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My friend and I were having a discussion about money and ballers. I've never talked to a "real" baller, but she has talked to a few known ballers. We were discussing money and I say that she should have a few dollars saved where she can do certain things when she wants. She says that ballers don't give out money like regular dudes. I fail to find that true. From the regular guys I've talked to, I've always gotten money, I've been on a few trips, got niice gifts, money, rent paid, etc. Even when I was in high school, I was getting a few dollars, it wasn't lots of money but If a pair of Jordans, Deion Sanders, goose coat, etc came out - I had them. A few years back I invited her on a trip and she didn't come because of the money factor, That had me blown. (matter of fact it was two trips) You messin with a NBA/NFL player and he can't pay $300 for your plane ticket, or at least pay your rent/car payment for you so you could pay for it on your own???? I ask her do she ever ask for money and she says yeah, like $300..Im like what???? her argument is that she doesnt want to seem like other girls and make it seem like she only wants him for his money. I say f*** that - he gone ask you for p****, you gone give it to him, and he just figures you're an easy lay that doesn't cost a thing (this in my mind).

Im not saying she should have a mansion but damn, she should at least be able to call and say "Hey, can you get me a plane ticket to so and so or give me a few dollars on my rent". Thats my girl and I love her but she's always been iffy bout asking dudes for money because a mututal friend of ours, but i was messing with him, had to loan her some money before to get her car fixed but she couldn't get it from the dude she was talking to. HE told her, if these dudes can't give you no money you need to cut them loose. And the thing is that she is gorgeous, so she attracts them like crazy - I tell her, If I looked like you I would BE in a mansion by now.

Anyways my question is What do yall think?? Is it harder to get money from ppl with money than it is from guys without money. Im not saying ask dude to buy you a condo off top, but shyt like plane tickets, rent, car payments and things. Opinions?

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on March 28, 2012 at 1:28pm

I hope you added your comment to the survivor scroll. We always tell them to ask for what they want but we never tell them 'how' to ask. My man will tell anybody, if times get tough, I'll get OOOGLY. He doesnt want to be bother with that sh*t so he makes sure my times dont get tough...lol

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

lol
University of Smitty said:

BINGO!!!!!!! That's going to accomplish one of 2 things: he'll either do what needs to be done or stay the f**k out of yo face.........win/win
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

They should offer but they are not. Everyone wants something for nothing. I just get irritable and start saying what I need done. If needs don't get met by the man I'm talking to phone calls don't get answered or returned. It is as simple as that.

shavahn dedrick said:

Ive never dated a real baller... small ballers around my city tho... and im the same way... i wont ask because i dnt wanna seem like other girls... but i do agree with u.. hes goin to ask for p*ssy so u minus well ask for money! Lol but its easier said then done... i feel like the guy should offer.. in my opinon

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on March 28, 2012 at 1:31pm

LOL

University of Smitty said:

I hope you added your comment to the survivor scroll. We always tell them to ask for what they want but we never tell them 'how' to ask. My man will tell anybody, if times get tough, I'll get OOOGLY. He doesnt want to be bother with that sh*t so he makes sure my times dont get tough...lol

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

lol
University of Smitty said:

BINGO!!!!!!! That's going to accomplish one of 2 things: he'll either do what needs to be done or stay the f**k out of yo face.........win/win
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

They should offer but they are not. Everyone wants something for nothing. I just get irritable and start saying what I need done. If needs don't get met by the man I'm talking to phone calls don't get answered or returned. It is as simple as that.

shavahn dedrick said:

Ive never dated a real baller... small ballers around my city tho... and im the same way... i wont ask because i dnt wanna seem like other girls... but i do agree with u.. hes goin to ask for p*ssy so u minus well ask for money! Lol but its easier said then done... i feel like the guy should offer.. in my opinon

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on March 28, 2012 at 1:39pm

LMAO!!!! Smart man! Will do Smitty! lol I think the thing with the young ones is that they are still finding themselves and don't realize that they have a right to be pissed when he fugged them, messed up their sheets, and they didn't even get a chicken mcnugget for their troubles.

I get pissed every time I get a bill. So if he didn't pick up the mail first, then I'm walking into the room with an attitude. lol

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

LOL

University of Smitty said:

I hope you added your comment to the survivor scroll. We always tell them to ask for what they want but we never tell them 'how' to ask. My man will tell anybody, if times get tough, I'll get OOOGLY. He doesnt want to be bother with that sh*t so he makes sure my times dont get tough...lol

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

lol
University of Smitty said:

BINGO!!!!!!! That's going to accomplish one of 2 things: he'll either do what needs to be done or stay the f**k out of yo face.........win/win
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

They should offer but they are not. Everyone wants something for nothing. I just get irritable and start saying what I need done. If needs don't get met by the man I'm talking to phone calls don't get answered or returned. It is as simple as that.

shavahn dedrick said:

Ive never dated a real baller... small ballers around my city tho... and im the same way... i wont ask because i dnt wanna seem like other girls... but i do agree with u.. hes goin to ask for p*ssy so u minus well ask for money! Lol but its easier said then done... i feel like the guy should offer.. in my opinon

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Permalink Reply by glamazon on March 28, 2012 at 7:44pm

The real question is why can't she afford a mere $300 flight herself??! I mean, it's hard to ask of these ballers, let alone anyone, things that seem far from your own reality sometimes. She needs to invest in an ugly, low IQ (if athlete), rich and talented baller who she can swindle money out of esp if she's attractive. He's getting what he wants out of the situation, get what you want. I really feel for girls who ration out the pums and dude won't even give em no light bread in the morning. Never forget, the only free market is the black market. This s*** is for the LOSS. This new breed of men don't like to spend on women they're pursuing, but a man who wants to be with you, pursued you coz he wanted you and liked what he saw. So he must romance me and make sure I end up liking and wanting him just the same. That's the formula! You either work my plan, or I work with someone else. Ain't no Plan B's over here.

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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on March 28, 2012 at 10:38pm

That I don't know.....don't know if she's saving it or what but shes attractive enough to pull ANY baller so thats one reason im so baffled...Ive seen one literally running after her

glamazon said:

The real question is why can't she afford a mere $300 flight herself??! I mean, it's hard to ask of these ballers, let alone anyone, things that seem far from your own reality sometimes. She needs to invest in an ugly, low IQ (if athlete), rich and talented baller who she can swindle money out of esp if she's attractive. He's getting what he wants out of the situation, get what you want. I really feel for girls who ration out the pums and dude won't even give em no light bread in the morning. Never forget, the only free market is the black market. This s*** is for the LOSS. This new breed of men don't like to spend on women they're pursuing, but a man who wants to be with you, pursued you coz he wanted you and liked what he saw. So he must romance me and make sure I end up liking and wanting him just the same. That's the formula! You either work my plan, or I work with someone else. Ain't no Plan B's over here.

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Permalink Reply by Lovelymeeh on March 28, 2012 at 11:08pm

"I say f*** that - he gone ask you for p****, you gone give it to him, and he just figures you're an easy lay that doesn't cost a thing (this in my mind)"

THIS!!! Im always confused how hoes sleep with millionaires yet go home to their lights turned off and a eviction notice on the door, im like what in the entire f***? Like if your not not getting money,then what are you really in it for? A wet ass and dry purse.

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Permalink Reply by RedPopsicle on March 29, 2012 at 9:38am

I have seen my home girl get alot of money from bum dudes. I actually do not ask men for money regardless if he has it or not but I do not say a word about needing money because I would hate for something good to end especially if we are starting to care and we are not in a relationship.

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Permalink Reply by BlkButtafly on November 28, 2012 at 2:38pm

Yea I can honestly say that's pretty much my problem

CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she said:

LMAO!!!! Smart man! Will do Smitty! lol I think the thing with the young ones is that they are still finding themselves and don't realize that they have a right to be pissed when he fugged them, messed up their sheets, and they didn't even get a chicken mcnugget for their troubles.

I get pissed every time I get a bill. So if he didn't pick up the mail first, then I'm walking into the room with an attitude. lol

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

LOL

University of Smitty said:

I hope you added your comment to the survivor scroll. We always tell them to ask for what they want but we never tell them 'how' to ask. My man will tell anybody, if times get tough, I'll get OOOGLY. He doesnt want to be bother with that sh*t so he makes sure my times dont get tough...lol

CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

lol
University of Smitty said:

BINGO!!!!!!! That's going to accomplish one of 2 things: he'll either do what needs to be done or stay the f**k out of yo face.........win/win
CCDreamin' of a baller for me said:

They should offer but they are not. Everyone wants something for nothing. I just get irritable and start saying what I need done. If needs don't get met by the man I'm talking to phone calls don't get answered or returned. It is as simple as that.

shavahn dedrick said:

Ive never dated a real baller... small ballers around my city tho... and im the same way... i wont ask because i dnt wanna seem like other girls... but i do agree with u.. hes goin to ask for p*ssy so u minus well ask for money! Lol but its easier said then done... i feel like the guy should offer.. in my opinon

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Permalink Reply by Danyelle on November 28, 2012 at 3:44pm

when you state your case what do you mean. Give me ex. Because I dnt like to ask for $$$ either BUT I also cnt be with somebody who doesn't do anything for me I feel like I should get it without asking like you should want to do for me if you want me to be your girl and in New York that worked for me but now I'm in fl. And its not providing the same results so I think I might have to try this approach but uhh. I never did it so I dnt know how to properly go about it lol

Golden Child said:

Right, LOL. It really depends on the situation, how long you and dude been jamming, and what type of person the guy is. Because truth be told every nigga with money aint coming up off it like that. Although if you state your case before you even give up the goods that will eliminate a lot of headaches and stress, IMO.

SACK CHASER said:

Shiiiiidddd, i dont know who told you that lie!

Tone said:
it is easier to get money from a broke dude then it is a rich dude.

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Permalink Reply by DallasBadYella on November 28, 2012 at 4:00pm

From my observations, the younger ballers 27 and younger are f****** with some many girls, that p**** is replaceable easily as soon as you start talking about needing money. They might drop a couple $$$ on shoes and purses, but paying bills and tuition you'll be hard pressed unless you stripper, they aint got no problem supporting the naked hustle.

I've had plenty broke men give me money, to the point that I had to ask them to stop, one was living in an efficiency apartment in Cali, sharing a bathroom on the floor, but weekly he would paypal me some $$ or send me gifts.

Alot of times it depends on the man, but if I say I need something, or you know I'm stressed and don't offer to help. You Gone.

D*** can put you to sleep, but I sleep better knowing my bills paid.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on November 28, 2012 at 4:01pm

Macbook pro!!! lol

SACK CHASER said:

Shiiiiidddd, i dont know who told you that lie!

Tone said:
it is easier to get money from a broke dude then it is a rich dude.

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Permalink Reply by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on November 30, 2012 at 12:38pm

I want a tee shirt that says this.

DallasBadYella said:

From my observations, the younger ballers 27 and younger are f****** with some many girls, that p**** is replaceable easily as soon as you start talking about needing money. They might drop a couple $$$ on shoes and purses, but paying bills and tuition you'll be hard pressed unless you stripper, they aint got no problem supporting the naked hustle.

I've had plenty broke men give me money, to the point that I had to ask them to stop, one was living in an efficiency apartment in Cali, sharing a bathroom on the floor, but weekly he would paypal me some $$ or send me gifts.

Alot of times it depends on the man, but if I say I need something, or you know I'm stressed and don't offer to help. You Gone.

D*** can put you to sleep, but I sleep better knowing my bills paid.