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Why can't I keep a man??? *UPDATE* AGAIN!!!!!!!
I swear I had this FINE SWEET CARING BALLER....I felt like a queen with him, then today I tell him we need to part ways....WTF??? I don't know why I do this s***...it's like, when I have an a****** I hold on to the mf but when I have a good man I f*** it up....I told him we need to part ways due to a stupid phone conversation we had last night....after a 3 hour conversation I f*** it up over the last 15 minutes...and I admit that it's my fault because I tend to OVER ANALYZE everything!!! And I tried to get back and apologize after I realized what I said but he wasn't having it... My daddy always says the most dangerous thing is a woman's idle mind...and I think mine went OVER BOARD....I think it's time for me to go back to my therapist....this s*** is f****** ridiculous...I am just so upset at myself............
So long story short....I went to get my things from his home, he cooked dinner and decided we should talk and I promise I AM NOT messing this one up again....
AGAIN!!!!!!!!!
WHAT'S THAT SAYING??? LET SLEEPING DOGS LAY???
DAMMIT I SHOULD'VE.......Well it's over for good..........what the f-ck ever!!!! Who wants to go out for some drinks???????
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Permalink Reply by Monica Amazing on -
Ally I do this very same thing! Go through hell and high water for the NUT and run scared from the Good Ones. Well, I used to...
I had to get right. I was tired of messing up a good thing with a good guy. I've sabotaged quite a few good relationships.
You have to figure out WHY you do this...
I had to realize that I wasn't completely over my ex. That somewhere deeeeeeep down inside, I still thought there was a chance we'd get back together and I didn't want anything or anyone to get in the way of it. I didn't even realize I felt this way or that I was sabotaging anything until it hit me..WHY CAN'T I KEEP A MAN?!?!?!?! lol
I'm past it now but it took a long time to get to a peaceful place with letting go of my past and excepting good relationships/good men into my life.
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Permalink Reply by Tiffany Elise Wilson on -
I'm glad to see I'm not the only one who does this, I swear I thought I was crazy! I still haven't found out why I like a******* and screw the sane ones. When and if I do I'll share my reasons for being scared for finding true happiness in a good man.
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Permalink Reply by Siren on -
Ally I used to be the same way.... it can be a self destructive pattern. I had a serious fear of failure in the love deparrtment and never wanted to end up being caught up... I had to change my way of thinking and put the negative traino f thought to rest and open up my heart and mind to the possibility of love. I had to stop playing hard and pretending that I didn't want what I really did. Most of all i had to take time to truly love myself and know that I deserved all that i gave myself and then some.
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Permalink Reply by Sheli on -
I swear this is/was me. I didn't realize it until I was thinking about an argument with my Ex and he said "Babe I'm not him" I kept on fussing though, looking back I'm like well I'll be damned...Lol
Monica Amazing said:
Ally I do this very same thing! Go through hell and high water for the NUT and run scared from the Good Ones. Well, I used to...
I had to get right. I was tired of messing up a good thing with a good guy. I've sabotaged quite a few good relationships.
You have to figure out WHY you do this...
I had to realize that I wasn't completely over my ex. That somewhere deeeeeeep down inside, I still thought there was a chance we'd get back together and I didn't want anything or anyone to get in the way of it. I didn't even realize I felt this way or that I was sabotaging anything until it hit me..WHY CAN'T I KEEP A MAN?!?!?!?! lol
I'm past it now but it took a long time to get to a peaceful place with letting go of my past and excepting good relationships/good men into my life.
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Permalink Reply by MissBling on -
This situation sounds very familiar, I think you may have some unresolved feelings that stem from a past relationship. It was hard for me to get over my ex, even in a new relationship. It took some time....
Sheli's Publicist said:
I swear this is/was me. I didn't realize it until I was thinking about an argument with my Ex and he said "Babe I'm not him" I kept on fussing though, looking back I'm like well I'll be damned...Lol
Monica Amazing said:
Ally I do this very same thing! Go through hell and high water for the NUT and run scared from the Good Ones. Well, I used to...
I had to get right. I was tired of messing up a good thing with a good guy. I've sabotaged quite a few good relationships.
You have to figure out WHY you do this...
I had to realize that I wasn't completely over my ex. That somewhere deeeeeeep down inside, I still thought there was a chance we'd get back together and I didn't want anything or anyone to get in the way of it. I didn't even realize I felt this way or that I was sabotaging anything until it hit me..WHY CAN'T I KEEP A MAN?!?!?!?! lol
I'm past it now but it took a long time to get to a peaceful place with letting go of my past and excepting good relationships/good men into my life.
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Permalink Reply by Elise' on -
yeah, go to a therapist and do not get back in a relationship--you are gonna really miss out on your husband.
I did this in my early 20's and quickly learned, this ain't it--switch it around..
hope it works out for you, at least you know where the problem lies, some don't and won't admit it.
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Permalink Reply by mese on -
This posts made me super sad. Im the same way. I did the exact same thing with my ex. Hoping we get back together I was f****** over everybody else. Smh. And untilhe told" idk how you put up with my all my bs, I would have been left me alone" and that woke me up. Well it kinda got me to thinking get your s*** together. I stop datiing perfectly good guys because I was still stuck on my ex. So now im on a mancation and don't deal with no guys right now until I get myself together. Its actually pretty refreshing. Its ok ally at least you know some women don't know better.. it took me awhile. To figure out what I was doing,
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Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on -
to all yall ungrateful hookers: send the ones yall throw away to me :-)
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Permalink Reply by tru2this on -
I guess Im the only one who doesn't get this. All of the men (BALLERS) i've had real relationships with I've worked DAMN hard to get them and I didn't want to mess it up over my female hormones. I know how to keep that s*** in check. If I got a good thing im not going to mess it up over bull, ignore your inner b**** and keep pushing. Because in the end all you do is come on here and complain about why you do the things you do. This baffles me.
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Permalink Reply by Creative Bee on -
I sabotaged relationship with men I fell out of love and didn't care anymore. I didn't chase anyone tho, I'm scared of any pain physical or emotional, I know I can't handle it so I try avoiding it at any costs. When i feel dude is up to no good I'm running like a racing horse and if he comes after me I do my best to turn him off.
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Permalink Reply by nycchickadee on -
I think you can't keep a man because you don't want to keep the ones you deal with and once you get that right one you will not lose him. Never settle for anything!
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Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on -
There's always ONE that has something negative to say.....can you go choke on an AIDS infested cow utter please....to the ladies that feel me..thanks....
tru2this said:I guess Im the only one who doesn't get this. All of the men (BALLERS) i've had real relationships with I've worked DAMN hard to get them and I didn't want to mess it up over my female hormones. I know how to keep that s*** in check. If I got a good thing im not going to mess it up over bull, ignore your inner b**** and keep pushing. Because in the end all you do is come on here and complain about why you do the things you do. This baffles me.
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