone said:Nobody is saying that a man should not pay for a woman that is worth it. But the way you guys make it seem like just because she is female makes her a good woman and that is not the case.
Siren said:And a WOMAN has WAAAAYYYYY MORE TO OFFER than JUST P**** and a REAL MAN has no problem paying like he weighs for a woman that is worth it!
Tone said:And a man does not even make a woman his queen if all she can offer him is p****.
Siren said:My grandafather used to tell me it is a King's job to adorn his queen... it is a reflection of his character. A queen is worthy of the best a king has to give. Like CC said too many women are too worried about not coming off as a gold digger. Why if a man is courting you and wants to be with you should he not show you his ability to provide more than hard d*** and bubble gum?
Tone said:I don't agree but i understand why you feel the way you do.
JustMe said:
they're doing it anyway... they're saying that they aren't worth a damn thing... Tone said:
Maybe they don't want to put a monetary value on their worth.
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:
I don't understand why so many women have a problem coming off as a golddigger. Men don't have a problem being manwhores. As a matter of fact a lot of men consider it a compliment when you call them a manwhore. *shrug* Golddigger just means your bills are paid, you bank account is fat, and you are doing something right.
*shudders* Unpaid bills make me frigid.
Make a donation to a charity if your azz is feeling guilty.
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on -
What do you offer that would give a man a reason to do all those things for you?
JustMe said:
who said anything about a good or bad woman??? This post aint about that. Bottom line, if you are dealing with a man or men, you should have your needs met, and hell your wants too...
Tone said:Nobody is saying that a man should not pay for a woman that is worth it. But the way you guys make it seem like just because she is female makes her a good woman and that is not the case.
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Permalink Reply by mese on -
Smh. tone you remind me of a damn three year old always asking so many damn questions and clearly she offers alot if she got her man to put a ring on it and walk ddown the aisle!!!!!
Tone said:What do you offer that would give a man a reason to do all those things for you?
JustMe said:
who said anything about a good or bad woman??? This post aint about that. Bottom line, if you are dealing with a man or men, you should have your needs met, and hell your wants too...
Tone said:Nobody is saying that a man should not pay for a woman that is worth it. But the way you guys make it seem like just because she is female makes her a good woman and that is not the case.
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Permalink Reply by JustMe on
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Yes indeed... He takes care of me AND two boys that aren't his... So obviously, my husband and I both know my worth Tone...
mese said:Smh. tone you remind me of a damn three year old always asking so many damn questions and clearly she offers alot if she got her man to put a ring on it and walk ddown the aisle!!!!!
Tone said:What do you offer that would give a man a reason to do all those things for you?
JustMe said:
who said anything about a good or bad woman??? This post aint about that. Bottom line, if you are dealing with a man or men, you should have your needs met, and hell your wants too...
Tone said:Nobody is saying that a man should not pay for a woman that is worth it. But the way you guys make it seem like just because she is female makes her a good woman and that is not the case.
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Permalink Reply by Student Beauty on -
I agree....
MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! said:LMAO...... I feel you. I mean men have no problem demanding ass (as in Nala post) and think its okay, and obviously some women think its okay too - I just can't. Call me whateva kinda hoe you want, but if Im f****** you - you coming up off something. (Now, I have done a few just on the strength that I was horny/he was fine, etc, but it didnt happen more than twice) and its been YEARS since Ive done that
You need to ask her why she doesn't love herself. smh I do not understand this mentality. Purse first. Azz last. I'd have it on my tombstone if I wasn't being cremated.
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Permalink Reply by Still Pretty V on -
Ive never dated a real baller... small ballers around my city tho... and im the same way... i wont ask because i dnt wanna seem like other girls... but i do agree with u.. hes goin to ask for p*ssy so u minus well ask for money! Lol but its easier said then done... i feel like the guy should offer.. in my opinon
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on -
They should offer but they are not. Everyone wants something for nothing. I just get irritable and start saying what I need done. If needs don't get met by the man I'm talking to phone calls don't get answered or returned. It is as simple as that.
shavahn dedrick said:Ive never dated a real baller... small ballers around my city tho... and im the same way... i wont ask because i dnt wanna seem like other girls... but i do agree with u.. hes goin to ask for p*ssy so u minus well ask for money! Lol but its easier said then done... i feel like the guy should offer.. in my opinon
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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on -
BINGO!!!!!!! That's going to accomplish one of 2 things: he'll either do what needs to be done or stay the f**k out of yo face.........win/win
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:They should offer but they are not. Everyone wants something for nothing. I just get irritable and start saying what I need done. If needs don't get met by the man I'm talking to phone calls don't get answered or returned. It is as simple as that.
shavahn dedrick said:Ive never dated a real baller... small ballers around my city tho... and im the same way... i wont ask because i dnt wanna seem like other girls... but i do agree with u.. hes goin to ask for p*ssy so u minus well ask for money! Lol but its easier said then done... i feel like the guy should offer.. in my opinon
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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on -
You and I both know that the ones that are going to offer are literally already taken, LOL! So back to the drawing board to see what other options are on the table. And I am the same, no real ballers, maybe a few "street pharmaceutical salesman" but no real ballers. I don't like a dude built like a wall, i don't like big arms and legs, yeah you can be cut but umm no. Not unless you are Shannon Brown, LMAO!
shavahn dedrick said:Ive never dated a real baller... small ballers around my city tho... and im the same way... i wont ask because i dnt wanna seem like other girls... but i do agree with u.. hes goin to ask for p*ssy so u minus well ask for money! Lol but its easier said then done... i feel like the guy should offer.. in my opinon
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Permalink Reply by JustMe on
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I'm curious, did you offer him your puss or did he ask?
shavahn dedrick said:Ive never dated a real baller... small ballers around my city tho... and im the same way... i wont ask because i dnt wanna seem like other girls... but i do agree with u.. hes goin to ask for p*ssy so u minus well ask for money! Lol but its easier said then done... i feel like the guy should offer.. in my opinon
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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on
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lol
University of Smitty said:BINGO!!!!!!! That's going to accomplish one of 2 things: he'll either do what needs to be done or stay the f**k out of yo face.........win/win
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:They should offer but they are not. Everyone wants something for nothing. I just get irritable and start saying what I need done. If needs don't get met by the man I'm talking to phone calls don't get answered or returned. It is as simple as that.
shavahn dedrick said:Ive never dated a real baller... small ballers around my city tho... and im the same way... i wont ask because i dnt wanna seem like other girls... but i do agree with u.. hes goin to ask for p*ssy so u minus well ask for money! Lol but its easier said then done... i feel like the guy should offer.. in my opinon
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Permalink Reply by Tone © on
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You getting d*** it is a fair exchange.
shavahn dedrick said:Ive never dated a real baller... small ballers around my city tho... and im the same way... i wont ask because i dnt wanna seem like other girls... but i do agree with u.. hes goin to ask for p*ssy so u minus well ask for money! Lol but its easier said then done... i feel like the guy should offer.. in my opinon
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