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Permalink Reply by Tone © on August 21, 2012 at 4:27pm

   I'm not going through all that hassle this is  just a rant because i really was trying to do something nice for someone. And she played me.

Sheli said:

She's gonna have Ray-Ray or Pookie on that MacBook checking videos on WorldStar, while you're at work working off that $2500 debt...smh...tighten up Tone. #ToughLoveBA style

Why would you buy some random woman a $2500 Macbook? A $500 Acer from Wal-mart is all she needed. I don't buy s*** for anyone they can't afford on their own, unless I LOVE them.

Do you still have the receipt? If so register it then tell her you're going to report it stolen  OR call the police and tell them you let her borrow it and she won't give it back. Or take it as a loss & move on.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on August 21, 2012 at 4:30pm

Ahem! A fool and his $$...... lol

University of Smitty said:

Not really.....
 
Kedrick Evans said:

Were you trying to be Nice or Flaunt like a Baller? I'm going to give you the benefit of a doubt and say it was a combination of both since $2,500 is a bit excessive to spend on a woman you are not and have never never F*****.  Should have been like, B*tch, You're getting a Dell"

Seriously, never give money or gifts with the expectations of getting either back and only give what you can afford but you have to admit, she played you pretty good. S***, everyone on this site is jumping at the chance to be your next puppet master. 

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on August 21, 2012 at 4:35pm

Would you believe your man just gave that much money and did not smash?

Desiree' said:

I would say maybe you should have a convo with your girl and give her the heads up in case the chick tries to be shady and ends up telling your girl anyway. It would be easier for you to explain everything to her first before the other girl ends up running her mouth. Trust me you have way more chance of her believing you if she finds out all details from you first. On the other hand she is still gonna be mad as hell that you spent 2500 on a macbook for a random chick. In her mind that couldve been 2500 spent on some ish for her. You gonna have some drama either way.

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on August 21, 2012 at 4:40pm

Nope.  And I dont believe you just gave that much money and didnt smash either.

 

......on second thought, yes I do  lol
 
Tone said:

Would you believe your man just gave that much money and did not smash?

Desiree' said:

I would say maybe you should have a convo with your girl and give her the heads up in case the chick tries to be shady and ends up telling your girl anyway. It would be easier for you to explain everything to her first before the other girl ends up running her mouth. Trust me you have way more chance of her believing you if she finds out all details from you first. On the other hand she is still gonna be mad as hell that you spent 2500 on a macbook for a random chick. In her mind that couldve been 2500 spent on some ish for her. You gonna have some drama either way.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on August 21, 2012 at 4:43pm

 You got jokes lol.

University of Smitty said:

Nope.  And I dont believe you just gave that much money and didnt smash either.

 

......on second thought, yes I do  lol
 
Tone said:

Would you believe your man just gave that much money and did not smash?

Desiree' said:

I would say maybe you should have a convo with your girl and give her the heads up in case the chick tries to be shady and ends up telling your girl anyway. It would be easier for you to explain everything to her first before the other girl ends up running her mouth. Trust me you have way more chance of her believing you if she finds out all details from you first. On the other hand she is still gonna be mad as hell that you spent 2500 on a macbook for a random chick. In her mind that couldve been 2500 spent on some ish for her. You gonna have some drama either way.

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Permalink Reply by luvsmoochez on August 21, 2012 at 4:44pm

Tone you don't have to be honest with anyone here, but you need to be honest with yourself, what exactly did you think you were going to gain from being 'nice' to her if in your words you weren't tryna smash?

Perhaps the lesson isn't that women are trying to use 'good guys', but being honest with yourself about ur intentions prevents others from lying to you.

S*** according to your 'pay back' schedule she would take almost 2 years to pay you back...that's a relationship! You sure you weren't trying to make sure that she stayed apart of your life? Your back up plan if things with your girl didn't work out?

How do you know this lady?

 
 
Tone said:

   I'm not going through all that hassle this is  just a rant because i really was trying to do something nice for someone. And she played me.

Sheli said:

She's gonna have Ray-Ray or Pookie on that MacBook checking videos on WorldStar, while you're at work working off that $2500 debt...smh...tighten up Tone. #ToughLoveBA style

Why would you buy some random woman a $2500 Macbook? A $500 Acer from Wal-mart is all she needed. I don't buy s*** for anyone they can't afford on their own, unless I LOVE them.

Do you still have the receipt? If so register it then tell her you're going to report it stolen  OR call the police and tell them you let her borrow it and she won't give it back. Or take it as a loss & move on.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on August 21, 2012 at 4:49pm

She is friends with my cousins wife.

luvsmoochez said:

Tone you don't have to be honest with anyone here, but you need to be honest with yourself, what exactly did you think you were going to gain from being 'nice' to her if in your words you weren't tryna smash?

Perhaps the lesson isn't that women are trying to use 'good guys', but being honest with yourself about ur intentions prevents others from lying to you.

S*** according to your 'pay back' schedule she would take almost 2 years to pay you back...that's a relationship! You sure you weren't trying to make sure that she stayed apart of your life? Your back up plan if things with your girl didn't work out?

How do you know this lady?

 
 
Tone said:

   I'm not going through all that hassle this is  just a rant because i really was trying to do something nice for someone. And she played me.

Sheli said:

She's gonna have Ray-Ray or Pookie on that MacBook checking videos on WorldStar, while you're at work working off that $2500 debt...smh...tighten up Tone. #ToughLoveBA style

Why would you buy some random woman a $2500 Macbook? A $500 Acer from Wal-mart is all she needed. I don't buy s*** for anyone they can't afford on their own, unless I LOVE them.

Do you still have the receipt? If so register it then tell her you're going to report it stolen  OR call the police and tell them you let her borrow it and she won't give it back. Or take it as a loss & move on.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on August 21, 2012 at 4:51pm

lmao

luvsmoochez said:

Tone you don't have to be honest with anyone here, but you need to be honest with yourself, what exactly did you think you were going to gain from being 'nice' to her if in your words you weren't tryna smash?

Perhaps the lesson isn't that women are trying to use 'good guys', but being honest with yourself about ur intentions prevents others from lying to you.

S*** according to your 'pay back' schedule she would take almost 2 years to pay you back...that's a relationship! You sure you weren't trying to make sure that she stayed apart of your life? Your back up plan if things with your girl didn't work out?

How do you know this lady?

 
 
Tone said:

   I'm not going through all that hassle this is  just a rant because i really was trying to do something nice for someone. And she played me.

Sheli said:

She's gonna have Ray-Ray or Pookie on that MacBook checking videos on WorldStar, while you're at work working off that $2500 debt...smh...tighten up Tone. #ToughLoveBA style

Why would you buy some random woman a $2500 Macbook? A $500 Acer from Wal-mart is all she needed. I don't buy s*** for anyone they can't afford on their own, unless I LOVE them.

Do you still have the receipt? If so register it then tell her you're going to report it stolen  OR call the police and tell them you let her borrow it and she won't give it back. Or take it as a loss & move on.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on August 21, 2012 at 4:53pm

How did she know you were 'ballin' like that?

Tone said:

She is friends with my cousins wife.

luvsmoochez said:

Tone you don't have to be honest with anyone here, but you need to be honest with yourself, what exactly did you think you were going to gain from being 'nice' to her if in your words you weren't tryna smash?

Perhaps the lesson isn't that women are trying to use 'good guys', but being honest with yourself about ur intentions prevents others from lying to you.

S*** according to your 'pay back' schedule she would take almost 2 years to pay you back...that's a relationship! You sure you weren't trying to make sure that she stayed apart of your life? Your back up plan if things with your girl didn't work out?

How do you know this lady?

 
 
Tone said:

   I'm not going through all that hassle this is  just a rant because i really was trying to do something nice for someone. And she played me.

Sheli said:

She's gonna have Ray-Ray or Pookie on that MacBook checking videos on WorldStar, while you're at work working off that $2500 debt...smh...tighten up Tone. #ToughLoveBA style

Why would you buy some random woman a $2500 Macbook? A $500 Acer from Wal-mart is all she needed. I don't buy s*** for anyone they can't afford on their own, unless I LOVE them.

Do you still have the receipt? If so register it then tell her you're going to report it stolen  OR call the police and tell them you let her borrow it and she won't give it back. Or take it as a loss & move on.

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Permalink Reply by Mochacashmere on August 21, 2012 at 5:01pm

Damn, $2500, you got her the Macbook with the Retina display? What did she say to you? "Umm, Tone I surely need a computer of the Apple variety. Is there any way you can help me out. I need it for my kids."

* Takes out notebook and pencil*

I'm listening....

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on August 21, 2012 at 5:02pm

  The thing is I'm not ballin.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

How did she know you were 'ballin' like that?

Tone said:

She is friends with my cousins wife.

luvsmoochez said:

Tone you don't have to be honest with anyone here, but you need to be honest with yourself, what exactly did you think you were going to gain from being 'nice' to her if in your words you weren't tryna smash?

Perhaps the lesson isn't that women are trying to use 'good guys', but being honest with yourself about ur intentions prevents others from lying to you.

S*** according to your 'pay back' schedule she would take almost 2 years to pay you back...that's a relationship! You sure you weren't trying to make sure that she stayed apart of your life? Your back up plan if things with your girl didn't work out?

How do you know this lady?

 
 
Tone said:

   I'm not going through all that hassle this is  just a rant because i really was trying to do something nice for someone. And she played me.

Sheli said:

She's gonna have Ray-Ray or Pookie on that MacBook checking videos on WorldStar, while you're at work working off that $2500 debt...smh...tighten up Tone. #ToughLoveBA style

Why would you buy some random woman a $2500 Macbook? A $500 Acer from Wal-mart is all she needed. I don't buy s*** for anyone they can't afford on their own, unless I LOVE them.

Do you still have the receipt? If so register it then tell her you're going to report it stolen  OR call the police and tell them you let her borrow it and she won't give it back. Or take it as a loss & move on.

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Permalink Reply by University of Smitty on August 21, 2012 at 5:06pm

Do you have a macbook of your own?

Tone said:

  The thing is I'm not ballin.

OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

How did she know you were 'ballin' like that?

Tone said:

She is friends with my cousins wife.

luvsmoochez said:

Tone you don't have to be honest with anyone here, but you need to be honest with yourself, what exactly did you think you were going to gain from being 'nice' to her if in your words you weren't tryna smash?

Perhaps the lesson isn't that women are trying to use 'good guys', but being honest with yourself about ur intentions prevents others from lying to you.

S*** according to your 'pay back' schedule she would take almost 2 years to pay you back...that's a relationship! You sure you weren't trying to make sure that she stayed apart of your life? Your back up plan if things with your girl didn't work out?

How do you know this lady?

 
 
Tone said:

   I'm not going through all that hassle this is  just a rant because i really was trying to do something nice for someone. And she played me.

Sheli said:

She's gonna have Ray-Ray or Pookie on that MacBook checking videos on WorldStar, while you're at work working off that $2500 debt...smh...tighten up Tone. #ToughLoveBA style

Why would you buy some random woman a $2500 Macbook? A $500 Acer from Wal-mart is all she needed. I don't buy s*** for anyone they can't afford on their own, unless I LOVE them.

Do you still have the receipt? If so register it then tell her you're going to report it stolen  OR call the police and tell them you let her borrow it and she won't give it back. Or take it as a loss & move on.

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